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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Dating 2 and a half weeks, he's tried every single time to have sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) age 41-50 - This guy and I have been dating for 2 and a half weeks. I really enjoy being with him. The problem is that he is trying to move to fast to the sex. He tried to sleep with me on the first date. I told him that I didn't sleep on first date. We have been on 5 dates,he tried to... (287 words)

Likes me, or likes me not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years old and there's this guy that hangs sround me a lot. He sometimes does stuff that makes it seem really obvious that he likes me, but I don't know how I can tell for sure. For example, my sophmore class went on a field trip and we were in a large crowd, though in ... (128 words)

I love him but always wind up breaking his heart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, Ive been with this guy for about a year now, on and off. I love him, very much. And he loves me. But, there are some problems. Hes extremely clingy and possessive towards me, I really dont like it. And, its like I cant go out with friends with him calling me or te... (322 words)

How can I be "touchy" with my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I am in need of some advice. SO the thing is that I', a little shy doing some things with my girlfriend. We've been going out for almost 10 months now and havent really done anything sexual...I know, might be a shocker to alot of you out there that read this, and I am not ... (192 words)

I've been dumped and now feel like a prisoner

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - myself and my girlfriend of over two years have just split up. Her decesion and not mine. We'd been having a few problems so it wasn't a massive surprise but its still effected me proper bad. The point of my asking this question is to ask for advice. We are both at uni in a ... (421 words)

I want him away yet with me at the same time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex boyfriend about 3 years ago, but still felt something for him and regreted breaking up with him. I still have strong feelings for him, however, he has had relationships after me and he "moved on". I tried to get him out of my life (took about a yea... (165 words)

Prize idiot--I got involved with a guy at work

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am feeling like a prized idiot and I need some helpful advice. This is quite long, sorry. Everyone knows you should never get involved with someone at work but my head was tunred by this guy I work with, he is the first guy ever that I have liked, I like everything ab... (483 words)

Is a live webcam session something I should reasonably be upset about?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend since I was 14. I am 20 now. We have a 3 year old son and have been living together for 4 years now. The other day he accidently left his computer signed onto a porn site. I do not have a problem with him looking at porn, guys have needs and ... (147 words)

Did she say things to make me jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - OK, there's this girl in my science class. She is really nice to me and talks to me all the time and wants to work with me during experiments. I was working with her one day and I heard her talk to her friend about another guy. She didn't talk like she really liked him but she ... (147 words)

9 years older! Ask her out anyways?

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3 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone i like this girl who i don't know(socially) i know that i should go up to her ask her out but she is 9 years older than me and i am fine with that but i know that some people think it's not right for people to get together and are a good few years apart and ... (138 words)

Should sex still be this painful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, i have just lost my vaginity but before we have sex we have for-play so we can get prepared for sex afterwards. The problem is, is that we have had sex 4 times but it still realy hurts! It doesnt feel nice at all and it feels like friction after any longer than 10-15 ... (78 words)

Innocent kissing or infidelity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure how to go about this the right way. I love my boyfriend who I've been dating since January and we've both been good to each other. As August rolled around, I met another man who I developed a crush on. It's a little awkward because we all work for the same company: ... (169 words)

Is there more to it? or is it just sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am still good friends with my ex and he has moved on but i still feel something for him. although lately he broke up with his girlfriend and he is always texting me asking to meet up for sex. he says we are only friends but i cant help thinking that there is more between us. ... (79 words)

Facebook is used for cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

3 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I get the feeling that facebook is used to cheat on each other. how u guys think?... (17 words)

I feel like I'm the only one who cares about the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I haven't seen each other in one month as we go to different schools for college, five hours away from each other. He's coming up to see me next weekend but it seems like things between us has changed. He stopped calling me beautiful everyday, and he's grown ... (206 words)

I found that he'd looked up personals, call girls, etc. Should I confront him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont know what to think or do. I found in the history on our computer that my boyfriend (my daughters father) had gone on craigslist and looked up women 4 men personals. There were call girls, phone sex numbers, 'just visiting' ads. I dont know what to think. I mean I thought ... (122 words)

Keep my secret hidden or tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok a few months ago a girl joined my school, and i have never been attracted to girls before but i really fancy her, am so confused i dont no if its normal to fancy a girl, she talks to me a lot now and we have become friends and we hug each other in a friend way but i have ... (94 words)

Can people really change??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey!! Ok where do I begin!! I have been going out with my boyfriend on and off for over two years!! The first year was a joke because we kept fighting and he was'nt faithful but over the last year he has really changed!! He really does love me and is a completley differen... (160 words)

