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female
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36-40,
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writes:for the past few years I have been masterbating and thinking of having sex with a girl but I have never done such a thing but it's always on my mind. I started having sex in early march at the age of 22 but long before I started having sex I always think about doing it with a girl, I am not attracted to all women just some I am very picky.I am wondering if i should go ahead and do it cause I never stopped thinking about it, when boyfriend performs oral sex on me I feel like he is not doing it right i feel like something is missing and a female would do it better,I sometimes think that a woman would know exactly what I want. am I a lesbian?a freak? I am a bit confused.
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reader, alwayznd4eva116  +, writes (13 November 2009):
 i dont think your gay. i think your curious. as am i. i mean the two people who have given me oral did it GREAT. no complaints. and im not gay at all, but i have been thinking about how it would feel with a female doing it because of all the things i hear, like how they know a womans body therefore they do it better. i want to try it but i never questioned wether i was gay, bi, or what. because i love men and i love what they have. i think im definetly gunna try it once i find somebody, whu i dnt know and is willing to keep it a one night thing. go head and try it girl, it mite be fun. your still young so enjoy life now !!
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reader, openmind +, writes (29 October 2009):
I doubt your a full blown lesbian but i believe you may be bi i have had alot of my strait friends tell me men arent so good at going down on women but who is to say just because a woman knows what she is doing and you like it better that you are gay. There is so much more involved than that. I reccomend some experimenting with women. If men turn you on and satisfy you in the bed then like i said you may be bi but honey you will never know until you try so indulge in your fantasies for a night and see what you like!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009): well most girls do think about it also just dont say anytthing i do the same but i dont think either u or i r lesbians its just something that turns u on im very picky at my lady too i also have never been with in woman so i have brought up a three sum with my guy but the thing is i couldt pic. him doing her but eveything else to me sonuds fun u know its more bout me ant her doing r thing im very opened minded but i think its something i should do not just for me but my man too i well always need a men just think a woman could turn me on more then a man girls have sexy bobies well most like i said picky so if this the same feelings u have be open to your men and see if he would want to join after u have your fun first lol or just be ok with u trying it he may even like just being in the room pleases his self if u ladys want it all about u but always rember his feelings after four year could make or break u so best wishes its even harder finding someone u can trusth never make it anyone u or he knows that well always be a prom just think it just might be a one time thing and how weird right well would love to hear what u decide
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reader, called Steve  +, writes (20 October 2009):
 If you're happy with a BF, you may just have an active imagination!
Mind you - I dont think about having sex with a bloke so - maybe you are! LOL
Seriously though - if he's not doing things right - you should be telling him not wishing it was a woman because a woman MAY do it better... teach him, show him learn yourself what you like dont just assume a woman could do it better!!!
Good Luck! - Steve
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