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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What do you think his answer meant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I dated a guy around five times and we both are interested. Around two weeks ago I told him that I will move. He became sad. I told him to think if he want a long distance relationship and answer me. He agreed.Until now he did not answer me. Does it mean that he is still th... (86 words)

Will I grow out of being jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well.. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two years now.. We're both seventeen. I love him very much and I can't imagin life without him. I get on on with him better than anyone else.. Everythings perfect except one thing! In recent months I have starred feeling jealous ... (143 words)

How do I get this happily married man to notice me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i like this guy,but he is married and happy.i see him once every fortnight at work.what shoul i do for he notice me,please?... (23 words)

Suffering from depression, low self-esteem, and bad anxiety. How do I meet someone who will like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm suffering from depression, low self esteem and really bad aniexty, i hate leaving the house, and i feel like having somone to pay me some attention and make me feel abit pretty for once would be a big help. i get told im stunning by friends but ive never met anyone that ... (248 words)

How do I find the right words to say to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, i have known my boyfriend for almost 10 yrs, when we were 12 he was my first boyfriend, we were together for a year...we drifted apart, reunited in 2007, and drifted again. I sent him an email in april and on april 30th we were a happy couple again...things started ... (188 words)

Emotionally unavailable man driving me crazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Awhile back I made the mistake of starting a relationship with a totally emotionally unavailable man. I say this because 1)He hardly had any free time because of his work and late shifts(this I checked is true) 2)He is a relationship phobic. He wanted his freedom and space but ... (577 words)

Is it a good sign he took me to meet his family on the first date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it a good sign that he took me to meet his family on the first date?!? We met at a concert and have talked on the phone a lot since but today we had our first date. He went to get coffee and then he took me to meet his parents, sister, aunt and uncle, brother and law, and ... (68 words)

Why is it that every time I say I am leaving a violent, short tempered, manipulative man I end up wondering why he hasn't called?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question to ask..why is it that every time I say I am leaving a violent short tempered manipulative man I end up wondering why he hasn't called. I know this man is no good for me especially cuz I have 2 boys ages 8 and 15. I feel like I have very low self-esteem which ... (320 words)

Why does he tell me he still has feelings for me when he goes on online dating sites?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated this guy for a year, but we broke up when I found out he had a girlfriend back home (he is not originally from my town). We remain friends, although there is still very much an attraction b/w us. I have been just been taking it easy as I feel that since he was... (253 words)

How do I stop this silly jealousy in my LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me. Thanks, don't know where else to turn :( This is in relevance to my last post... I met this guy on the net about just over a year ago, we built up a good friendship etc on the net and on the phone, and then met in reality however we have had our fair sha... (435 words)

Will marriage stop a man from having an affair if he's in love/lust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My question is mostly for married men. Is it possible to lust over another woman and not act on it? I mean of course I know it is possible for a beautiful woman to get under your skin, but I'm wondering if there are men who even though the other woman is willing will truly ... (161 words)

Why do I feel naked all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

17 October 2009 (?) age 36-40 - i would like to ask why do i feel to be naked all the time. i dont like to wear cloths and even if i wear cloths. i dont wear the bra and panties(in short inner garments)is it okay not wearing bra bcos i heared if we dont the shape of the breast would change often.please ... (57 words)

How can I learn to get over my past and trust a new person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been searching for answers for sometime and haven't found anywhere to turn to for help. I hope you can offer some advise to a man after a divorce. There are soo many places for women to go but not men. I was married for 9 years with 3 kids. My wife decided she wanted a ... (371 words)

My boyfriend thinks it's okay to do things to me I don't like. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a bit of a problem with my boyfriend. He constantly doesn't do things i ask of him. For e.g He will call me chubby (like a pet name as such) and i tell him i dont like it, its offensive and it's putting me down (i'm not chubby at all, but i have a big bum that h... (627 words)

Do you need a condom to get a blow job?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hye there friends.. I need a lil advice. Me and my gf of 8 months years (we are both 16) were hangin together last night. And she just randomly asked to give me a bj. I was elated cuz we've never even touched on that kind of stuff before. But the think is she asked to put on ... (137 words)

