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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Depressed by his absence.....is there something wrong with me?

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21 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been through some shit in my life. i've pushed through drug addictions, an abusive father, promescuity, terrible decisions that ive had to live with. these things made me depressed and hurt at the time, however, they are all in the past now. right now my boyfriend is far ... (170 words)

Help...I'm gonna be single forever!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel really lonely. I've had a couple of broken relationships, about 3 years ago, but the last time i actually felt intimate with someone was about 6 years ago. I feel like the rest of my life is going to be the same, and sometimes it gets me that down i just think 'why ... (199 words)

Porn addiction vs wanting a real relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age - I have been seeing a man I have fallen in love with for nearly 3 years.I think he has an addiction to porn and I can't discuss it with him, but I need to understand more before I decide to walk away. We have both come from long term marriages and were both the "Dumpees". ... (595 words)

How do other women get over their husband's unfaithfulness?

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21 October 2009 (F)

age - PLEASE, How do other women 'get over' their husband/partner's unfaithfulness??? As far as I know it was 'only texting' sexy and flirty stuff but it's just too much to bear! I can't see myself EVER being able to cope xx... (46 words)

My girlfriend hid the fact she had a son. Could this indicate a potential pattern of lying?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Girlfriend of three months tells me via text message that she has a son. We just started getting slightly serious, and I still feel a little lied to. I am 25, she 23, I have no idea how old her son is. I had no idea that she had a son, not even any hints. Is she just ope... (164 words)

Opinions on protected sex in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I want people opinion on this. Watched Opra's show yesterday on how 5 woman were infected w/HIV by one man, that they actualy had a relationship with. They were talking how we all need to use condoms no matter how long you know your partner. I can't see how it's possible.... (247 words)

Religion in relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 October 2009 (?) age - Why do very religious people having problems in their relationships due to their own beliefs turn to Agony Aunts for help? ... (22 words)

I'm at a loss for new fantasies. Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I have sex 1 to 2 times a day. We both like kinky wild sex. The problem is that he often tells me to tell him my wildest fantasy, to not be afraid to tell him anything, to tell him something I haven't told him before. This really stresses me out as I have ... (263 words)

Could I be pregnant if I forgot to take the pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i had unprotected sex a week yesterday (13th) and i forgot to take two pills (contraceptive pill), today i have been getting small craps and little heartburn and i felt sick and faintish this morning, im due on my period in 9days. Also when i had sex (it was only 4days ... (67 words)

I know I can't have him so what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday I got word from a friend that that this guy in my school asked out this girl two years younger than him. I suddenly felt really uncomfortable, and sick, and, well, jealous. I realized that I probably liked that guy as more than a friend. When today the girl said ... (119 words)

Is there a better way to get love and loyalty from people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im the kind of person who doesnt give up on relationships easily, be it romantic or just friendships. Trouble is it means I often get treated a lot worse than i should. I have a guy friend at the moment and he is a real fairweather friend. I know a lot of people will tell me to ... (155 words)

My husband had a text affair with another woman and I can't take it anymore!

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21 October 2009 (F)

age - Hi all, yes it's me again!!! I don't know if I mentioned before that the woman my h/band was having a 'text affair' with said that at least it was the first time she'd done it unlike my h/band?? Anyway, if so I might have mentioned that he'd bought a Tiffany and Co pendant... (227 words)

Can anyone tell me if I'm pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi my name is Amelia it's my first time on here, I haven't have missed my period i think, I had a problem with my pill it was giving me cramps and my moods were ridiculous, so i stopped using it and i remember having my period fours weeks ago and i'm past my due date for my ... (164 words)

Who should I choose? I just want to be happy again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i really need some help, i don't think i've ever felt so confused in my whole life. Ok its quite complicated but here goes. Ok so i recently broke up with my boyfriend. We only really were bf and gf for 2 months, but have been seeing eachother for 6 months. We had an ... (687 words)