Wait for him? Or move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so this is complex. Right I met a guy and we dated a little, but only just got serious, we ARE NOT going out, and have only kissed, but we go out lots and I stay at his most weekends and we hang out. Now recently he told me that he wants to be with me, but over the summer he ... (293 words)

I'm getting bored with my LDR just talking to him on Skype

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guyyss..i really need ur help ok so im 16, and im dating a guy (also 16).. we have been doing this LDR for 1 or 2 years now. *he lives in the usa and i live in another country...* but we saw each other of course (the summer one year ago, and this summer), and we are gon... (183 words)

Me and my g/f broke up, and now I don't feel anything when I masturbate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend broke up in may and we had a great sex life. Before I met her I always used to masturbate and had good orgasms and when I met my girl they turned to great! It took me a while to even touch myself again and now I do I don't feel anything when I orgasm. It is ... (95 words)

Why am I attracting these losers at the pub?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I go out to a local pub in town most friday nights to see a friend play in his band. I enjoy going, but for some reason, I seem to be atracting scum, players and old dudes. Am I giving these people that impression? I am not a slutty person at all! I dress sensible when I go ... (97 words)

Have I done the right thing, and how do I get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend since last summer, he has been wonderful and supported me during a stress related illness. I have given him lots of support too on many other areas of his life. We have our own homes which I help him with. In the last three months he became odd ... (472 words)

Should I trust him since it's only MySpace?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im kind of worried about my boyfriend talking to this one girl over myspace. they have been friends before i met him through myspace. she lives in New york but the one thing that bothers me is that he posts comments on her pictures like "I love this picture,Its really Cute,your ... (94 words)

I want to have sex but I also feel shame

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to have a sex with my boyfriend,,and that be my first time...becouse im virgin..and i want it but im afraid...and also i shame my body...i dont know what i do????but i want that:)... (35 words)

I don't think my virginity meant anything to him

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

3 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - i recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend (about a month ago). he was not a virgin, very experienced from what ive heard and what hes told me. about an hour ago we were just talking and watching tv, and he turned on a channel with guys cage fighting. he was saying how much ... (177 words)

Was I just convenient at the time for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i was with a guy for at least three months and we were not an official couple because he was the coach of my volleyball team and we did not want the other team members to find out as it would be very complicated. Then there was the fact that his work would have him away for the ... (201 words)

How do we get birth control pills without our parents finding out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my best friend were talking the other day about birth control we relized that we both need to go on the pill but nether of us wants our parents to find out we would be dead. She's in a long term relationship and is talking about haveing sex with her boyfriend she ... (116 words)

I feel disgusted doing the sex acts he wants but I don't want him to leave me. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, weve had our fair share of ups and downs.. i love him to bits but theres one thing i really get upset about. Im alone alot, hes at work all the time and i see him almost 2-3 times a week. When i do see him we have sex, but then.. ... (157 words)

If he needs 'space' and 'time' - does that mean that he will actually sort his head out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Just a question on this whole I need 'space' and 'time' thing!! There's a guy who I like and I think he does really like me but its been a really weird couple of weeks - kinda started as bed mates and then getting closer. Anyway - I think that we reached that point of things j... (139 words)

How do I get a man to want me and not my body?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i have a problem i am really lonely although i get alot of attention from guys they all just want sex from me and i dont want to have sex until im either married or in a serious relationship but all my friends tell me to keep a guy i have to have sex with them and give them ... (67 words)

How can I explain to him that I need space to get over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, I've just been dumped. Or rather been informed that a friendship is not going to progress any further and I've been knocked for six a bit. I've known this guy for about 5 years because I know other members of his family but he was married and living abroad. On hi... (488 words)

In love with my best friend, she's getting engaged. Do I tell her or not?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

3 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi there everyone..first of all, i'd like to thank all the people who actually take time in reading these posts. Your answers are usually very helpful and much appreciated. Ok so here goes. I'm in a real messed up situation. I'm in love with my best friend and today she just ... (119 words)

How can I ignore other people telling me it won't work out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

3 October 2009 (?) age 36-40 - hi, My girlfriend and I are very serious about each other and wish to get married one day but there are a few people saying dont take it really seriously one of yourll might get hurt cause we have a long way to go.We have a plan to get married in 4 yrs i know alot can happen i... (81 words)

