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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can he be a virgin at 40 plus???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age - I've known this guy just under a year- both in our early 40's- we met at work but dont work in same place. We have a few friends in common and others who arent. Since we met we have seen loads of each other - we now see each other every week or so, text nearly every day , speak ... (340 words)

I'm finding it hard to think that the kind, attentive, wonderful man that I fell in love with has disappeared at the moment or even forever.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having problems in my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been going out for 2 1/2 years in an LDR. My boyfriend has been working really hard lately, so much so that I haven't seen him since the end of September whereas we were seeing each other once every other ... (602 words)

One for the guys... what kinds of things can a woman say to you or do to get your attention and keep it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've lived around guys all my life; my dad and my two brothers, and I still don't have them figured out. So now I'm asking you, the random internet males, what kinds of things can a woman say to you or do to get your attention and keep it?... (49 words)

Any ideas for my friend's birthday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I need some good ideas. Especially from the ladies, but you guys are also welcome to throw some in there. My fiancé's birthday is coming up. And I want to make it really special. It's her first B-day since we have been together. She did awesome on my birthday. Had ... (297 words)

Is sex before marriage okay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Is sex before marriage ok? I mean what happens if it's going to be a while before you find the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with??? ... (32 words)

I feel as if he's now using our son as an excuse...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I really need some advice please someone! I caught my husband texting an old flame a couple of weeks ago and questioned him about it a couple of days ago he said he was really sorry, usual stuff but I feel so betrayed and worthless to him now, there are so many emotions... (437 words)

He's playing with my head. How can I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Once i started back to the life ,back on the track , he got back to me .....why ? i am not going to finish from this story or what ? he broke my heart 3 months ago , he said awful things about me, trashed my reputation he was the happiest person in the planet when h... (315 words)

I'm pregnant and father doesn't want the baby... he wants the abortion pill!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 and just found out last week I am pregnant with my boyfriends baby. He is 20 and his father is a pastor. We were very devastated that we were pregnant and I told my sister, he told his brother and wife. The people we have told are very supportive of us keeping the baby. ... (244 words)

How could he say he might love me only to drop me shortly after?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had been dating this guy that lived in my hometown for almost 7 months. The first 2 months were while I was at college, but when I was home, I followed him to all the summer ball games he played. When I had to go back, he told me how he would visit me a lot and how we would ... (913 words)

Should I give him a chance to let his character shine through?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5494 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was totally inlove with a charmer he was great made me laugh made me feel want him so much cos he knew all the right things to say to me! He had lots of women b4 me and woman in between us spilting up! He cant settle down he enjoys the chase of the woman to much! I thought he ... (200 words)

How can I retract my foreskin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 15 and I can not retract my foreskin. Is there something wrong and what can I do to start retracting it?... (24 words)

Why doesn't my husband ever want to go anywhere with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 19years old and my husband is 20 and this feb 14th 2010 we will be married for 2 years. and weve been together 3. we have a son. but thats not our problem. our relationship is so confusing. i really dont mind cleaning, i used to clean the house for him all the time but he ... (277 words)

How can I get her to accept when I ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i met a girl and asked her out but she is insisting on what i saw in her and why i asked her out. I told her because she is beautiful but she won't accept... (35 words)

Would I be overstepping the mark with a birthday card?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I just have a bit of a small issue. I am friends (very close friends, but I want it to be more) with a guy, we are like two peas in a pod, and it is his birthday soon. I really like him a lot, but he has a girlfriend. Would it be inappropriate to send him a birthday c... (88 words)

Should I have him visit to see how he feels?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - I dated TJ during the summer. We had a good relationship and we had a lot of fun together. I was going away to school so I decided to end things. After Almost two monthes of guys here I realized that they just want to hook up and I'm not ok with that. I want a nice guy. I ... (168 words)

Is it bad for a Christian girl to masterbate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im a 15 year old qirl. i am christian. in i have several questions. is it bad for a christian qirl to mastrubate?is it bad for a girl to mastrubate? can you loose your virginity? please help... (37 words)

