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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm stuck, my boyfriends birthday is soon and I don't know what to get.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for two months now, and his 15th birthday is in November. I havent really asked him what he wants for his birthday because I want to suprise him. So my question is, what should I get him. He is not really into sports, but... (130 words)

First he rejects me, now this. I'm confused, is he playing games with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so this guy knows I like him, I asked him out like 6 months ago and he rejected it by saying its because he doesn't really know me, but he showed signs of interest before so thats how I went to ask him out. Now that fall quarter has started he's been giving me more attenti... (384 words)

I'm unable to get over the thought that he doesn't like me too, please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. This isn't exactly a relationship problem. But it's still linked. Recently, I've had to come to accept that the feelings I had for a guy weren't mutual. I had sort of convinced myself that he fancied me. I'm still in denial and hoping that he likes me. I know I have to ... (157 words)

Boyfriend won't go wild in bed, is he not attracted to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I`ve been with my boyfriend for a year now and sex has it ups and downs but he tells me that he will not go wild me cause he respect me too much. He doesn't do oral sex cause he doesn`t see me as an object. Is he not attracted to me or does he see me only as a good friend? When ... (84 words)

Old friend only seems to contact me when he wants sex or am I missing something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, i have known this guy for about 20 years, im 37, he is 33. when we were younger we always met and flirted, and kissed a few times, but neither of us was single, so nothing happened. we both fancied each other but it never went beyond flirting. anyway, after not seeing ... (282 words)

We admitted we liked each other, but she acts like she hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically me and my female friend admitted we liked each other a month ago but we didn't do anything after wards nor talked about it. Now things have gone back to normal except now she keeps hitting me whenever I say something stupid and calls me funny names which she didn't b... (131 words)

What can I do to get over this? Am I completely nuts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've got this problem. I just got out of a very abusive six year relationship a few months ago, and there's all this court stuff to deal with. I came to terms with it, and was doing fine. Feeling much better, even relieved because the burden was lifted off my shoulders... (349 words)

He is ignoring my request to get back together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I broke up with my boyfriend because I thought he has another girlfriend/date. He told me that he does not have any. I texted him "that we can try again.And if you are not interested then tell me". He did not contact me in three hours so I texted him that he could te... (182 words)

My husband is always cheating on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age - i am an indian woman whois very sincere to her husband and family. We got married 30 years ago after 7 years of love with each other inspite of my parents unwiilingness they maaried us. My husband had cheated me earlier also many a times. and i was suspecting the same for the ... (297 words)

I'm confused and scared what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 in college and I maybe pregnant and if my college finds out I can be kicked out and if my mom and family find out I might not have anywhere to live and I'm so scared because part of me wants to keep it and the other part says no. I'm confused and scared what should I do? ... (63 words)

I do not want to leave without him because long distance relationships don't work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years, and living together for 3 of them. We have had many ups and downs. He has finished college and we have been talking about moving so that I may finish as well, we were talking about moving in October, I decided to go back ... (173 words)

I'm 16, and really concerned about my Love Life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm 16, and really concerned about my Love Life. Well i cant call it that, as i've never actualy had one. I've never actualy had a proper girlfriend, i've 'seen' girls but not been in an actual relationship. I always get mucked about by girls, whether the girl would g... (140 words)

I thought I got over being raped, why is it now all comming back again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This has been really getting me down so I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice... 7 years ago a boyfriend raped me, I was 16 at the time and I took it pretty badly, I didn't speak a word about it until about a year ago when I told my best friend. After the rape I was... (448 words)

I had an erotic dream about my teacher!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a dream last night.. and I was having sex with my teacher!! It was my 9th grade ELA teacher, we are very good friends and we perform at musical events often. But the strange thing is I could feel what was happening, like I could feel what he was doing to me, and when i ... (91 words)

How can I stop masterbating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I plessure my self sometimes but I feel VERY VERY shameful after i'm done. What can I do?? I've tried to stop doing it but its hard not to since I havent had sex for a while. Any advice?? Thanks.... (40 words)

What if she chooses smoking over me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey i have a problem with my girlfriend she used to smoke before we hooked up and quit when we became official because she knows that i wouldnt be with someone that smokes for reasons i told her. we are going to a party this Saturday and she said she wants to there because it a ... (480 words)

