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Is oral sex as bad as I imagine?

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Question - (20 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 October 2009)
A male Australia age 30-35, *oungTEEN writes:

What does oral sex feel and taste like?

Previously, I fingered a girl and smelt my finger after and it was horrible so I havnt even tried to use my mouth.

Can anyone give me advice on what to do?

thanks to everyone that helps me out.

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A female reader, HonningKanin Norway +, writes (20 October 2009):

HonningKanin agony auntThis is difficult because there are so many factors that need to be taken account of.

Hygiene.

Which is important. A dirty person is no fun to lick, male or female.

Diet.

This believe it or not can change the mucus in the vagina and seman to taste differently. Lots of soda and protien in the diet tends to taste alot more sour than more vegitarien one which tends to taste sweeter.

The persons genetic make-up.

This one even breaks down again cause it can be a factor of Race and hormones which are pretty much dictated by your genetics. Again everyone is different and the smell is caused by a whole number of different microrganism living in a balance or imbalance. An imbalance tends to smell bad, but mainly to her. There are going to be people whos natural smell will be either to your liking or smell bad to you. This is also normal because we are animals as well. We still react hormones and smells that are released by the other person. Its what helps to attract or detract mates.

Sexual Activity.

Funny enough I knew exactly what I smelt like before I had sex. It was a distinctly "my" smell. Then as I started to have sex I realised "my" smell was being masked. and its because of the introduction of foriegn bacteria and other microrganisms while during the act of sex. Someone who has sex often will tend not to smell as stable as someone who has let their vagina reach an equilibrium.

As for you wanting to go down on her, I say you should wait until you are ready and comfortable. If you begin to go down on her when you are not ready and not up for it, you will only end up with a bad experience. Its very much the same as if a girl does not want to give head. If you dont want to, you simply dont want to. No one can force you.

HonningKanin

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A male reader, Candleman United States +, writes (20 October 2009):

Candleman agony aunt Considering the location, if the woman hasn't washed recently down there, it can be a tad bit funky. Anytime you have oral sex, it is usually best for the person receiving to wash up first. That will fix the problem most of the time. Its still never a bed of roses. I can't desribe the smell and taste for you though.

Here's the thing, if you find the inside does disgust you, you can give oral sex and not stick your tongue on the inside her vagina(don't get me wrong, its good to do this too) because the woman's sex organ you want to focus on is the clit which is located above her vagina (ever heard of the man in the boat? The clit is the man.) Since the clit is super sensitive and many woman do not like direct contact, the outer skin protecting the clit is where you want to focus. Each woman is different though and you need to ask her what is working (location, speed, style.)

Go to this site to learn more...

http://www.the-clitoris.com

Enjoy

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A male reader, lammy Australia +, writes (20 October 2009):

It feels good for them and it tastes a bit salty

maybe you should give it a try and if you dont like it just stop and tell her?

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