My ex is a jerk but I still want him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) age 36-40 - My ex is a jerk but I sitll want him. Last night he took me to a pub, because he was meeting a guy over there. I told him he could go alone, 'cause I wasn't in the mood for going out. But he begged, so we went. It was all ok, but suddenly he flipped. He has problems with my ... (1033 words)

Dating problems: covered in freckles, bi, and overweight!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok well I am 18 and I am having trouble dating I am bi and there are no girls or guys looking at me to date is there something wrong with me. I am a little over weight and covered in freckles but no one seems to like me... (49 words)

Should I ignore him or ask him about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this guy I have had a crush on for two semesters now, he is really outgoing, he knows a lot of women and flirts a lot too. I can not even got back into the Art Building without him "flirting" with me. So I was walking on the opposite side of him in this long hallwa... (243 words)

Should I have sex with her when we aren't in a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl that I've know since the 6th grade and I've always thought she had a nice body. We're in the 9th grade now. We started talking over the internet and one thing led to another and we ende up having internet sex and now se wants me to meet her in the bathroom at ... (124 words)

I'm self conscious about loose skin after losing weight!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi ive just started dating really nice man. Ive been single a yr and im a bit out of practice. I just wandering how long do people wait until u start sleeing with someone? Im a bit body concious and dreading taking my clothes of to a new man. Ive lost a lot of weight and have ... (77 words)

Can anyone help sort out my marriage problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - well!!! hi ... i hurt my wife feelings and i told her we must stop then i got regret , i feel kind of lost i was study in university and i got out of university cant continue anymore and i didnt told anybody till now i feel a shame of my self , iam syrian and my wife she ... (497 words)

I want to break up but how to tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5527 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,I can't raaly understand why I'm riting and asking you that question,but first time in my life I feel ansequre if the tnings that I am going to do are right.I have a boyfriend from a year ago.In the start was normal relationship.but now I just know that I don't love him and ... (136 words)

How do I handle my husband and son smoking out of bongs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age - I am a 46-year-old businesswoman, who's well-liked in my local community. However, it's my personal life that's troubling - I came home from work one afternoon to find my husband and 16-year-old son smoking bongs together in the living room. I was so livid I asked them wh... (231 words)

Do girls cum after orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Do girls cum after orgasm?? ... (5 words)

Do you think I should tell my parents about my BF before I leave or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll spare you all of the intracate details if you'll avoid wasting your time and asking me or telling me whether or not what I'm doing is smart, safe, thought out, etc.... In January '10 I'm flying out to my boyfriend's town to stay there for 3 months. Even if my bf didn't ... (744 words)

How do I approach this without making it an ordeal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been dating close to a year and are happy together. Like all couples we have our fights and problems, but we get along well and we definitely see this as having future potential. The problem is the quintessential friends issue. I ... (344 words)

Is he angry about something or has he just lost interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, quick question there is a guy i know through friends, and we've known each other for about a year but only recently he has started to get in touch with me talking to me more texting me alot. When we met he was with someone but he is single now. we've been chat... (151 words)

He only wants me when he can't have me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i met a guy about a year ago and he sent me lots of txt messages, tellin me he was in love with me etc, after a couple of months i really got to like him so we went out a few times and then had a month long intense relationship seeing each other every day and having amazing ... (277 words)

Does my close friend like me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Over the last few months I've started to really like one of my closest male friends. I've known him for a year and we lived together in halls at Uni. We have a little group of friends, us and a couple of others, who hang out together a lot. We get on really well and talk ... (405 words)

Could she be walking all over me at her convenience?

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31 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright everyone so I have a little problem. I have been seeing this girl for about 3 months...it's a casual thing...go on dates..we kiss when we part..we were friends to begin and then it turned into this. I have very strong feelings for her and thats saying alot considering I ... (469 words)

Is the odor thing normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, this is rather embarrassing. I get sexually aroused VERY easily, it happened the other night! i spoke to a guy whom i really like which made me 'wet' as i am very attracted to him. So a few minutes later i sit down with a few friends, then moments later i notice a slight ... (109 words)

Freezing cold in South Carolina

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age - My wife and I have been married for 20 years now and her interest in physical contact (hugging, sex, general closeness) has all but disappeared over the years. When we were dating it was much different. I still tell her everyday that I love her and think she is pretty(which I ... (172 words)