My father acts like I don't exist, how do I get him accept me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel like I don't have a father figure in my life as my dad ignores me, and doesn't want to spend time with me. He is my biological dad by the way, I don't have a stepdad. He's more interested in pursuing a feud with someone else than spending time with me. I've trie... (234 words)

Did I make the right move by backing off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) age 51-59 - so i meet this guy six months ago, we had a lot of fun together, no fights at all. His old girlfriends parents see us out together, so she begins to call him! so im sure now he has mixed feelings. They dated on and off for years, one sided from him, she had kids to two ... (108 words)

I'm worried about my pending boob job.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help! Im having a boob job done and worried that it will go wrong!Im so scared... (18 words)

He went cold after our first date but says he still wants to see me, is he just being polite?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We met briefly at an event one evening and made a connection. He asked for my number and it went from there. We talked a lot and hit it off on the phone for about 2 weeks before had out first date. Conversations lasted for hours and if we weren't on the phone.. we were tex... (436 words)

I will leave my husband as I have been living a lie, what is your advice?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age - When I married my husband I was so in love. I trusted him but recently found out he had betrayed me by spending thousands and thousands of pounds not only on gambling but on other women. I found text messages from a girl, called Claire... and I found that someone called Lia ... (652 words)

Need good remedies and/or painkillers advice for menstruation!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, this isn't really a relationship problem but I know all the aunts have great advice. The thing is, next week I'm off do do work experience for the whole week during my half term, but I'm due on my period either Sunday/Monday. Like many girls I suffer seriously bad with ... (178 words)

How do I cope with this stress...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - hi i am so stressed and soon i am going to live with my boyfriend without my parents knowing about us. i got lots of things in my mind such as courseworks, money, living, parents etc. im worried that i might have a breakdown soon. plz help.... (47 words)

I feel awful and don't enjoy the hookers I visit..how do I rid myself of this sex addiction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Im from the UK and just want someone to help me about a sex addiction before it gets out of hand. I am a 21 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend and just feels lonely. I have hobbies that i do (gym a lot) but for some reason recently i have been visiting brothel... (264 words)

He's younger and has a gf, but he won't stop hanging with me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a 34 year old divorce mom to a 6 year old girl. a couple of months ago, I met a guy at a bar with my friends. Turns out we live down the street from each other and were hanging out often watching football games on sunday. ect.ect. We have a chemistry and connection and g... (294 words)

My gf's family and friends keep coming and staying with us and I just want some privacy..help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriends' family is always living with us. All summer, we have had SOMEONE from her family to live with us, and we have had MAYBE 7 days/nights alone. It's a brother or sister, and thier girlfriend/boyfriend. they are still in thier late teens/early twenties, so they ... (174 words)

Is my guy cheating on me, because I found a condom wrapper!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I live with my bf and we have a baby together. I am 21 and he is 53. Our relationship is going great Except that he works a lot and is always tired. I know the typical scenareo where a guy is usually cheating when He is working all the time but I don't think that's th... (141 words)

Fell in love too quickly and now all we do is argue!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now,we're both 20 and it was amazing for the first couple of months.we fell in love really quickly and we were incredibly happy.But now all we seem to do is argue and now he feels that i dont love him because he says im the one that ... (81 words)

Think I've met ''The One" but I've slept with two of his best friends..help!.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 26 yrs old. I split up with my boyfriend in March, which was a mutual decision, even though we were both very upset to let it go. Since then I have been partying a lot, drinking and doing drugs to get out of my head. Not good! In June went out and met a guy who lived ... (379 words)

Treading on eggshells around my depressed partner...any advice on coping?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello All, Hope you’re well. I’m posting anonymously although I am an Aunt (it’s just to save hassle!). This is long and a bit of a ‘venting-session’ more than anything, though comforting words or advice will be very well received. Ok, I posted before with regards to ... (1003 words)

A great kiss--fireworks! Now, 3 days later, we haven't talked yet...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been good friends with a guy I met at work for over a year (I now work for another company). He's really out going and fun, but can be shy around women. We tell each other things we've never told anyone else and its great to have such a close friendship with him. Last... (173 words)

She's given up money and material things for love, to be with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Just looking for some input from women or men, anyone who has been with a lot of money and passed it by for true love. My fiance has dated several very wealthy OLDER men, and I mean very wealthy and I mean very older, like 30 years older. But now she is with me and we are in... (190 words)

