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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm worried about my son's safety when he's with my ex. There is blood in his diaper, but what can I do without proof?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 yearsold and I have a 21 month old son and I am seriously worried over my son's safety when he is with my ex boyfriend. On tuesday after I picked up my son he was really upset, and cried the whole way home. When I went to bath him I noticed that there was a little ... (145 words)

A fool in a bad situation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I had sex again for the second time again unprotected. I turned around and had sex with the guy I wrote a previous post about which was my first in regards to why he was ignoring me. I like him so much that I don't know what to do anymore. I can't get over him but he's not ... (216 words)

She looked at my lips! Does this mean anything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a 14 year old female who is bi, and I like a 13 year old female who is straight. She knows I'm bi, she knows I like her. We've known each other for almost 3 years. I've liked her for about 8 months. Anyway, you don't really need all this information, but this morning we ... (123 words)

Either make me your girlfriend or leave me alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello so Ive been dating this guy for almost 2 years and not to long ago we went back to campus of our school. And all the sudden he brks up w me but acts like nothing happened and invites me over keeps in touch but less and also hangs w his friends more. And when they are busy ... (136 words)

Will I mess up my womb in some way if I take this pill?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im on the pill, have been since June. I changed to yasmin 2 packs ago, im about to start 3rd one. i had to start my pill free week 2 days earlier (lost 2 pills and had to take back ups so only had 19 taken) but rang doctors and they said it would be fine as long as i only had a ... (177 words)

He makes plans just to break them over and over again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a guy for several months. We had gotten along GREAT! Not so much as one disagreement. He was very attentive, thoughtful, talked about the future a little bit for us, and over night, it all changed! He stopped calling back, yet tells me to call him. He ... (155 words)

Will he forgive me for cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together for several years. We live together, and have for the past 3 years. After years of being together, I cheated on him. I am not going to make any excuses. I know what I did was wrong. I knew it when I did it. I was not drunk. I am not ... (157 words)

During sex I decided it wasnt right..was that rape?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met up with this guy and concented to sex...then during sex I decided this wasnt right and asked him repeatedly to stop....he didnt, I even tried moving but I wasnt strong enough, when it was all over I just let it go and stayed the night....I have also seen him on a few ... (63 words)

What color do women like? And do they like them curved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm 18 and i hav curved penis,altough its doesn't seem to be curved when its relaxed but when it gets erected it seems to be slightly bent downwards and very little to left but its a very little curve.I wanna know will i hav any problem while having sex,many say that its ... (103 words)

I like him but he's a womanizer

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello :) I really like one of my close guy friends and alot of my friends think that he likes me back. However, he is a big womanizer; always flirting with every girl, and alot of girls flirt back. But I'm different to alot of girls, I have no idea how to flirt, instead ... (303 words)

Stripping naked in front of a window?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age - Can anyone tell me why a woman would strip nacked and flaunt herself in front of the window when she is argueing with her husband ?. I am deeply puzzled as to why she would do this.... (37 words)

My mum is marrying the guy she cheated on my dad with. I'm not happy about it, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16, when i was about 3 or 4 my mum and dad went thorught a really bad divorce, because my mum was cheating on my dad, as i was to young to know, i stayed with them both, and i still stay with them both, my brother only stays with my mum though he doesnt see my dad, and my ... (173 words)

How can I keep her interested when she lives so far away?

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8 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi everybody, i met this girl and i fell in love with her in 2 days. i like everything about her down to the fact that she likes elvis. i never believed this could happen this soon and now that it has i constantly fear that i will loose her as fast as i fell for her. she made ... (100 words)

Is it wrong for a woman to ask a man out?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have another question, is it wrong for woman to ask man out on a date? Does it start a cycle of a woman taking the male role in the relationship?... (32 words)

Lasting longer in bed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've just has a circumcision as i suffered from a tight foreskin and frenulum breve. For over 2 years i have suffered with premature ejaculation and can only last 20 seconds before i ejaculated with or without a condom. I'm now waiting for the stitches to dissolve which a... (111 words)

It hurts so much I feel like choking and vomiting

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - "It hurts so much, I feel like choking and at times vomitting.. When we began to be with each other everyone was against us. His mother phoned me to say that if I do get pregnant with his child he will be a bastard. She warned that he is never going to marry me as it is too m... (463 words)