Should I disclose why intimacy scares me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so my question is about being in a successful relationship. i'll admit that ya i'm a virgn and ya i tended to avoid relationships, but the thing is i've had a pretty messed up past. i was abused physically and emotionally and there are some other things. i really do want to ... (140 words)

Will first time sex hurt if you've been fingered?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If you've gotten fingered and it didnt hurt at all, will it hurt when you have sex for the firs time?... (21 words)

Married! How do I get over this huge crush?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I met my wife 15 years ago. It started as one night thing that just got extended... I have later realized that I never had a change to have big crush on her first. We just started being together because it was convenient and we liked each other. Little over year ago I met a... (305 words)

Why do I feel a sense of rejection with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi here's my problem -- I feel sick and upset even thinking about the fact that other men have slept with my girlfriend. She is 18 and I am 20. I fell deeply in love with her the day that I met her two years ago, but it took her 5 months to feel the same for me. The day we m... (199 words)

I'm 17 and have signs of pregnancy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya im 17 and are getting signs of pregnancy and im excited in myself but not really sure if my bf wants to keep it coz he finks im only young but wen i talk him in2 it he gets really in2 it x i have strong views bout adoption coz i havnt had a mum there 4 10 years and really ... (96 words)

Is this relationship one-sided?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend since June and even from the begining she told me she still had feelings for her ex. But she and I pushed foward and wanted to give our relationship a try so we did. What happened was she accidently got pregenant and didn't find out for sure ... (345 words)

Is it normal for a boy to say, "I love you" in a different way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok. One day in science my boyfriend said I love You, But he didn't say it like that he said "Like the barney song." I was like Awwwwwwwwwww. I think it's sweet and wierd. Is it normal for a boy to say I love you to you in a different way?... (51 words)

I broke up with him! Is he an abuser?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of four years(long distance for about 2 years, he lives in england) have just broke up because i have decided to end it after her verbally attacked me over a ridiculous reason. Here it goes...so my boyfriend is 25, lives alone pays his own bills etc..and i am 20 ... (231 words)

How do I stop blaming myself for masterbating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Cupid, i feel blame whenever i masturbate and am trying to stop this but is hard. i feel sexual sometimes. i masturbate in order to to get satisfaction. is there any way i can stop this. i don't want to wasting my sperm and I don't want to have sex with a girl because i ... (68 words)

If I leave him he has no one else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm in need of some help,I have been with my boyfriend for the last 3 years, and i now feel like i'm stuck because if I leave him he has no one else. this is because he changed universitys (to the one im at)and has made no other friends. However i know that i don't lov... (164 words)

I consistently dawged this woman out and I need to make amends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a huge issue that I created for myself. FOur years ago I meet the woman of my dreams but at the time I didnt realize it. I didnt realize it until recently. She did everything in her power to please me and because I was so bitter of how my previous relatio... (278 words)

He must think I'm so stupid!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know if i am over reacting but, recently i found on my boyfriends laptop a number of folders of girls pictures which must equal to over 300 pictures of half naked girls etc including my best friends! But he said sorry and that he forgot it was even there. Yer right... (133 words)

Don't play with my heart!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i love a korran's girl but i don't know how to say to her. Onece i tryed to say her but she refussed to be gf and bf i relized she is serious so i told her why i love so much and i will do evrything for u but she didn't say anything after that i tryed to satify her to accept to ... (125 words)

Can exercising too much stop your period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't really a relationship question but i'm pretty sure you can help me. Basically i've been wondering whether doing too much excerise can stop your period. A couple of years ago I used to do a fitness plan and it was like fifty sit ups, thirty press ups and a certai... (117 words)

Should I leave my husband of 23 years? Is this the grass-is-greener syndrome? Mid life crisis?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age - Agony Aunts: I have asked my husband of 23 years years for a divorce. We have our house on the market. We are living under one roof until the house sells which is working very well so far. We have a 19 year old girl and a 12 year old boy. My husband has never touched m... (349 words)