Did I ever mean anything to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - About 2 years ago I dated a woman who was just out of a 4 year relationship with a guy she was obsessed with, she was on the rebound, we dated for 5 months, she went back to him and I was heartbroken I was in love with her. To make matters worse , this woman lived on the same... (655 words)

I started wondering what else is out there. Is there something better? Is he the one for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I am lost and confused. I am 23 years old. I have been in a relationship with my current bf for almost 9 years now. I have never questioned our relationship before, but recently I couldn't help but wonder what else is out there, is there something better, is he really the... (677 words)

How to get my boyfriend to be less distant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend alex for a long time now but for the last month or so hes been very distant. He wont answer my calls or texts but when i see him its amazing!! he takes me on road trips and long walks which i love but recently he wont answer the phone to me or t... (116 words)

I'm having a hard time because of the long distance, how can I get him to be more expressive with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been with each other for sometime.We are now in a long distance relationship because of employment. We still manage to see each other 3 weekends a month. We still get along great and have great sex when together. We are both in our forties. He still re... (230 words)

My partner's ex is always saying bad things to his kids about us so is it time to tell them the truth about their mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age - My partner is a very caring Dad who spends as much time as he can with his kids from his first marriage. They stay with us on a regular basis and he pays a regular sum to his ex via CSA plus pays extra towards sports, mobile phones etc. His ex goes away a lot for weekends, ... (298 words)

He thinks giving me a home and living comfortably should satisfy me enough and that my life isn't that hard.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't understand my boyfriend. Im not even sure I can handle his lifestyle anymore. He works away and when he comes home he drinks not heavily but over a long period. Spends alot of money and is out late. In the 4-5 days he is home he could drink for 3 rest for 1 and then he ... (506 words)

How can I save my marriage? He has told me he is only staying with me for the kids!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for almost 9 years and I am pregnant with our fourth child. I recently realised that my husband will only say I love you when I say it first. I have since stopped saying it so now I don't hear him say those words. My husband used to be so wonderful and would ... (210 words)

I feel like he makes no effort anymore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i dont reall know where to start, have been with my long distance boyfriend for a few years now, we usually get to see each other at weekends if not then fortnightly. he has cheated once in the past, it was the first time i had been cheated on, it hurt but we stayed together.... (941 words)

How do I deal with my passive-aggressive boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is consistently passive-aggressive when he doesn't get his way, and on many occasions has subtly made small jabs at me for various reasons. It's completely unnecessary and makes me feel terrible. Because of this I rarely compliment him or tell him how much I care ... (218 words)

My boyfriend's friends are very disrespectful to me! I cant hang around with them anymore but if I don't then I will rarely see my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

- My bf's friends are really mean and disrespectful to me, they put me down constantly. Its gotten to the point where I am scared to hang around his friends. I dread having to spend time with them because I feel so intimidated being around them and low about myself because of ... (378 words)

Help with my boyfriend that's addicted to porn, but still has sex with me. I feel like I'm his sloppy seconds.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend masturbates to porn everyday. He still has sex with me, but it makes me feel horrible about myself because I am a very attractive woman that is in my early 40's. I look very good for my age. Men tell me all the time that any guy would be thrilled to have me. My ... (190 words)

I'm cheating on my husband because his sex drive is non-existant, do you think it could be due to his high blood pressure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been cheating on my husband, only because our sex live is virtually non existence - try no sex for 2 yrs and before that lucky if I got it every 3 months. We have been married for coming up 8 yrs now. I have asked him a numerous of times why, but he get angry and just ... (138 words)

Haven't liked oral in the past -- suggestions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i was married for 9 yrs. my ex husband went down on me and i didn't feel nothing it was not pleasurable for me. so i don't really care for receiving oral. my current boyfriend wants to perform oral sex on me but i don't let him. this is issue because he gets mad when i don't. ... (79 words)

My friends think I'm a lesbian!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay. im 14. and my friends always say im a lezo. like, i like guys. well, i always used to, and like, this is the time when people normally start liking. and, well, i think girls are pretty, but i also appreciate guys. and there making me doubt myself. i get 'asked out' by ... (80 words)

I love him so much but he is cold and I just can´t take it anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I know it´s quite long but please take time to read my post. For the past few days (weeks) my boyfriend has been acting weird , cold and doesn´t talk to me as often (right now doesn´t talk to me at all or approach me ,speaks to me only when I´m the one to approach him. I´v... (716 words)