Husband gone off my due to baby weight...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im married forhree years after courtship of six long years both of us love each otherr a lot but my problem is that after my baby my weight is increase nnnnnnow i dont look that beautifil other then this i always respect my huby for respecting women but i came ti know that ... (184 words)

Given my heart and virginity to a married man.... What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have come here for some kind of help, I know what i'm doing is wrong in so many ways, but I don't know what to do. I have been seeing a married man for almost a year. I am so in love with him, but I know i'm never going to be with him properly. I always think to mys... (161 words)

I still have feelings for my ex. Should I persue her through Bebo?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I want to add my ex on bebo, we sort of broke up 2 years ago and i dont know if i should as we havent talked since and every time we see each other if one of us makes eye contact the other looks away and i still have fellings for her please what should i do?... (58 words)

He pulled out and released on my rly rly rly thin PJ shorts, could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - im new to this site but id really appreciate some advice here. ok so last night me and my boyfriend had sex. (im 16 hes 19 just by the way). we were at my house, and got in the mood so we started messing around and just ended up having sex. im not on birth control and we dont ... (171 words)

Should I end it now and let him get on with his life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - during a conversation with my boyfriend of 3 years last night, he said to me that if we stayed together and ended up breaking up when he was around 23/24 he'd regret ever being with me in the first place, because if it was never going to work then he'll have missed out on the ... (316 words)

LDR - what gift can make us closer from afar?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with my BF for 2 years now . We plan on getting married after college. Right now I am currently in a long distance relationship with him. It's been 6 months, and I will be seeing him this New Year. I am far from him but I want us to be close and ... (98 words)

He wouldn't be exclusive, may have cheated and has now left for 5 months. Will it work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - The guy i was dating is gone with the army for 5months, we were with eachother all summer but we could never be exclusive because of certain circumstances. He was not married or anything like that but there was a complication. We were very close to eachother textin n ringing ... (204 words)

Are you genuinely happy being single? If so why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Are you single and stuck in your ways? It seems these days that most people only feel complete if they are in a relationship. I will admit I used to feel the same way. And went from one relationship to the other, quite quickly. I have been single now for a couple of years, a... (137 words)

Ex exotic dancer can't stop sexualizing everyone in the world...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi ~ I have been an exotic dancer for over 1 years on and off. The industry jaded me for a long time, then finally I found love and all that changed. I have a good sex life, although too infrequent, w my partner.. although I can't seem to stop sexualizing everyone in ... (193 words)

How do you reconcile differences and live w/ the unresolvable? How do you know the person is worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - (Mod Note: Two questions in one.) How do you reconcile differences and live w/ the unresolvable? How do you do this w/o feeling that you have compromised your values to be w/ someone? How do you feel intimacy and attraction to your partner by agreeing to disagree on thing... (151 words)

My online guy of a month wants to marry me! Is it really meant to be?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OMG..I have a problem I'm so confused idk what to do..so here I go!! Ok I met this guy through the internet and we have been talking for a while now close to a month but we talk on the phone and txt and send pictures of eachother but you see he asked me to marry him!! I was ... (193 words)

Was this rape? He's acting like nothing happened....

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Last night me and my bf were having sex he was behind me when he stuck his finger in my anus. He has done it b4 which i dont mind as it doesnt hurt me. B4 i continue weve always had this joke bout doing it up the bum. I always said i would never do it and he says u will u will ... (321 words)

I don't think I can trust him after he went off on stage with a stripper....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What would u do in this situation? I met this man a few wks ago and its been going good really getting to know each other. We havent slept together yet. Just kissing a cuddling. Anyway he went on a stag do last wk end to ansterdam. I didnt worry while he was there he text me ... (301 words)

9 years of marriage, husband had affair while I was pregnant and I can't get over it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 'recovering' from my husbands affair. When I say recovering, what I actually mean is making very slow progress, which seems to relapse alot. We were married 9 years, I fell pregnant last year. I had the perfect pregnancy , my husband was supportive and always there, ex... (465 words)

How can we keep the relationship alive when we're so far apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This will be a long read, but I would appreciate it truly very much if someone took the time to read it... I am in love. Like, really, very much in love. He's my very first boyfriend, and my first love. I know that once I mention for how many days we've been in a relationshi... (907 words)

Should I keep trying and suffer the consequences of rejection? Or stay single forever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm nearly 40. My last serious relationship was 7 years ago. I was celibate for 5 of them. 2 years of celibacy was "self-imposed" because I felt that I needed to concentrate on myself. Those 2 years were great - I really widened my circle of friends and activities and now have ... (726 words)