I'm suffering from "You don't know what its gone until its gone" syndrome

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - On Monday my girlfriend of 4 years 9 months told me she wanted to end it. We met many years ago when she was an exchange student at my high school in Florida. It was my senior year and she had another 2 years left of gymnasium once she got back to Germany. We spent those years ... (1562 words)

Why am I attracted ONLY to older MEN?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, The thing is I'm not coming here for professional advise, but for some educated opinions, and maybe a parallel to one's own experience (if there are any). I did seek some help on this issue when I was an undergrad and my school therapist shed some light, but I hav... (416 words)

How do I fix this? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, My best friend and i turned romantic after being close for about a year and everything was great but i was terribly mean to him and i had no idea why. he wanted things to go faster than i did and i guess i was scared. we started to have terrible problems because ... (295 words)

I have been having a hard time getting over the break-up of my last relationship.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been having a hard time getting over the break-up of my last relationship. It has been a good few months since we last spoke and when things truly ended once and for all, They did not end well. (We broke up in May, cut off all communication in July, we dated only 5 a... (665 words)

Getting over an online affair...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 27 years old muslim woman, and I was married at age 17 (it was an arranged marriage as I didn't know my husband at all). my marriage has been more bad than good, and due to the 10 year age gap between me and my husband, we have never really been emotionally intimate. P... (540 words)

I've never stopped thinking about him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid please help me, I still love my exboyfriend even though i did have a relationship since him. We havent talked in months and im single now. Every time we would break up he would go back to his ex girlfriend and when they would have problems he would come to me. He ... (107 words)

He lied and cheated, so why is he in contact with me now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Can you help me understand this? My ex-boyfriend and I broke up two years ago. We were together for two years. After we broke up, I found out that he'd lied and cheated multiple times! Anyway, we continues being friends. We live in different cities now so we meet up on the week... (148 words)

I accused her of cheating but it was just a friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke up with girlfriend two months back. i dumped her for cheating on me on facebook but the contact turned out to be her childhood friend only. i did try to win her back but she was just unmoved saying that it was me who dumped her and she stood by that decision now. ... (129 words)

I don't have faith in myself that he can love me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know if my problem is me not trusting my boyfriend or me not trusting myself. we have been together for almost a year and a half. i am insecure by nature and very aware of all my flaws. he has said he loves me countless times but i hate the fact that i seem to need ... (189 words)

He can never see that I feel more for him than just as a friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Have you ever been so confused? I really like this boy and I have for absolutely ages.. we have been through so much together.. but he can never see that I truly feel more than a friend for him. Recently, We have fallen out. And somewhere deep down.. i feel i did it for atte... (435 words)

Does being too nice drive women away?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age - Along time ago my mother told me I was too nice to women and this is why my relationships never last.I have been married two times.The first about 5 years and the second about 9 years..I have had a couple of girl friends after this but nothing last...Do you suppose there is ... (70 words)

In love with my daughter in law...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age - Ok here it goes...I find myself deeply in love with my daughter in law..I want to have sex so bad with her..Sometimes when my son invites me over,I tell him I can't today....They have 3 little girls..I hate to do something that will break them up,but The desire is killing me..I ... (113 words)

Should I try to help him with his drug addiction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so here's the thing: I like this guy that keeps saying he likes me and wishes he could get the courage to ask someone out. I have good feeling it's me but we have been like brother and sister for about 7 years. He does do drugs and he has sex with all his girlfriends even... (121 words)

He liked me before, how do I tell him that I like him NOW?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i need help :( i am so in love with this boy, ive known him for about 3 years now, the thing is though, i am soooooo shy, me and him have always had this connection though and he has liked me before but i didnt and then i did but didnt know how he felt... now a ye... (146 words)

He cheated on 4 girlfriends! will he cheat on me too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So.... my boyfriend of a year and I have talked about moving in together in the new year. We have known each other for like 7 years, and he is not only the love of my life, but my bestfriend. Thing is, he cheated on 4 of his 4 past g/f's, but says when he felt the way he ... (145 words)

Cant cope with the images of my wife with another man

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age - Please can anyone out there help me. After twenty years of marrage my wife had an affair and it has destroyed our marrage.I absolutely adored the woman and this has devastated me . I am only a shell of the man i used to be.I am now smoking heavly including hash after quiting ... (268 words)

She went through my emails that happened before we were together but now she's breaking us up because of them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - HELP!! Me and my partner are going to split up! We have been going through rocky patches so far and it doesnt help with her hormones going sky high. She went through my emails and me and my partner got together in June, there was pictures of a girl on there and that goin... (233 words)