I'm married to someone else but he said he'd wait. Should I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have met a most wonderful guy, only thing he lives 2hrs away from where I live, so I dont get to see as we would like.The first two week of our relationship, we email and text contantly. One weekend he got a email from his EX, which upset him and told me she was poison in ... (234 words)

Body Acne Problems

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - [WARNING GROSS STORY. SORRY!] This is So embarrassing. So, I REALLY like this boy. and we are currently dating. He tells me I'm pretty but I feel like I'm the ugliest girl in the world. This is because I have horrible skin. I have acne and stuff, nothing no one else don't ... (517 words)

How do I deal with the trauma of having an abortion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - On August 26th I had an Abortion. I am only fifteen years old, and the guy I was with, is only sixteen. We are broken up now. I had an Abortion for numerous reasons. The fact that I could never be able to support it fiancially, and my ex boyfriend was a drug addict and a cri... (308 words)

Venus vs Mars

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - y do girls who have a bad past get called a slut and a guy called a player? and y when a girl is known for sleepin around and finds a good guy he is told to hang on to her no matter her past...but when a guy has a past of cheatin girls are normally told to avoid a situation ... (65 words)

What are healthy boundaries when dealing with a Narcissist?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A friend introduced me to the term "Narcissistic Personality Disorder" and boy did it open my eyes. My father has been an INTENSE narcissistic, an especially sly one, ever since I can remember.. and until recently I thought he just had issues and was 'improving', until my ... (676 words)

Am I being selfish for doing what I am doing and hoping she gets caught?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I still need Advice. Back in December of 2008 I reconnected with my high school sweetheart. We have not had contact since 1993. I was browsing around on Facebook and found her. I thought that it would be nice to catch up on old times with her. I knew that she was divorced and... (893 words)

What gives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok so here goes.. My BF and I agreed to take things slow. He said we needed to talk. This was after 6 weeks of no contact. He said he loves me and cares about me. We made plans to get together to talk and grab a bite to eat on Friday. Friday didn't work because he had t... (373 words)

Will the attraction develop later if I give him a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known this guy for around 2 yrs. We get along really well and we regularly meet and go out together. We're very good friends and we feel comfortable around each other. I've known from the beginning that he was attracted to me but I had told him that I want to stay just ... (254 words)

I want to get his attention!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this insanle hot guy, and I want him to notice me! I had been working at a trendy store in the mall for a while. I transfered to a different mall, that is where I saw the most handsome guy ever. I never spoke to him, because his beauty was intimidating. He spoke to me ... (250 words)

How can I convince her I am different?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

22 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I make her understand I really Love her?? She's been with her bf for 4 years now. But she wants to break with him because he had broke her trust on him so many times and hurt her emotionally. Her bf would'nt allow her to break up with him but they had already broke up... (236 words)

Why do I always expect to be cheated on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

22 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I just wanna say that for the most part my relationship is perfect, but for some reason, due to my past I always feel I WILL be cheated on. So far twice, even after fully going through whatever to make those people happy. Like I never did anything wrong, and they were ... (117 words)

What kind of flowers and stuff for homecoming?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help, again. I need ideas on what color and wat kind of flowers to get for the corsage for homecoming. She is wearing a purple dress(like a normal purple, like the kind markers are) And also, what does the guy wear ? A cordage tooo or what is it called ?... (53 words)

I am 22 he is 35, what do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey there it is me again, so being 22 i am thinking about dating a guy that is 35, do u think the age difference is to much? i am just tired of all the immature jerks that i have dated in the pass, they have cheated on me, lied and used me financially, i just want someone who ... (118 words)

I wanna lose weight... fast.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I wanna lose weight... fast. What is a way I can lose a lot of body fat and tone my body up fast?... (27 words)

Nothing I do is good enough!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so.. I have been living with my boyfriend for about 8 months. I am currently 7 months pregnant (obviously, with his child.) and I'm having major issues with him. I do everything I can to make him happy, but it seems like it is never enough. He never seems to apprecia... (220 words)

I like my sister in law in a sexual way! Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

22 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - this is about my sister in law. we are quite friendly. we used to talk many things and are free to talk anything. first place i love her as my sister and i have respect for her. she is elder to my wife and me. many times i saw that she kind of exposes her breasts semi to me. s... (267 words)

Do you think I made the wrong decision?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so, I've been seeing this guy for about a year now and my bestfriend doesn't like him. At all! He didn't really do anything to her all he did was agreed that she was a slut but the boy who actually called her a slut she still likes? I really like this boy, and me and his ... (124 words)