How do I reply to his text?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. So I have been devasted and lost for the past week and a bit because my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me. It was a shock and I haven't been able to function properly all week. His is reasons for breaking up with me were the following: he felt that 1 on 1 ... (290 words)

Why has she gone cold on me suddenly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl online and we talked for two days and REALLY hit it off, like the best i have initially ever gotten along with a girl we chatted things up and thursday morning i texted her same continued but i had school and she had work so i finished up and stopped. I tried ... (207 words)

Should I just break up with my boyfriend and live my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over two years now. We have a good relationship, but I'm no longer sure about if we should be together. The reasons why I doubt the relationship is that he can be really aggressive and (in my opinion) selfish and controlling - I have to do ... (390 words)

Should I accept my boyfriend's continued friendship with his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My boyfriend is currently friends with his ex. However, they were NOT friends when we started dating. They dated for 2 or so years, and that was a couple years ago. But when our relationship really started to advance, a few months in, she started texting and calling ... (296 words)

How do I stop obsessing and missing my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) age 30-35 - Im 16 and my girlfriend is turming 18... Every time im not with her im depressed, even tho i talk to her, its just when ever im dont talking to her i get sad and depressed. Heres our story.... We met at work weve been goin out for 2 weeks, my friend introduced us...... (138 words)

Feelings hurt...what's next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for 2years and known him for 3-4, recently he did something that really hurt my feelings to the point that I doubted if I wanted to stay together. I love my partner and realize that he did not hurt my feelings deliberately but by accident and ... (138 words)

Should I be looking for a dominant girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently whilst watching videos on the internet, i have found myself looking at dominatrix videos. Does this mean i should have dominant girlfriend or am i very strange?... (28 words)

The right time to kiss her...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I'm taking this girl out to the cinema today and i would like to kiss her. What do I do to kiss her without looking or ending up doing something wrong or silly?... (36 words)

Advice needed. I think I'm in love with my best guy friend but he does not love me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is a repeated question and it is quite long, but please bear with me. I have the most wonderful guy friend you could ever ask for. He is my best guy friend, and I love him dearly. He is always there for me when I am down, he tells me everything, he trusts in me and ... (346 words)

Why is he so unsure about what he wants in life yet IS so sure he doesn't want to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me about two months ago. The reason we broke up was because he lost his feelings for me. Recently we had a conversation where he said we can't be together if our goals/ wants are different. So i asked him what his goals/wants are. He ... (124 words)

How do I sort my head out and get back on track?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i would be very grateful if you could read this and not judge. I just dont know whats wrong with me, my head is so messed up. I am 17 years old and i am currently studying my A2 levels (loads of work), i just recently passed my driving test (which has been a long ter... (334 words)

Should I take revenge... or should I forgive and forget?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Back near the end of May I was in P.E and I didn't do it that day. I was sitting with a few of my closest friends and I suddenly got upset because I had a secret and knew it was going to blurt out. So I ran to the toilets in tears and my best friend Hayley came and asked me ... (374 words)

Scared of my virginity, tempted to give it to an ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) age 41-50 - My ex is in town and i'm tempted to lose my virginity to him ... i over analysed the importance of it before and even now have slight fear of not being a virgin forever but at the same time have fear of being a virgin forever. I trust my ex and i know it will only be a one ... (384 words)

I somehow feel that he likes me, yet isnt interested in a serious relationship. Please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a stable relationship with a guy who loves me truly. We live in different cities and since last year I started to take liking for a colleague of mine. We talk to each other about work and personal stuff every single day. For the last 1 year we were just good friends. 2 ... (139 words)

My obsession of my b/f's ex has turned into depression, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5531 days ago

31 October 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I am glad I have found this site.I have been obsessed with my bf's ex ever since we first started going out. We have been together 10 months now and he moved in with me quickly.I love him very much.This week I have deleted my facebook to stop myself from looking at photos of ... (619 words)

Victim of love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. I never had problems with women, but I've always trusted too much and let myself vulnerable at every step of all my relationships. I've been cheated on, hurt, used, robbed, insulted, and pretty much abused. now I feel as tho I have been hurt so much that I can no longer ... (69 words)