Is a runny nose normal when giving a blow job?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 and finally have a serious b/f that I really like. We have been dating 2 months now and see each other every day. About two weeks into our relationship I told him that I wanted to wait until I was married to have sex for the first time with my husband and he was fine ... (528 words)

Can a doctor's pregnancy test be wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 years old and i think im pregnant. i have been having all the symptoms so i done a pregnancy test and it was positive. although i have just been to the doctors and that result was negative. is it possible for a doctors test to be wrong?? please help me!!... (52 words)

I didn't trust her, kept checking on her and now she has left me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi , im telling you this story as its ripping my heart out and i dont know what to do , my fiance left me two weeks ago , she said she couldnt take it anymore , the way i spoke to her and that i never shown our son who is now 7 any love , it all started in 2000 when i meet her ... (740 words)

He says I'm not giving him enough space!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - we have been dating for 2mnts , last night i went to his place after a party he wanted sex but i was having my periods so he suggested we do it from the back, i refused . after i got back home in the morning he did not call me the whole day so i called him at night but he did ... (158 words)

Where should I meet my internet/text boyfriend? His place or mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been txting a man ive met on the internet for almost 2 months now and i am meeting him next week. he lives few hours away and i need to know the best way to approach this meeting. i am not going to sleep with him on the first night so i am thinking if he comes down here to ... (112 words)

Been with boyfriend for 5 years and he still hasn't proposed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey all!! Well my issue is that I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and he still hasnt proposed. He came to FL where I was living to train for work, that is where I met him, he was asked to help take over a family business in NH so he asked me to move with him. We ... (159 words)

My boyfriends parents object to my race and religion, but now I am pregnant. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - am 27 and i have been dating my 29 year old Indian boyfriend for 2 year. recently he proposed to me for marriage and i gladly accepted but his parents have said he cannot marry me because am black and am a christian yet he is Hindu. between him and i, we had clearly work out ... (138 words)

Neither of us will admit to being lesbians, but I love my best friend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend is overseas for half a year and I miss her terribly. I’m so in love with her. I’m pretty sure that she’s miserable without me too, but is too afraid to admit it. Neither of us are supposedly lesbian or bisexual. I don’t want to be the one to confess my fe... (136 words)

How can I change my personality? I miss who I once was.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - the boy i used to like for about 9months changed me. i dont like him no more i now go out with someone else. but he's a horrible person. and i wanted to be around him as much as possible and for him to like me i must have tried to be like him. how can i no longer be a horrible ... (76 words)

My wife wants me to give up drinking, but I don't really want to.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i have been married for about 2years with a 4 months son. it has developed that of late my wife dosen't want me to drink and also to hangout with my friends and as we met i used to drink something have tried to quit but all in vein. the other day she threaten me that she was ... (91 words)

We both have insecurity issues. How do we get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend and I really love eachother, however there is a slight issue. She is close friends to another guy and sees him as her brother but then they used to like eachother in the past, although it was at different time. They would phone eachother late at night and into the ... (250 words)

Why does he think that it's ok to treat me like I'm useless?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Good morning, I am going to try to sum up a relationship that I am in because I am simply going nuts trying to figure it out. I moved in with a guy about nine months ago and to be honest the relationship started off in a rocky way but I believed that progress could be made. ... (797 words)

Is being too nice the reason why she doesn't like me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, Well theres this chick i like we are really good friends anyway although we havent known each other for a long time she says that im the only person who is genuinely nice to her all the time and that she feels im the only person she can be herself around and not feel stu... (310 words)

She has become ridiculous thinking I'm cheating on her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a Girlfriend, who is very possive and very emotional. I am very true to her and honest at every thing I say to her, howeever she thinks I am cheating on her(which I am not) andevery time I am out with friends or attending a party or Just any where execpt home or... (202 words)

She wants to go travelling and I'm having a hard time with it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, My gf of 7 months has just dropped a big bomb on me out of nowhere, she says she wants to go travelling for a year, her friend who has been travelling has put some ideas into her head that it would make her more confident and happy in herself, shes bored of her life here... (356 words)

She broke up with me saying "she just doesn't want to be in a relationship"..I don't get it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age - Dear Cupid, I met the love of my life 14 months ago. At first I wasn't sure I wanted to get involved. But she did all the right things to woo me, until she got me to fall for her. After I fell in love with her, she started distancing herself from the relationship. T... (271 words)