Is this guy playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A boy I like have a girlfriend. He does not know I know he have a girlfriend. But I know he likes me and he said heis interested in me some times. We were dating four three times. When we are together I see clearly how much he likes me and there are plenlty of such signs. W... (689 words)

My mom kicked me out and I have no idea where to go.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 16 (turning 17 in January) and my mom kicked me out. I don't know what to do because my Dad just got kicked out too (sensing a theme anyone?) and he lives with his mom so there's no room for me. This is the first night so I have no idea what to do... I'm staying with ... (117 words)

Am I not leaving my marriage due to fear and stability?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) age - I don't know what to do. I feel everyday, almost obsessively, that I want to leave my husband, after 25 years of marriage. But I have serious doubts to really do that. He is not fulfilling me emotionally at all. But I almost blame myself for feeling like this. I actually... (422 words)

Marital woes in paradise. Can anyone advise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I recently married a woman that i have been in love with from the moment i first saw her 8 years ago. there was a period of 5 years where she was with someone who really abuse her mentally physically emontionally and sexually and they have a son. when we met she believed that ... (463 words)

I flashed him online and now I'm worried he'll put it on Youtube...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi.I have something worry about last night. I had met with that guy on the internet. We chat at online last night. Its our first time chatting. We was chatting about 3 hours and we have little conversation about sex. And I've show him my upper body (breasts). I just worring he ... (105 words)

Is it ovulation or pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My period comes every 30-32 days sometimes longer so I can never be sure but its usually around those dates. My last period was on the 6th October and I had sex on the 9th 10th and 11th when I still had my period but it was kinda light then. Its been 15 days since my period ... (79 words)

How would you tell if a guy thinks you look good without him saying anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I was walking to the bus and my best friend Rob was sitting there as always waiting to talk to me. I sat down across from him and he started talking to me. Today was different though he kept playing with his hair and he always faces my way. The only thing different was ... (185 words)

The due date is coming up and I'm racked with guilt and worry about becoming a Mom.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend are due to have are first baby next month (29 days). I should be really happy about this but I'm just not. She wasn't a planned baby, she was a surprise as I have a medical condition. When I first discovered my pregnancy I was freaked out, feeling tha... (299 words)

Why does he get pissy and make comments when he doesn't get his way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years now. he is living with family and is unemployed still. he make comments in reference to us in the future. for instance, like us having home together, kids, etc.. but what puzzles me is that when something doesn't go ... (111 words)

What should I do with this new fear that stems from my dream?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The dream starts out with my crush/friend, R, playing Sorry with a friend in shop. Then I and his cousin /my best friend, Grace, started playing for him and the girl while they do work. He comes over and sits next to me, my crush. We were playing, talking, and laughing. Then ... (225 words)

I'm ready to go to second base. How do I get him into action?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to go to second (feeling up) with my boyfriend but he always acts sexually awkward. He is really nice and I really like him and I can tell he likes me. I just feel like I am more sexually mature than he is and I don't know what to do. ... (53 words)

Should I continue and see where things go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at a concert and we instantly connected. He asked for my number and called me the next day.. we talked for hours each day and when we weren't talking we were texting. We just really got to know each other and it seemed like we had a real connection. We planned on ... (867 words)

If I am a virgin, am I able to have an orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What if he says no? I really like this guy and want to take it further than friendship but what if he does not like me more than a friend? I feel like I am falling in love with him but he does not like me. He gives me a hug everyday but only if I hold out my arms and we danced ... (97 words)

I cant get enough...Has anyone felt this before?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im 18 and i really like this guy who is 33 years old he likes me too , we know it's wrong ,but just can't gt enough of each other has anyone ever felt this before?what to do?... (38 words)

I want to go for it, but I physically can't! I'm too nervous!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey guys heres one for you: its the usual girl meets boy and boy doesnt know she exists. i met him last year on a trip to Normandy when we were on the same coach and ever since then ive constantly been thinking about him. so recently ive asked for advice from friends and fami... (153 words)

I know it won't work but he won't let me leave.