I want her but she doesn't even have feelings for me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am 16, and I am in love with one of my close friends. we live about an hour apart by public transportation, and we've only seen each other once. We met about 5 months ago, and she has been hurting me unintentionally for many months now. She's in love with her ex, who ... (187 words)

Is it just a friend thing or does he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I have recently been busy and tired and was too nervous to say hi to my crush but during those days that happend he had been talking to my best girl friend and when i didnt say hi to him he asked my best friend if i was mad at him or if i was avoiding him then she told him ... (448 words)

I'm gay and I want a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - O.k. i'm in a rural town. I want a boyfriend, and i just don't know people around here, and most of them i don't wanna know. I'm kind of out, and people are more accepting than i thought, But still misunderstood because there's not too many gay people out here. i've had ... (372 words)

I'm truly in love with my cousin!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - well there's so much to say i dont really know where to start. from the very beginning will make most sense. i've known my cousin Adrian ever since i was born. he's a year oler than me and we've always been very close. we told eachother everything, made excuses for eachother, ... (538 words)

Taboo fantasy help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've never told anyone about this but I need some advice. I like to keep things exciting in the bedroom and my boyfriend of 5 months wants to indulge me as I indulge him. We are just beginning anal sex as its his biggest fetish and I like to make his fantasy come true. We are s... (260 words)

My girlfriend kissed her bi-sexual friend in front of me, is this OK?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend kissed her bi-sexual friend tonight at our house party. her friend is really ugly and makes my skin crawl. I saw them snogging and it was longer then 5 seconds and involved eyes clossed and tounges full on. it totaly ruined my night and sobered me up in seconds. i ... (358 words)

How can I make her like me again...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I'm in love with this girl... problem is, she has a boyfriend. We dated about two months ago, but we broke up... until' she got together with him, we just remained good friends. I told her, tonight, that I was planning on asking her to get back together with me, before ... (139 words)

Help! I left a 31-year relationship with a woman I could 100% trust, for a relationship that I don't think I can ever trust!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

31 October 2009 (M)

age - hi all this is a long one so here we go,i meet this girl about 16 months ago by the way im 48 shes 45 around the same time i left my wife now ex-my girlfriend isn't exactly the honest type found out she was seeing here old boyfriend behind my back for a while 4 months or so w... (300 words)

Is he being clingy or am I just not used to a guy like this?

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31 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im loosing patience with my guy of 6 months. I was the one head over heels for him and had to step back cuz he was not ready. well now he is ready, askin me to move in for the last 3 months and i dont the feel the same as i did. He calls me allot during the day and the firs... (241 words)

What do you class as cheating?

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31 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - OK, I wanted the aunts views on this.... What would you class as cheating?.... naughty phonecalls, texts, emails, pictures, thinking about someone else, a kiss, or full sexual contact?... My reason for asking is that I checked my bf's emails on facebook and he had some... (260 words)

We have just become 2 people sharing a house not a home.

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31 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - As I can tell by many of the responses to my early question about private email, does my wife have the right to view my email. Let me go a step further and explain and ask my question in a a clearer and more understanding way. My spouse had an affair before me and yes I 3 years ... (181 words)

He asks me to split the check - is he really interested in me?

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31 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a little old fashioned and always had the idea that when a man is truly interested in you he pays for dinner. I've been on four dates with this guy and each time he ask to split the check. Is this guy really into me?... (48 words)

Should I tell him what happened? I'm leaning towards no.

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31 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of a year and I broke up over a month ago and at first we were still sleeping together until I told him it would end up hurting me and we needed to stop. He had been really mean and unappreciative of me during the relationship and he was so mean to me for the month ... (198 words)

Where do you think this reltionship will go?

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31 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - well, during the summer, i started going out with a girl im, 14 and she is 13, a year below me, but we were off school and i didnt get to see her, after summer, i moved countries and we were both sad that i could only speak to her on msn, but she was determined that she wouldnt ... (186 words)

Does he still like me, miss me or maybe want me back if he was sticking around?

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31 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone I came on here in hope for some advice and maybe help me understand what's going on. 2 years ago me and my ex broke up. It was a pretty good relationship for a while then it all went bad and we had the worst breakup where we didn't speak for nearly 2 years! I was ... (293 words)

What can I do? I'm desperate!

