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writes: me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now. there's only one problem.. our sex life. for a year now hes probably only gotten off 5-6 times outta the plenty of times we have "tried" having sex. idk why he cant get off. idk if its me or if im doing something wrong. he cant ever stay hard and im tired of it. i don't want him to go look anywhere else for his sexual pleasures so i need help. how can i get him off or to even stay hard?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2009): I dated a guy before who could NEVER cum from having sex with me. Only if I gave him a BJ. I didn't mind doing it, and he came pretty easy that way so I was cool with it for a while. I maybe blow jobs were were just his preferred method of getting off. Until he mentioned that one of his ex girlfriends used to complain that he would cum too fast whenever he had sex with her. I was pissed.
So I dunno. Maybe you should ask him if he's had this problem with girls he has dated in the past. I don't want to be mean, but maybe it is just that he isn't that attracted to you. Unfortunately, that turned out to be the case with me and that lame guy I dated.
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reader, HereAreMyTwoCents +, writes (21 October 2009):
Viagra. Seriously. Viagra. Enough said.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): One word - Viagra!!
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