Should I worry about my girlfriend's male friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey hope ya can help me on dis 1.my girlfriends 2 best friends are guys they are completely in love with her their always touching her always flirting with her and tryin 2 kiss her !!! she loves them 2 bits but it really annoys er !!!shes told me numerous times she loves me and ... (90 words)

Will he enjoy porn more than he does talking to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We connect by having phone sex almost everyday. But all the sudden, it has seemed to stop. He doesn't want it as much and says it doesn't turn him on like it used to. I don't mind not having phone sex, it's just I don't ... (125 words)

He's turned cold in the marriage and I'm considering divorce...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my husband for 4 years. When we met he was seperated from his wife and living with his parents and I was recently divorced from a marriage of 17 years. After getting involved with him I discover that he has some serious debt so I helped him file for ... (381 words)

Shouldn't a husband and wife feel free to discuss everything?

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17 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i had an affair like 3 years back i had a break up with him bcoz he was too passasive abt me and never use to trust me....bt now it is a year i am married to some one else...i met this person online actually after my breakup i was veryupset so i did nt think nothing and just ... (388 words)

Am I turning into a jealous jerk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - why is my wifes guy friend so important to her? My wife and I are pretty rocky right now. I don't know how to handle her spending so much time talking to her guy friends(one in particular). Its to the point where I have a lot of rage built up inside. Im pretty sure she ... (128 words)

How can I change my boyfriend overreacting to small things?

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17 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am recently in a relationship with a great guy and have been dating for the past 2 months. He treats me right, talks to me everyday and constantly tells me he cares for me. The only problem is that little things keep popping up. He seems to overanalyze things. For exam... (172 words)

So...do you think he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i like this guy but im not sure if he likes me like hes 17 and im 13 and like he'll state at me and sumtimes i think i see him looking at me ass but im not sure, i hope he likes me but im not sure like and he'll pick on me and stuff like that and he'll be mean but he;s ... (208 words)

I need some advice on my life and how to improve it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello I need some advice about my life and how to improve it I mean a while ago i lost my virginity to a prostitute and it was awful regretted it.... but i made the same mistake again... and learnt alot from it. It made me realise i want a loving relationship with someo... (381 words)

How can you tell if a girl has a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 22 year old student who is at university studying civil engineering. I know I am a bit geeky but I have built my confidence up so that I don't have problems talking to girls. The problem is that whenever I talk to a girl and I think "she seems nice" I later find out she ... (102 words)

Is how my penis looks normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - heyya, i need i bit of advice (obv). it is about my penis... im circumcised and even when my penis is erect my head is covered by my foreskin. i can retract it if i want to but it just slips back over my head straight away. it isn tight and i have no discomfort with it. however ... (100 words)

He broke up with me but I'm not ready to let go yet

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was dating this guy for over 3 months, and towards the end of the relationship I started having feelings for another guy. When my boyfriend found out, we split up. We didn't take it hard, but then I got with the guy I liked, not even a week later that guy broke up with me, ... (111 words)

How do I end it without breaking her heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi all, i need serious advice and opinions on my situation. 3 weeks ago i got into a relationship with a wonderful girl. at first it seemed everything was going so fast. we get on very well and it seems like its all too good to be true but there are a few probs. firstly she is ... (348 words)

Why are my periods irregular and could I be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 13. i started my period when i was 11, but i still have irregular periods. the other day me and my boyf had sex but we used a condom. as my period hasnt come for about 6 weeks i am now scared im pregnant :S why are my periods still irregular and am i pregnant? please h... (63 words)

I'm afraid she's upset and I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all, This isn't really my kind of thing, but I found this site on Google, and it looked like the kind of site that I'd get a good answer from, so here's my question/problem. I've met this woman on the internet who's older than me, and it was just kind of instant att... (135 words)

Am I being too close minded?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. Ok here is my issue. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. In the beginning he was cheating on me all the time and I was really hurt by it so I found myself a lover and everytime I knew my boyfriend was cheating on me , I went to my lover. I have to ... (941 words)

Why won't she let me french kiss her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 21, have a girlfriend for 2 years now. Here is my question. Whenever we make love, I want to french kiss her but she turns her face and places her cheeks or neck infront of my lips. Kissing is seldom and only when I make her extremely horny by extreme necking and even ... (82 words)