Should I break up with her over this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am having an issue with my girlfriend. I have been with her for a bit over 7 months. She has facebook. When i first starting dating her, about a month into our relationship, one of her facebook friends left her a comment on one of her pictures saying "sexy motherfucker" .she ... (537 words)

Can anyone help me figure out my sexual orientation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm looking for some help in figuring out my sexual orientation. Here's the deal: I've always almost exclusively fantasized about women. When I fantasize about heterosexual sex, my imagination will always be focused on the woman. I imagine being the woman or a lot of the tim... (303 words)

Does his use of porn effect your relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - 1 - Does his use of porn affect how you feel about him and having sex with him? 2 - Have you talked to him about how you feel and what did he say? 3 - What makes him/your relationship so great that you feel you HAVE to accept this if it makes you unhappy? 4 - If you... (77 words)

4 years affair and I don't think he's ever going to leave his wife

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - first of all im begging you all not to pass moral judgment however tempting it might me,, heres my problem ive been seeing a married man for 4 years..and hes been giving me hopes..that we could be together as his wife had an affair and hes not really in love with her but hav... (158 words)

I managed to lose weight and get into shape...now I need help talking to girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, in my past I was always that chubby kid, and yeah, I had popular friends, and soon found out that ANY popular kid who hangs out with a non-popular kid is only doing it because, in comparison to you, they are ALOT more attractive and such, and they seem nicer to ... (180 words)

Is it crazy to want to see your man have sex with other women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it crazy to want to see your man Have sex with other women? It turns me on to think that my husband has sex with other women and it turned me on when we had threesomes. ... (37 words)

What makes a woman change when she starts dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age - Whar is it that comes over a woman when newly in a realashionship? I've turned into someone I don't recognize anymore. I went from being cool, calm and quite "righteous". I have turned into a jealous and very insecure woman all of a sudden. I have a situation that keeps ... (327 words)

Is it too weird to date a friend's ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated my ex boyfriend for about 6 months. We have been broken up for about the same amount of time now ( he broke up with me and started dating his ex) i was sad because we got along great and things were getting a bit serious between us, so it kinda took me by surpsie.... so ... (403 words)

He contacts me so little, is he cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi...my boyfriend is 4 years younger then me. He stays 2 hours drive from my home. He always says that he loves me and his not cheating with me but don't know why m not feeling comfortable with him. I mean i have a feeling that his cheating with me. He hardly calls me. Its me ... (139 words)

Orgasm only during foreplay not sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, im not sure if this is too open for this but i will give it a shot anyways. So every time i have sex i can't seem to have an orgasm. I can only during foreplay. Is something wrong with me?... (44 words)

Married women: would this creep you out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (?) age - OK, I know this question is going to sound creepy to some of you. For the other, more open-minded married women, I’m interested in what you have to say. My wife and I have been together, exclusively, for 25+ years, married for 20+. We have kids, who are now teenagers. My ... (371 words)

My insecurities are getting the best of me in this relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a serious relationship we met 9mths ago and things have been awsum but lately for the last few weeks i have started to feel insecure about things, my body him being friends with other girls and it makes me feel that hes gonna run away on me even tho he has told me he is ... (159 words)

My friend is dieting, and drinks a lot of wine, I am concerned

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a bit concerned about my freind. She is dieting and all she will eat in one day is , lettuce with vinegar and lemon juice, a small amount of grated cheese and either a peice of ham or tiny bit of chicken. Every third or 4th day she will have one egg and one bit of bread... (354 words)

I'm so fickle! Should I not date this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old teen.I've been liking this guy from my eight grade..It was a crush then he was liking this other gal.. When i was in 10 he proposed me n we got into a relationship.Broke 5 months then on cuz i lied..My mistake i agree..But then he was never loyal..N there w... (288 words)

Boyfriend's self esteem issues turned me off of him, now I just want to break up with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, So about fiveish months ago I met an amazing guy (my boyfriend), attractive, nice and caring. A couple weeks into actually dating each other he would make comment's every now and then like “you’re beautiful, are you positive you like me". I would just smile and tell him... (244 words)

Follow up on emigrating to Oz while my mum has cancer; is the relationship over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am feeling more and more isolated by the day since I last posted my question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-mum-has-just-been-diagnosed-with-cancer.html. Thank you to everyone who replied the responses were very balanced and I have reflected on them. I am finding that ... (178 words)

