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writes:I am a bit confused by this guy. I see him around my local pubs quite a bit and he always had lots of girls around him. I thought he was a bit of a jerk. I had a feeling he had a thing for me because he would always stare at me and look at me when he was hugging other people.Anyway to cut a long story short a couple of weeks ago we were at a pub and when it was leaving time we all went outside and I was talking to some of his female friends. He came straight up to me and asked me for my number and then we all went back to his house. We all had heaps of fun and we slept in the same bed but didn't have sex. He dropped me off on Monday. He then texted me on Wednesday asking how my day was etc we sent quite a few texts back and forth over the next few days. We ended up meeting again on Friday and I went back to his house and nothing happend. HE dropped me off on Sat and we texted that night. I was really drunk on Sunday and sent him a text. Nothing back. And I havent heard from him since. It's been like 3 days. So do you think he has lost interest? Should I Just wait till he contacts me again?So confusing.
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reader, Dee_83 +, writes (21 October 2009):
Dee_83 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe text I sent him just said "told you my local was better then yours. I am smashed" I suppose we have only met a week and a half ago can't expect a lot.
He def isn't gay. We made out and stuff just didn't have actual sex. We texted heaps about books and movies we like and we seemed to have losts in common.
I supppose all I can do is just see if I hear from him. I am not going to worry about it though as maybe he is a player.
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reader, crispap  +, writes (20 October 2009):
Have you considered that he might be gay? Is that a possibility? I mean the hanging around and hugging a lot of girls, inviting you all over, sleeping on the same bed without doing anything..then texting you, getting together with you but again not making a move. Either he's a true gentlemen which is unlikely for someone who picks up girls at a pub and takes them immediately home with him or something weird is going on. Maybe your last text was a bit flirty and he backed away because may not be looking to have sex with you just have a good time and perhaps just make a new "girl" friend if he is gay.No matter what the case..if he wants to see you again he WILL text you back or call eventually. I mean, how else is he going to find you? If he doesn't there isn't much you can do about it, unfortunately.
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reader, Bobbyjo  +, writes (20 October 2009):
 What did you text him when you were drunk? I know from past experience that some men dont like drunken texts. Also, he comes across as a bit of a player and very confident. You say he has lots of attention from other girls. It seems to me that he was after your attention and once he had it he has moved on. Luckily for you, you didnt sleep with him. Dont make any contact with him and if he does make contact with you let him know that youre not prepared to play games.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): It sounds like this guy is playing the field and could have been more interested in sex as opposed to really getting to know you. You yourself have seen him surrounded by women which is your first clue...
I think if someone is really interested they will make the efforts to maintain communication. Let it go and don't torture yourself over someone who has not shown motivation to get to know you.
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