Is he making me jealous because I told him I am a virgin...does he still want a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is my situation: A guy told me he was interested in me on out first date and afterwards we went out on some dates. The guy is very nice to me. He is also shy when he is with me but he is not shy when he talks to other girls. He has difficult to look into my eyes all the ... (1038 words)

How can I be more confident around boys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 14 years old and never had a boyfriend...its not that i cant get one guys ask me out but everyime they do i say no even if i like them, how can i be more confident around guys???... (41 words)

My mother is ruining my relationship...what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ever since i remember, my mother was in charge of everything. i'm also the youngest one, so i know she's trying to protect me and doesnt want me to get hurt. but that's the problem. i'm 20 and i have a boyfriend for three years now. she knows him from the start, and she still ... (124 words)

After 8 yrs and all this I don't know what to do anymore, any help please? I don't want to lose her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - ok she broke up with me afew weeks ago and yeah its been hard.we finally stated some what talikng and texting after she wouldnt answer me for awhile before.but i think i went to far we where together for 8 years and i just dont want to let go.i still love her so much and i have ... (323 words)

Am I going to resent him for all my suffering? I cheated.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - After 10 yrs and three children, I cheated on my fiance. I dont know how to make him understand that I was going through some serious emotional problems. He feels that I fell inlove with the man, and although some actions gear towards that conclusion, I truly feel that I was ... (137 words)

Why is he paying the bills for his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im very confused. im 27weeks pregnant and living with my partner, iv been with him for 1year and 3months, after all the bills and rent my partner has about £100 spare a month. i cant claim any benifits as he works over 24hours a week and gets over 16 grand a yr. we was told... (282 words)

How do you know if its love or just lust?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How do you know if you love someone? How do you know it's not just lust? What if you go back out with someone you recently broke up with to find that it was a mistake? Why can't love be easy.. I don't really want to give any more information. I'm not one to ask for help. But... (68 words)

I like him but he's bi and has a new boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya, i met this guy about 5 months ago? And since then i've always had a thing for him. I'm a natural flirt, and i never realise im doing it until my female friends tell me, anyway this guy said to me 'Stop your flirting' in a joking way. Now we are really close best friends ... (188 words)

My ex is really persistent and I don't know how to deal with it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have now been single for 10 months. I ended my last relationship due to finding out that my ex of 9 month had a drug addiction to percs and occasionly usued anonomys drugs. With built up hostility I forbid to give him another chance because I would have never... (469 words)

How do I deal with my confusion over feeling for a male teacher?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok here is the problem. I left high school months ago and thought that i have moved on from it and evedryone there thta i have encountered. Except for one person i have officially moved on with my life. This guy who worked at my school had issues with me all through my senior ... (306 words)

I didn't know that I was the "other woman"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm hoping someone can give me some advice. 18 months ago I started seeing this guy, it wasn't meant to be anything serious, we only saw each other once every couple of weeks. However, after about 6-8 months I started to fall in love with him. My friends warned me at the... (375 words)

Should I get ready to be dumped?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been in a relationship for almost 2 years but im constantly upset with him because he does not spend time with me, i invite him to places with me and he says he'll try but never shows up and tells me later he was caught up with somethings, i dont want to have my hopes ... (129 words)

How do you approach a quiet girl on the bus?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - how should you approach a girl who is only a aquataince that you like who rides your bus?i think she is pretty and i wanna go out with her.im in 10th and i think shes in 8th and shes quiet on the bus.what should i do?... (46 words)

Can I just not stand it that she found someone else now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I was fresh out of university, have a great degree, just landed a great job, and was ready to settle down. I met a girl in a club one night, and she caught my attention. We danced all night, then exchanged numbers. We started calling each other, and soon after started da... (895 words)

How do I try again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - In High School when I was 15 I went out with a girl and we both fell madly in love with each other etc. she was my first and only love. About a year later she broke up with me saying that she thought she wasn't pretty enough or good enough for me and cried herself to sleep ... (422 words)

Does he just want me now because I don't want him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age - Hello, I dated a guy a while back for about 5-6 months. We broke up in May. The break up was for two main reasons. The first is that he has a problem with ED (is very heavy over 350 lbs.) Both of us handled it not very well. I wanted to break things off after that, bu... (618 words)