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21 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help! This is my situation. I've been dating an older man for about a month and a half now. He's thirty three and im only nineteen. A short time before we started seeing each other he had just broken up with his girlfriend of three or more years. He was heartbroken, and ... (179 words)

She has lied the whole time, should I still be with her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. Just wondering if I could get some advice please. I met a woman on a dating site and she told me she has not had sex with anyone for over 6 years. She told me she did not bother due to being cheated on in a previouse relationship. I thought this was great becaus... (196 words)

What can I do to overcome my time constaints and pass my math class?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well this isn't really a relationship question but you guys tend to answer questions well better then yahoo most the time so im going to ask anyways. I am current enrolled in collage and i am taking an algebra class, i have no problems doing homework most the time and eve... (565 words)

2 people have asked me now if I really like him...why doesn't he ask?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Basically there's this guy that I see every Wednesday and Thursdays I haven't spoken to him yet because all his friends keep running up to me and asking me I set you up with Scott etc...And yeah he likes you blah blah...I don't know if they are the ones that like me?. ... (321 words)

What could she be talking about?

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21 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - A friend (female) of mine is being very cryptic... my boyfriend and I spent time with she and her husband a few months ago, had a wonderful time and have not seen them since. She (friend) was extremely intoxicated and was licking my boyfriends neck and sucking his fing... (200 words)

I'm just not sure about this...?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my boyfriend is 18, I'm 15 we have been talking about having sex but we are extremely worried about the laws, my mom is ok with it so really we wouldn't get intto trouble but we want to be as safe as possible. I have looked up missouri laws and it says its illegal if one ... (111 words)

He said "'I just want you to want me". What does that mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What does it mean when a guy says 'I just want you to want me'? Yesterday I was talking to this guy who i had been dating on and off... we were talking about one of our guy friends and he said he felt happy we were having that talk. He then said he was going to be blunt, t... (120 words)

How do I break it to my boyfriend that I'm in love with my best friend?

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21 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I break it to my boyfriend that I am in love with my best (guy) friend? Background info: I met my boyfriend and best friend around the same time (2005-2006ish). I met my boyfriend on vacation in another country. I have family who live there, he was a family friend, w... (700 words)

We like to do it in unusual places, is there something wrong with that?

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21 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My lover and I are into finding unusual places to be together. We like the risk, but are not all out into public displays. For example, the other night we met in a neighborhood park (it was empty, dark and away from homes, but at the same time it gave us that rush that we ... (94 words)

How can I spend time with her in my own home before I leave for active duty?

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21 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old and enlisted in the United States Airforce. I have a girlfriend well ex now girlfriend who is 16 years old. I have been dating her since i was 14 years old and I lost my virginity to this girl. My first true love and basically only at this age. I love her so ... (181 words)

Is he just leading me on? Why doesn't he call me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a childhood friend (guy) whom I lost contact for so many years. We weren't close though but we used to sat together in primary school. Somehow around April this year we were re united again through Facebook. He lives in United States currently and I live in Singapore. ... (224 words)

I don't think I'm ready to settle down yet

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I’m 21 and my boyfriend is 24, we met online and have been together for about 4 months now... He’s my first real relationship; all my other experiences have been disastrous one offs and this is the first time I’ve actually been on actual dates with someone for ages... H... (323 words)

To tell the truth or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - just out of curiosity ... i dont need negative answers im just wondering.. which is worse.. not telling your significant other that your pregnant? Or sleeping with someone else and giving your girlfriend the clap?... (35 words)

Ex is being mean to our friends and now to me too!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone. I really appreciate any thooughts or opinions anyone can give me on this problem. My boyfriend broke up with me during the summer and I found it really really hard. A lot of the time it looked like we were going to get back together but it never happened, and a ... (235 words)

I want to stop self bondage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am addicted to self bondage. i call it addiction coz i think it's wrong. i'm trying to give up it. but still when i see any bondage picture unintentionally it disturbs me. i don't have sufficient knowledge about sex and i'd like to know few things. will i enjoy sexual ... (92 words)