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31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to make my boyfriend miss me more or as much as i miss him. i also want him to call me more and appreciate that he has a rare girl and he needs to do what it takes to hold on to her. im showing him all that, just not getting it back. please help me out i want to have him ... (85 words)

What could it be?

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31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Me And My Boyfriedn Was Having Sex And He Said it Hurt When He Cumed But He Dont Want 2 Get Checked Out :/ But a Few Weeks Later i Had a Yellow Liquid In My Nikers And It Smelt Really Bad i Just Wanted 2 No If Thats Normal Because We Did Use a Condom :/ Hope You Can Help ... (65 words)

Can I trust him at this party without me?

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31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy im going to marry is going to a halloween party tonight and will be drinking. he loves me i know that but then drinking is involved im not so sure he could say no cause i had a baby and its been 6 weeks since we had sex and he has a very high sex drive. could i trust ... (67 words)

Any thoughts re my life or how I can get more from it?

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31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. Erm, I just wanted to say a few things really and get some advice? I'm sixteen and I live with my mother, who had me at a very young age, her husband and my much younger half-sisters. I left school a while ago because of bullying and just generally not fitting in with the ... (724 words)

Is there anyway I can get her to like me more than him... or am I out of luck?

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31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14, female, and bi. I like a girl who is around my age, female, and recently came out to me telling me she was bi also. Yesterday she found out a guy in one of our classes likes her, and she likes him back. (She didn't tell me that I guessed) I like this girl and have since ... (209 words)

Can anyone tell me how long after the Contraception Implant has been removed can a woman get pregnant?

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31 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Can anyone tell me how long after the Contraception Implant has been removed can a woman get pregnant? I've heard the affects can last 2-3 years after removal???... (36 words)

I seem to have no ambition to do anything...

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31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, lately i have been feeling unloved by my boyfriend of 5 years, i know he loves me but sometimes im just not sure. and i have gotten laid off work so im home a lot i never feel like doing anything, its a huge chore to leave the house, i have friends but i dont have the ... (266 words)

He likes me a lot more than I like him... how can I let him down gently?

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31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy i've never met added me on facebook about six months or so ago. For some reason i accepted him, we had no related friends or anything and his profile said he lived nowhere near me but i just left it and didn't say anything. I soon recieved texts from him asking about my... (307 words)

On the one hand I love my wife and want to take care of her but at other times I want to move on...

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31 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - DearCupid, My wife and I have been going through some rough times for sometime now. There is no doubt about my love for her. Actually, sometimes I feel I fall in and out of love. Whenever I'm with her (she is going through difficult time because of death of her Dad), I just... (182 words)

My man masturbates on a regular basis but won't do it in front of me...

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31 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, my man masturbates on a regular basis but he won't do in front of me. He claims its something he has to do in private. And when he does it he has to watch porn to perform it usually oral sex clips. My question is I wouldn't mind him doing it but in front of me ... (76 words)

Will I ever meet someone I'm truly attracted to?

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31 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Have you ever saw the movie Becoming Jane with Anne Hathaway, who plays the role of Jane Austen, the English writer who never got married because she couldn't marry the one she truly loved. Well, I feel just like her. I'm 32 years old and never been kissed or had a Boyfriend.... (219 words)

Any ideas on what I could say to meet up with my ex again?

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31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About 3 years ago now, me and my ex-boyfriend split up when he went to College 2 1/2 hours away from where we live.. (his decision to split up not mine) after going out for around 7 months. He was my first love, so I did fall hard for him at the time, and was devastated when we ... (447 words)

Regaining trust in yourself...

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31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hmm ok like over a year ago i had a relapse with my ex bf, he came over to my house nobody was home... we didnt have sex he just fingered me a little.. and we made out... my uncle came home he didnt catch us in the act but i knew he was disappointed by me... he told my mom and ... (213 words)

I'm confused that I'm sending him mixed messages.

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31 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy in one class that i have and i'm confused because he is sending me mixed messages. first it started off as him staring at me and glancing my way then since he sits in front of me he moved in the back seat..i thought he was going to talk to me but he barely did ... (262 words)