I suddenly feel so distant from my husband

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey , i ve been married for 3 months now and have known my husband for 8 yrs .. . but suddenly i feel so distant from my husband .. i feel he is ignoring whatever i say .. he is so caught up in his own world and he is so distant.. he is a very nice man otherwise and defiitely ... (134 words)

She doesn't know if "she's at the point of being in love" what does that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of a month told me today she loves doesn't know if shes at the point of being in love with me can someone please tell me what this means? we were friends for 4 months before, and we are still together so she didn't dump me. I just want to know what she ment by ... (58 words)

I just keep asking myself if I'm gay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi 26 and ive been attracted to females all my life,im in a serious relationship but latley ive been asking myself am i gay,i cant get it out of my head.when im around other males i get an uneasy feeling and my thoughtss run wild,not in a sexual way but i just keep asking am i ... (98 words)

She broke up with me after I moved 1000 miles to be with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met the girl two years ago. We reconnected over the phone a year later, which eventually developed into a long distance relationship. We fell pretty hard for one another and took frequent trips back and forth from our home states. As we both saw a future in what we had, we ... (360 words)

Does he like me? Or does my shyness make my unapproachable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so a few quarters back I started liking this guy and he showed interest too, then i finally talked to him at the end of that quarter. I don't know if I went into it too fast and scared him off or whatever happened (might be because I'm 8yrs older than him)but I asked him to ... (488 words)

He broke up with me says he cannot accept me in public

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all - my boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me 3 weeks ago and this has devastated me. I have been reading all the stuff posted here just to help me going. but no luck, it just drives me nuts. I mean it was almost like marriage and we used to spend solid time together, ... (381 words)

I'm dating an extremely busy guy, what do you think, should I just let him go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The situation is this: I'm dating an extremely busy guy, who has a lot of things going on in his life right now. I don't really know what to "call" our situation. He kissed me on the head (I don't know what this means. People claim that it's a sign of affection others... (289 words)

Can there be trust after cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have this girl that I love I been with her before I got locked up I broke up with her when I was incarcerated. A lot has happened before then she cheated on me and so I did the same. me and this girl did crazy thing to gether sleep in her jeep been homeless togetter well to ... (89 words)

She ignores me if anyone else is around!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have a major problem. I am 3 months into school. Me and my GF broke up the first week. We were deeply in love with each other. We were always together till a new friend showed up at school. My gf wouldn't talk to me much at school but I was ok with that since she ... (891 words)

Stuck in a verbal abusive relationship, I fear he will take my child if I leave!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - After years of verbal abuse i have decided its best for me and my child to leave, but i cant seem to just leave im scared he will take my 15 month away from me and of his reaction, i know what i need to do but i dont know how. i dont know how to tell him i dont love him anym... (127 words)

I seem to attract girls who always end up cheating on me, please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a 16 year old boy, and I know I'm probably too young to really be needing this advice, but I just want some help. I seem to attract women who always end up cheating on me. That or they're awkward relationships that end in two weeks. I don't know what to do, there was on... (109 words)

She said she doesn't love me anymore after 8 years, how do I know if she really means it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - ok my girl broke up with me 5 days ago and she wouldnt answer any of my calls or textes. so i sent her flowers and i finaly got a text back which didnt say much anyhow. i talked to her today and she told me she doesnt wanna talk to me because she doesnt want to give me false ... (327 words)

How much time does he need to know whether this relationship is the one

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, I am a divorced mom who was marred over fifeen years. I did the on line dating, which was no fun until I met a wonderful older guy a couple of years ago and the relationship developed well. He introduced me to his family members early and always wrote romatic ... (246 words)

I still miss my first love after 2 years... is this normal? How can I fix it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Drunkenly I've looked at an old girlfriends profile over facebook. We've not spoken for about a year and half and separated over 2 years ago... yet, having read that she's in a relationship brings up strong feelings of sadness and envy. Surely after all this time I should be... (150 words)

Male attention makes me timid and self conscious. How can I get past this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What's wrong with me? Every time a guy seems interested in me I get really shy and self conscious. It's like I go from being confident and independent to completely timid. And if a guy looks at me too long I automatically blush. Also, if a guy gives me a compliment the ... (86 words)