Why does he want to get married so quickly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - 6 years ago I lost my virginity to the owner of the hotel my family and I were staying at in Turkey. I stayed in contact with him but (because I wanted it this way), just as friends. My family and I stayed at the same hotel every year in the summer, so I saw him every year. ... (475 words)

I feel pain when I am aroused for long periods of time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 21. I have been experiencing a strange problem. In the last 15 days, two times I felt pain in my ass, testicle area and somewhat lower abs as well, when I remained aroused for a long time due to my girlfriend but couldn't touch her or anything. I get aroused everyday ... (134 words)

Why did the drunken 'you're hot' texts stop now that we're dating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is probaly gonna sound stupid but... back before summer, this guy liked me, and whenever he went on a night out I would recieve drunk texts and phone calls. They basically said 'Your hot.' or 'I want you.' Ya know usual guy stuff. Now we have got a little closer, we arnt ... (135 words)

Does neck and full on kissing mean more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone and please dont have a moan at me for writing this but im in a very confused mind at the moment, basically i still talk to y ex bf who has a gf, they are not getting on and bascically one day this week we slept together, we have done it before with just like bj, ... (196 words)

How do you end a friends with benefits relationship but still remain just friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you end a friends with benefits type of relationship but still remain friends? I'm thinking of telling him something like this: When I'm with you I have a nice time, but I'm not going to sleep with you anymore. Like I said I have a good time when I'm with you, so if you ... (98 words)

I want to know if I'm trying too hard to be a good mother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im a 22 yr old female. I have 1 child. And am married. I want to know if im trying too hard to be a good mother. Im in the type of career that requires me to be away from my family a lot. Example im gone for this year overseas. I really try to give my child everything, within ... (155 words)

Do men really think in black and white?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have heard this saying that "men think in black and white". How true is this? I have past relationships and I know for a fact that once a guy has lost interest in you, there is nothing that can make him lift a finger for you. This makes sense to me. But now I am a bit c... (206 words)

Why was my girlfriend angry with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age - Last night my girlffriend was annoyed with me and continued berating me even after we had gone to bed. In short she was angry with me for not contacting her as soon as I arrived home. The background goes like this. I work full time and have early starts and sometimes I don't ... (669 words)

Is she just punishing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I met my girl friend on july 19th 2008, when we met i was seperated for 6 months and i was getting divorced and had no kids. After a month when I realized how much I realy liked her i told her i had to tell her something we met and I told her i had 4 kids she had some trash ... (506 words)

Its over...now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - So its finnally over I ended my on again off again affair of 4 years. Why do I feel so sad now I should be relieved that he is out of my life. I cant get over who miserable I feel now?........ (42 words)

He meets his psycho ex secretly, should I be concerned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my sig other for almost 2 year, but he still keeps in contact with his ex girlfried. I am okay with ex's being friends, bit this person is a bit of a bunny boiler. e.g. she sends "i love you" messages to him via text (she is a lot younger than him and a bit ... (195 words)

Are short women better lovers?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Just curious to know why so many men say short women are better lovers than taller women. I read several different forums, and sure enough, it came up over and over again. Problem was, no one elaborated on what made sex better with petite women. Guess I would like to hear from ... (124 words)

Do short women really make better lovers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

Is my teacher crossing the line?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, there's this teacher at my High School, and I think he kind of flirts with me a little bit, and I just want to know if he might like me too much. First of all, I don't even have him as a teacher, he's only my homeroom advisor. But we had to do this project in his c... (744 words)

Is this my fault for being too weak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfiriend of almost 2 years is for the most part a sweet heart. But When he is upset with me, ne treats me like crap, he blows me off when I apologize or try to make it up to him. He hangs up or yells at me when I ask him what's really bothering because the way he acts you ... (173 words)

What is likelyhood of a committed relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 30 year old male and I've met this hot woman off the internet. She is 20 years old and a virgin. No religious ties. She's never even had a bf. She just moved out of her parents home (very controlling/mentally abusive father) and is living on her own at the colle... (109 words)