Are girls in this country just shallow and racist?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm a 22 years old male living in the UK. I'm originally from Japan, however I've been living here for a long time, since i was young. I don't know if this type of things should be asked on here, as it's not directly linked to existing relationship.. but anyway, ... (293 words)

Best g/f and I don't have anything to talk about!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically me and my best female friend used to be able to talk about anything and things used to come naturally so we have fun but about a month ago we admitted we liked each other, we haven actually gone out as a couple but we used to as friends and we haven talked about our ... (155 words)

I have low self esteem, slept with another guy and know I should tell my b/f but I'm afraid!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

21 October 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. I love him so much; he is gorgeous, intelligent good job etc. I could not ask for someone better. From what he has told me he feels the same way about me. However we have big relationship problems, which have led to me doing ... (628 words)

Am I just being hormonal or is it a bit odd that he wont tell me who was giving him a lift home?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance is just coming back from working from home. Im in the last stages of pregnancy and we love each other very much. Hes usually really open about things and tells me what he is doing. He told me on the phone that he was getting a lift home from a work friend - he sound... (196 words)

My partner has been sending sexy emails to women, is he having an affair or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 25, and my boyfriend's 24, we met at a gay men's football club, and have been together for 18 months now. We moved in together in March, he proposed to me and we started planning for our civil partnership, and life was good up until last Wednesday, when I discovered he'd ... (186 words)

She left her ex for me, so what is the chance she will do the same thing again to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I just want to know if im being stupid, paranoid or whether im justified in my thoughts. My current girlfriend left her ex to be with me. We knew eachother for years, the whole time she was with her ex, which was 6 years. Anyway i always thought she was a lovely girl an... (403 words)

Ex having sex with new b/f and I can't stop thinking about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've already had a question regarding the break up of me and my girlfriend of 3 years. I now have a problem i'm dealing with. We've been apart for a week and 2 days now. 2 days ago, she started dating this guy. I accept that, but I continue to keep on thinking about him and her ... (189 words)

Is my boyfriend cheating or am I being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help me, I'm having a bit of a problem with my boyfriend and this girl he has been texting, it started a couple of months ago when he started talking to a girl that he has known for a while but I don't know at all. He told me once he had a crush on her because they got... (663 words)

How can I make her understand that I am not comfortable with her seeing her ex's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age - The other day my gf of 4 years (we have known each other well for 9 years) went to see an ex of hers for coffee at his place. She omitted to mention it at the time and it came up in conversation last night. This ex was someone she had and 'involvement' with just before we ... (558 words)

I'm supposed to get married next month but I am in love with someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Adnan from Pakistan, 30 year old man next month i will get marry, but im not intersting in marriage because, i already engaged in married women she live in Canada, nationlity of Indian she love her family ( brother, sister, mother, father and husband. she can't leave her family ... (156 words)

Questions about my ex: Does she still have feelings for me and why am I so bothered by the idea of her having sex with her new boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - [Moderator's Note: 2 Questions from the same poster have been merged together into one post] Question 1: Me and my girlfriend recently broke up a week ago after being together for 3 years. We do have a daughter together. Since we broke up, all I have been doing is trying t... (868 words)

Am I a lesbian?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. I have been wondering about this for a long time... I think Im a lesbian. I have a crush on a girl at school and have for a year. But I have always been attracted to girls since primary school. I really like big hands too. I also like short hair. In primary school I... (213 words)

Does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently made a new guy friend and he and i have become good friends in the time being which was about a month. this past week we have been getting closer and have started talking on the phone and stuff. today i realized he was less perverted, respectful to me and he spoke in ... (140 words)

Why can't my friend be supportive of me as well?