Ex g/f started writing nasty messages so I blocked her on facebook, was it the right thing to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - During the summer I had a relationship with a girl. The relationship had to end, because we were both going to university. In the first couple of weeks back at university, I met somebody else. I was a free man, and saw nothing wrong with entering a new relationship. The girl I ... (172 words)

Are watery eyes while giving a blowjob a turn off?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it a turn off if a girl's eyes are super watery after/during a blowjob? I'm excited because I finally got the hang of deep throating and I can fit my boyfriend's entire dick now. And don't worry, I wasn't forced to learn or anything; my boyfriend's never even mentioned deep ... (454 words)

Hurt once, never again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - In my thirties now, I feel I'll always be connected to a friend of mine who was a quick love 4 years ago. We remain friends and sometimes we see each other. He's a good man, but when he's with a new relationship I feel devastated; he broke up with me in those years but I ... (100 words)

Is she just not that interested, or is there something else going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently met this girl over the summer.shes a single mom with a rough past.Im a single man with a baby on the way. shes also living alone and struggling.(had to put that out there)At first she seemed only somewhat interested IN ME ,but as time went on we really began to hang ... (480 words)

She treats me badly, but I still love her! How do I confront her about the issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I really don't understand what is going on right now! I am a female, and 14. I had fallen in love with someone who is a few monts younger then me and she is also a female. I am bi and I already told her all that. I already told her I loved her too. Months later, school has ... (276 words)

I don't know how to decide which guy is best for me. Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

8 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm in a bit of a pickel. Here's the story: There are two guys that like me and one that I just started to like. One of them(Alex) I've started to like since August and I like this guy. He's boring in school and funny outside of school. The secound one(Skip) I've h... (241 words)

How much rejection must I go through before striking gold?

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8 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm beginning to think I suck when it comes to dealing with women. Lately, i feel like every time I show any interest in a woman it never works out. Which is odd to me considering how everyone always tells me I'm funny and good looking. So inspired by these compliments I put ... (100 words)

How can I carry on my relationship with my father? Should I?

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8 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have 2 questions. Firstly, I have never lived with my dad. When I was younger I was very afraid of his girlfriend, she was often emotionally abusive and would reduce me to tears regularly, as well as locking me in a room unless I complied to eat all my dinner, that sor... (505 words)

I don't want anything to do with him, but what are his motives?

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8 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex is confusing me. We have broken up for a year exactly. I never initiate any communication....but always reply...short answers but I do. The last 3 months he's been writing more and more...after that...he asked if i was going to see a band we both liked and i was goign ... (194 words)

Taken advantage of and confused

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8 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey there folks, I'm in a bit of a pickle and have a kind of "two in one" question if you'll bare with me here? I'm 21 years old and just starting my college education.I moved to a small town in California from northern Canada two years ago (I literally knew no one there) an... (333 words)

Why does she dress that way when I'm not around

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8 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey wats going on i tried talking with my girlfriend about why she dresses better and more revealing when im not around and she got realy defensive and didnt let me finish she always does that when i try and talk to her about something we nead to work out. she wore a shirt th... (273 words)

He is calling me chubby and it hurts

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8 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend who I have not been dating for very long tells me I'm a little fat around the midsection and rear section. This really hurt my feelings when he said this. We had just made love and he told me I was not fat just a little chubby and I had cellulite. I wan... (229 words)

Where do I go now? He wont commit

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8 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 32 years old, divorced with three children. I start dating a divorced man with one child over a year age. For the most part the relationship is great except I have always wanted more of a commitment than him. We are faithful to each other and spend a lot of time ... (404 words)

My bf rips my thongs on purpose. how can I make him stop.

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8 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - ill make this short and simple. my boyfriend keeps literally ripping my underwear everytime we have sex! we will get into the mood and he will legit RIP my thong off! im getting rly irritated because i keep having to buy new ones! i have told him to just stop but he says "i ... (86 words)

Love problems, I love her but she don't love me

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8 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi! I'm a guy from Texas and there is this girl I really like. I know she doesnt like me, but I still want her to. I know nearly everything about her. She's got the looks and the kind heart. She's strong brave and courageous. I love her soo much. But no matter what I do it se... (68 words)

Met on the net should we date

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8 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I just came across this site and I thought I just put my question out there. Oh and this is a Long Distance Relationship Question. I live in the US and she lives in Canada (555 mile[996 km] separation) I'm going to tell the story and then ask the question(If that... (372 words)