Why am I dreaming of the world coming to an end?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, its the dream girl again. Last night i had another strange dream. Actually i can remember having this dream about a month ago. I'm in a mall there are a fair amount of people, going about doing there shopping. Then my younger sister says that she wants to go a jeweller shop ... (180 words)

Should she be worried that she's pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) age 30-35 - my best friend, had unproctected sex 7 days before her period but she says that he didnt come or didnt even get his pius in her but now she is 4days late should she be worried... (36 words)

My mom is sneaking around with a new guy. I feel like my home isn't a 'safe place' anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - recently my mom divored my stepdad. and that ok. but in the middle of august she went on a trip for her work and on the way back she met a guy. i guess they got long. but the thing is.. that hes married. apprently arent going well for him an dhis wife. but i have hated this ... (232 words)

What kind of flirting do men really like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - What kind of flirting by women do men really like? I mean, what types of things get a man's interest going in a good way, getting him intrigued and attracted, and interested emotionally and physically. I mean as opposed to the stuff that just makes a woman seem like she's ... (66 words)

Parent worried that her fifth-grade daughter isn't making friends

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3 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I want to post another question, and this is not the same question; it is just the same subject. My fifth-grade daughter is very shy. I feel really, really bad about it as I worry that she will not make friends. Is there any help out there for me? Does anyone have any ... (371 words)

I'm not comfortable with my girlfriend talking for hours with her guy friend...what should I do?

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3 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend is quite close to another guy friend of hers and they often talk for hours late at night/early in the mornings. im very uncomfortable with it and i've spoken to her about it but all she said was "sorry" and continued doing it. what should i do?... (49 words)

Girls, do you like it when guys wear eyeliner, or "guyliner"?

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3 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - do girls like it when a guy wears guyliner? i would like girls' opinions. thanks for any responses... ... (18 words)

Would it be lame to stop being friends with him?

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3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, for the last two school years, I've known this guy. About the second half of last year, we became pretty good friends, but it was pretty much just at school. Over the summer, we barely texted or anything. Well, this school year, I think we got closer as friends, and started ... (435 words)

Is it normal that my boyfriend got mad because my ex posted on my Facebook?

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3 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Just wondering if there's a bigger issue at hand or not. Had a wonderful dinner/movie with my boyfriend of almost 2 years and as we got out of the movie he checked his blackberry where he has facebook and it updates you when someone comments on a friends status. My boyfri... (347 words)

He is friends with the girl he cheated on me with. Should I just get over it?

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3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi so I had been with my boyfriend for a year and a half when he cheated on me with a girl i was kinda friends with, he says its not cheating coz we werent together at the time coz we had been fighting a lot but i never knew we had actually broken up. So anyways he hooked up ... (212 words)

Why won't my family give me space?

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3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I'm 20 years old and my family marks my every move. Today I went to visit my oldest sister and it was a mistake. Her boyfriend is a big trouble maker and she believes everything he says. One of his friends had a digital camera he wanted to sell. So I was interest in ... (326 words)

Is he too scared to get involved again?

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3 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am "just friends" with a man who I dated for three months time over a year ago. He is a full time father of his daughter for two weeks at a time, alternating with his ex for two weeks. Everything started beautifully and we ended up sleeping together on the third date. ... (525 words)

Should I confront her?

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3 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I want to explain a situation. I have a daughter who is in fifth grade in school and is very shy. It is a small school, and there are only three other girls. The other girls are all very bouncy and outgoing. I feel that my daughter is kind of left out. No one purposely ... (404 words)

Was this incident sexual assault?

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3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is this sexual assault or acquaintance rape or anything of that matter? I had a long day and one of my best guy friends were sleeping over. He always had the hormones and hots for me and I liked him, but before the incident I was never the person to a "friends with benefits" ... (244 words)

Do guys like pet names?

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3 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone ! I just wana know do guys like to be called by their name or do they like to be called by something like 'honey' or 'baby' or darling ? ... (32 words)

What kinds of things do guys do when they like a girl?

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3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if this site is only for personal problems, but I really want to get an answer from a guy, or as many as posible. How can a girl tell if a guy really likes her? What knd signs does he give off during conversation or just when he's near her? I'd really like to know ... (97 words)

He wants phone sex! Does that mean he likes me?

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3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so their this one guy i really really like you but then he never tell me how he feel:/ mmm he will tell me to have phone sex with him and i'll do it cuz i really like him i know its really stupid but thats how he makes me happy. Anyways do you think that guy like me or not ? or ... (166 words)

Which girl should I go for? And how should I talk to the one girl?