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21 October 2009 (?) age 41-50 - My friend always has to have things done her way- she always expects me to drive over, pick her up, and go somewhere. For example, she'll say she wants to go to the mall to get a shirt. She only talks about herself- her problems, her life, and so on. She will ask me how work is ... (349 words)

He cut me off suddenly....what did I do wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - he cut me off and i just dont know what i did wrong.. I dated this guy for a month,we always had a good time toghether and he said so himself, we were double dating alot with his friend and my friend which are now b/f and g/f...he was affectionate with me and i felt stron... (412 words)

Guys: did you give it another go if you thought she was worth it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Guys, I was involved with someone 3 months ago. We were only seeing each other for about 6 weeks, it was a long distance thing. However, we talked on the phone daily for hours and text'd message in between, etc. We clicked extremely well, and we made each oth... (452 words)

My husband is very dry in bed. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i m female from india in early forties .married ,mother of twon grown up boy and girl,my problem is my sexual desires ,,what my husband never understand he is 14 yr older than me diabetic ,,he is loving and caring but not intrested in physical activity we live like brother ... (83 words)

Is holding out on sex normal when dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating to meet the right guy. I don't put out until I know its right and we have the discussion to be exclusive. It seems after about 4 dates the guy doesn't call. What is the standard of putting out dating these days (I've been out of the dating pool for 5 ... (274 words)

Going to Homecoming in a week and don't have any ideas on what to do after!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Need Help quick ! Going to Homecoming in a week and dont have any ideas on what to do after. Any suggestions ? Please Help!... (25 words)

Dating 1 girl but still love another

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Please Help Me :( Okay, Im dating this girl but i still have strong feelings for my ex which happens to be my best friend (yes, i have a best friend that is a girl. who doesnt?) I got expelled from my school so i dont get see them that much. I talk to both of them every ni... (420 words)

I don't want this feeling anymore!

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21 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so there is this girl who at the moment i am crazy for. the thing is i'm pretty sure she doesnt like me. it all started a few months ago. we had always been friends but lately she started talking to me a lot and always wanting to hang out. i just thought ok she's a cool girl. ... (317 words)

I want to lose my viriginity!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So, I'm 17 and my friends around me are losing their virginity.. This one kid can hook me up with other virgin.. yada yada yada.. so i want to lose my virginity.. but i dont know how to approach this.. I'm really shy and slightly overweight, with no self-confidence.. what ... (53 words)

My girlfriend had a one night stand with a professional athelte before we met.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend recently told me that a few months before we met she had a one night stand with a famous professional ball player. She wanted to be open and I think that is a great thing. We have a great relationship, we are madly in love and its like something from a sapy ... (235 words)

Women seem to dislike nice guys!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I asked this girl out i have like for a long time a month or so ago and she said no and said she didn't like me like that, and that we had been friends for to long and thought it may end up kind of awkward. Well she could tell it sort of aggravated, and went about my day like ... (346 words)

Whats the trick to coming across as confident in writing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Writing and speaking with a girl you've just initiated contact with can have different effects. When you write her (online dating), she has preconceived ideas about what most guys are like. So if you write 'You are beautiful' that can come off as lame and boring, e.g. average ... (88 words)

I'm aroused 75% of the time, and my girlfriend is getting irritated...what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

21 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have this problem that is beginning to irritate my fiancee. It seems like I am aroused 75% of the time Im around her. I was never aroused that often around women in past relationships. I cant explain it. I just really love her, and she turns me on all the time. I dont think ... (77 words)

Should I just give her time?

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21 October 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I met this girl in the beginning of the year of school and I got to know her and began to like her. She had a boyfriend ,but they broke up because he was not being a boyfriend to her. We were texting and I mentioned how her friend had said we should go out and then she said she ... (127 words)

I want this to work since I can't prove he cheated. Any ideas on getting my confidence in him back?

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21 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with this man for over 3 years now, I'm very committed to this relationship. I've had a hidden fear that he's cheated on me since sometime in our second year together because our sex life drastically changed. Then last month I found messages in ... (305 words)

I cum too fast and it's ruining my relationship!