My best friend has a history of cheating and is now attracted to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my best male friends is currently in a long-distance relationship, and has been for about two months now. He has a history of infidelity but he insists that this time around, he has changed for good and will remain faithful. I tend to overlook his relationship habits ... (208 words)

Is it ever ok to give an ultimatum?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok everyone I need your advice. Is it ever ok to give an ultimatum? I have been with my boyfriend for five years and I have had it. We have been in the same holding pattern for the last three to four years not moving forward not moving backward only moving sideways. We are both ... (292 words)

She's 100% mediocre and I just want to get rid of her. How do I do this painlessly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

22 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so I met this girl a couple months ago, and we're dating now. This is the first girl I have ever had real feelings for. When I'm with her I turn to mush, I smother her and make myself sick to my stomache with how nice I am to her. She isn't amazingly gorgeous, she isn't ... (167 words)

What should I do with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I found out the other day that my ex still has feeling for me. She broke up with me a a little over a month ago and I just recently found out she has feeling for me. I have feelings for her too, I mean I still love her and care about her very much but I just don't think that ... (176 words)

Need birth control and have no way to get it..HELP!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help! I know I said im 18 but im realy 16 but I need help. I need birth control and I cant ask my mom or anyone for them?? I need advice! please help someway. My mom's outa the question ... (42 words)

I feel responsible for my cousin becoming a whore!

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22 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok when I was 9 years old I had sex with my cousin... twice. It was her idea to do it but I was curious so of course I didn't say no. I think she was 8 at the time. Of course being 9 It's not like it made me feel good or anything, I didn't get a boner or anything. It was sorta ... (265 words)

He knows I like him so why is he behaving like this?

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22 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi just wondered if you could make any sense of this as im slightly confused. A friend of mine(a guy) is a very nice guy in general. I wouldnt call him shy but hes abit quiet at times. We've had afew ups and downs in the past, lifes been made difficult people have been saying ... (509 words)

Why does he treat me differently?

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22 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16. ok here's my problem, i like this guy for over a year now. he's just so cool and i really like him, but he only likes me as a friend and he still likes his ex-girlfriend. i tryed getting over him and i can't. plus he knows i like him. ok so i've noticed that when he's ... (224 words)

Am I her booty call?

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22 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this girl about 2 months ago, we hit it off on the first date, on the second date she spent the entire weekend at my place. This happened for 2 more weekends, then one night during the week she told me that she had been having sex with another guy but was going to end it ... (307 words)

I hate the 'terms' we are on. Do I stay or move on?

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22 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had been seeing this guy for a little over 2 years. Back in July he had told me it was over. It ended because during the 2 years I was seeing him, he was engaged then got married, and well yes i was the other woman. Him and his "now former wife" split at the end of last ... (480 words)

I want another chance with him!

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22 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I used to date this guy and he was super nice and everything was good but things kinda just fell off after we had sex, I left him. I was hearing a lot from friends and I took their side even though he had done me nothing. I still like him. I want him back but I dont if I can ... (81 words)

Confronted my husband about porn, Was I justified or wrong?

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22 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guy,I wrote before about the porn lie problem. I told you about my husband denying that he watches porn. Well ,today I had conversation with my husband about that,He found on the history porn website that i was looking at,and he asked me if i was watching porn,I said yes ... (332 words)

First time sex...It felt good but not great. I'm wondering if this is normal.

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22 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I lost my virginity lastnight.. And it wasn't exactly what I had expected. Like, it felt good, but not GREAT. Is that normal for the first time? And also, there was this pain, well I cant say it was really a pain, more of like a weird pressure, an unbearable weird ... (99 words)

He told my friends he was going to kiss me. He keeps making up stupid excuses why he hasn't!

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22 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is REALLY shy. We've been going out for over two weeks and we still haven't kissed yet. When I text him, we can hold a conversation for hours, but when we are in person he gets quiet and barely talks. He is a year younger than me, and I am his first girlfriend, so ... (116 words)

He is deeply spiritual and senses spirits around him. Should I stay away?

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22 October 2009 (F) - Hello Advice please asap Ive met a great guy online and plan to meet me him on Sunday. He is deeply deeply spiritual, says he feels things, knows things, senses spirits and that he feels them around him all the the time.... His mother was a medium and his whole family... (122 words)