What is up with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I dont get it. Why do women tell a guy that they aren't interested in them, they don't feel the same way, reject them... then all of a sudden they end up liking you? I had a girl tell me she didn't feel the same way, it hurt so much i didnt talk to her all summer. but unti... (257 words)

Flirting/chatting-how much is too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Okay the background. I've been married to my wife for 8 years, we've been together for 10. We also work on the same floor at the same employer. Last few years have been rough- we seem to live in our own separate worlds. I'll admit- some of our arguements have not been fri... (453 words)

Once an abuser, always an abuser??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

- My ex bf abused me and now he wants me back. He promises hes changed and so on. He says he regrets it and would do anything for me. He admits to be an idiot. He says he loves me- something he never told me when we were in a relationship. He says we are made for each other, we ... (325 words)

Am I bisexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've come to realize that whenever I feel like getting drunk I feel more attracted and in the mood to makeout with a girl instead of my boyfriend. I don't know why! For example, the other night I went to a party, and there were about 15 people- around 8 or 9 were girls an... (225 words)

How do I tell him to stop using me for sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I started seeing this guy for a couple of months. It turned into a him calling me late at night to come over (ending up having sex every time). I didn't want that kind of relationship but i did so bc i liked him a lot. I tried to talk to him about it, he would always say he n... (211 words)

Always the "friend with benefits", never the girlfriend

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, So here's my problem. I keep getting involved with these really great guys. Problem is I always end up as the "friend with benefits". Now it's not that I don't respect myself or anything, but I always tend to get involved with them at the wrong time. It usually g... (169 words)

Do you think my girlfriend might be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, i'm 17 and my girlfriend is 15. we have been dating for 8 months now and i'm scared because i think she might be pregnant. the reason i feel this way is because i had a condom on and i ejaculated in it (after i pulled out of course) and then started again... 2 more times ... (88 words)

Are these actions normal for a man almost 30 yrs old?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend (29) and I (25) were really enjoying having sex the other night and when he wanted to have anal sex I said no because I knew that my stomach was not up for it. He knows that I really do not like it yet I have promised to continue doing it every now and then ... (283 words)

Should I confide in my teacher about my problems at home?

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17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so for the past couple years I've been having trouble at home with my dad and fights every couple of weeks would either result in me getting kicked out for a couple of weeks or me leaving my house for a couple of weeks. Now somehow 3 of my closest friends have found out ... (457 words)

Did I do the appropriate thing by telling the truth?

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17 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey Agony Aunts! Well, I have this serious problem. I am involved with two girls, but they don't know that I am with both of them. One of the girls is more secretive and has hide a lot of things from me(even though she was a very nice girl), while the other is very open and ... (257 words)

What is sexual tension?

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17 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What is sexual tension? Is it a feeling, that you have with someone and cannot stay away from them? I would like to know...... (28 words)

Why has my husband stopped being affectionate with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I wonder why my husband stopped being affectionate with me. He never looks at me,or touching me. He also losing his erections,but no medical problems. I asked him why is that, but he says ,he loves me,and I have no reason to worry. But I do worry, what happens ,if its ... (81 words)

Should I just cut my losses?

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17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and i've been going out with my current boyfriend for 6 months. 2 months ago i started college. Last night a male friend from college kissed me, i kissed him back but then pulled away. But it got me thinking, although my boyfriend loves me, is there any point in havin a ... (70 words)

Why did my period only last two days? Am I pregnant?

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17 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had unprotected sex about a week and a half ago. My period was suppose to come on the 18th but it came yesterday oon the 15th. It started off very heavy and was normal. This morning and throughout half of the day is was still normal, now it's gone. I changed my pad and ... (124 words)

Do you think my ex will regret what he's done?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

17 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i started talking with my ex after 4 years. in the first email he was very caring and asked if i was ok then i discovered he was married then he was weird in his emails and was sending them at strange times. he said to email anytime. i felt weird because of his marriage... (162 words)

Does your ideal weight increase as you get older?

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17 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Years ago before I started uni I was a keen swimmer. I was on my school team and one of the best. When I started uni, I joined the team. But after a diet of drinking and take aways I put on about 20lbs. I tried to work hard to lose the weight but ended up put... (235 words)