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21 October 2009 (M) age 41-50 - hello here is a little background.. I'm 26 years old, and I live with my 19 years old GF, we now eachother for 1 year and been in relationship for about 5 months, she is by far the most pretty woman I ever had, she is just gorgeous with a awesome body, and a VERY sexual pers... (482 words)

Can any males or male teachers tell me what you think?

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21 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay guys, tell me what you think There is this awesome male teacher that used to be my band director in 6-8 grade, but now he is my freshman ELA teacher. We go to church together, and (i play the flute and he plays pretty much everything) perform together often. We see ea... (344 words)

How can I focus on being just friends when he's all I want in the world?

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21 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like ive recked my life. Im not to sure what to do or where to start. The love of my life happens to be a friend. We met through being on the same course, i thought he liked me(i wont go into detail with the reasons let just say it was obvious, to both me and others) ... (837 words)

Does online dating always have to go south?

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21 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I dont know what to ask here. I am alone in my life, and everytime I meet a new woman, I always become possessed with thoughts. Like its all I think about and it drives me mad. I think its because Im a lonely person, but I cant help that. I met another girl the other day, o... (348 words)

Will a controlling person know when they have lost control?

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21 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - If you leave someone who controlled you for many years and now they cant even contact you or know where you live, will they know now that they have lost control of you? I feel so much better knowing that person doesnt even know where i am.... (47 words)

Is he freaked out by the idea of commitment?

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21 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so dense when it comes to figuring out what's going on in a guy's head, especially when I like him (as is the case now). One minute I'll think he's interested and the next he'll do something to make me change my mind. Full story (sorry about the length!): I met ... (485 words)

Was his reason for breaking up a cop out?

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21 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My new boyfriend broke up with me, he says, because he was laid off and needs to figure things out, and he's probably moving across country to NY. He's on a work visa, so if he doesn't get a job he'll get sent back to India? I'm not sure I think this is a good reason to b... (227 words)

I'm upset that he said he tried to love me but couldn't. Am I not loveable?

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21 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am confused about something and lookign for other people's perspective. I'm gay, if that matters, and have just been dumped by my boyfriend of 4 months.I always wondered his true feelings for me, and it was upsetting me a great deal, so I asked him why he ended it. He ... (115 words)

I'm afraid of running him off by requesting things for myself!

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21 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I recently being three months ago started dating a guy 9 years younger than me I am 29 he is 20. I lost my father on fathers day and then my husband left me 2 weeks after his passing. I was freinds with the guy I am dating now for a few months ad we were both in ... (487 words)

What should I do if I've been turned down 10 times by girls in 3 months?

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21 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What should i do if i've been turned down 10 times by tons of girls, in 3 months? I'm nice to them, and it seems like they always say either: No, I'm taken, or I'm not looking for a boyfriend at the momnt.... (43 words)

Did he cheat because he doesn't believe I won't hurt him?

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21 October 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I have been going out since May 2nd. I had a feeling 2 months ago he had an affair. so one night we were laying in bed and I asked him if he had ever had sex with her. he said no way not with all those stretch marks and flab. I knew then that he had slept with ... (479 words)

Can a girl get pregnant from dry humping?

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21 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my boyfriend went to the movies on Sunday. And we got caught in the moment so we started dry humping we both had our clothes on though. I ***never*** took my clothes off and neither did he. But when i got home i checked my pants and they were wet. I asked my ... (178 words)

How can I change myself so I'll forget about him?

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21 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody. I used to post about my boyfriend before. And finally we broke up. But we still talking like friend. I think I still love him. Yeah! for sure I love him. I still worry about him. We talk at day time after we broke up, but I called him now (its at nigt like ... (134 words)

Shouldn't we live life with the person we love?

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21 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - In love with a woman I've known for almost 20 years. We've always been close, always best friends, always felt a special connection. Over the years we've loved each other strongly and consistently, but our timing for a relationship has never worked in our favor. We've been in ... (181 words)