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3 October 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello. I've three questions I'd like some help with. Thanks in advance for your advice. First, I like two girls. I've been told that this is all normal and fine, and that's well and good, but I can't decide between either one. I'm leaning more towards the one I started l... (309 words)

She constantly talks about marriage. What should I do?

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3 October 2009 (M)

age - I've been dating this young lady for 2 years. She constantly talks of getting married. She has never been married , I've been married twice. One for 1 year, second for 21 years. As a divorced man I try to explain to her that a marriage takes more than love to survive. I've ... (131 words)

I need help with ending a relationship!

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3 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I will be ending an eleven-year relationship. She knows I am considering it, but she is very hopeful I will choose to stay. I care about her and she still feels very strongly for me. When the time comes, is it wrong for me to be there to comfort her by holding and hugging ... (87 words)

He's convinced I've cheated so how do I trust he won't cheat on me?

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3 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - He says he is convinced I cheated on him. In reality, I did not. He says he wants to still make the marriage work, and that he will leave me before he would cheat on me. How can I trust that he will not cheat on me, when he says he is convinced that I cheated on him?... (61 words)

Get back together or say goodbye?

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3 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im now 3 months pregnant with my boyfriend/ soon to be husband and i found out that he was secretly talking to other girls behind my back. there was no touching, seeing or intamit things going on. but he was talking to them when we fought or when he wasnt around me. there was ... (146 words)

Will I even satisfy her?

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3 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi um... this isn't very standard for me. I mean, I've watched tutorials and what not, but nothing happens to me in real life. Not physically anyway. And I'm not one to ask these kinds of questions mainly because I've never gone through most of the shit I want to ask about. I ... (348 words)

Should I just go on with my life or stay and work it out?

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3 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been married to my husband for 2 years. we've known each other for over 11 years. we have our share of problems almost everyday. we'll for start he cheated on me and it was going on for the 2 years we was separated. we decide to go into a shelter, we was doing that for 3 ... (240 words)

Why did she reject my proposal?

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3 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I meet a girl. She is very beautiful. She is my friend. After few days i propose her and say that i love you. She replied that i cant accept your proposel. Because she loves other boy since 2 years and they have breakup also. I know that she loves me heartly. So why she is ... (59 words)

Can I get a woman's opinion on my relationship?

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3 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i was recently in Alaska working away from home for two month. Befor i left my girlfriend brought up the subject of our sex life and the lack of. since i have retuned we have only had sex once when she came home drunk from the bar. i have been at my best behavior up til ... (100 words)

Is it wrong for me to date a 19 yr old?

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3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 15 im currently dating a 19 year old we stay friend and arent intesrested in sex until were married but i have been told it is illegal to be four years of age to date but in two montshs i will be 16 and he had just turned 19 is it wrong because were friends and are dating ... (67 words)

Is my penis small for my age?

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3 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - MY Penis is smaller then all my freinds! I only know as i saw them in the shower.. and im rally upset as i feel left out! I know i sound gay looking at my freinds penises but i just had to.. Please help my penis is about 2.5cm long. I am also 13.. PLEASE HELP ME! :(... (61 words)

Do men have more partners than women?

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3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how many people have you had sex with-I heard hugh hefner has been with 4000 women How unusual is that kind of behavior-is anyone here in quadrouple figures? I'm just curious-I heard men have more partners than women-is this true?... (42 words)

How do I get my friends to like my new guy and get along with him?

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3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Any advice would be helpful please... I have been friends with a guy for about 3 years now. We get o n great and always have fun when were together.After we went for lunch yesterday we went back to his house. There was nobody home when we got there and I finally got the cour... (166 words)

I've fallen for him, but he can be quite a strange character!

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3 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - we have an age gap of 14 years and hes being the elder one. We met through a commom friend and before he knew she was getting married he used to give her little hints. She is brazilian and i am caucasian. I went out with him once already and we kept in touch, but he is a full ... (290 words)

We haven't done anything sexual, but she wants to see my penis!

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3 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girl friend are close..we're both 15 and we've been going out for a month. We havent done anything sexual and im not pressuriing her..shes not pressuring me either. We just hug,kiss/makeout/and cuddle. But lately she's been wanting to see my penis. And i wanna do it ... (88 words)

Why am I embarrassed to introduce him to anyone?

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3 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is the fact that I am embarrassed to introduce my boyfriend to my colleagues, friends, etc. a bad sign? He is a super sweet guy but his grammar is not great, and he is a little rough around the edges. I did introduce him to a very close friend of mine after she asked several ... (71 words)