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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I will give anything just to be in love even for one day..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am almost 22 years old and I have never been kissed or had sex. Most people are excited about turning 21 but it was one of the worst days of my life because I knew it was one step closer to being a 40 year old virgin.. I have never been in a relationship and I have been on a ... (159 words)

Will girls still want me if I have waist fat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i'm kobi. I have gotten a little bit overweight recently but still want a girlfriend. will girls still want me? I mean, i'm doing my best to lose weight at the moment but I'm not sure whether I'll still be attractive with some waist fat. can anyone help me? Thank yo... (60 words)

Why do I attract pieces of shit?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - WHY DO I ATTRACT PIECES OF SHIT? I'm having a total break-down! I've been reflection on stuff and I want to scream...........is it me? what am i doing wrong? here's the story: I was with my ex for 13 years!!!(hs bf). He did NOTHING! I went to work, came home, fed ... (538 words)

Has a friend messed it up for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so confused! I told a boy in year 9 (Im in year 8) that I had a crush on him and he replied back as 'I fancy you a bit too' We were talking and he seemed really sweet, so I put him as a shoutout on my MSN name with a love heart, messages came fludding back to me from ... (139 words)

Should I hang on hoping he will come back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help,i have been going out with my boyfriend 5year now.Since last year we now staying far from each other its a long distance relationship.We have been through so much breaking up and making up this streghten our relationship.Ok i just found out he has a girlfriend where ... (244 words)

After everything is she finally thinking about giving me a second chance or am I reading her wrongly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Here's and update on what's been happening with me and my ex. I have gotten some good advice from everyone here so I have been trying to learn from it all. If you would like to know the rest of the story I have pasted it at the bottom of this question. This is what I don't ... (237 words)

Am I in a love triangle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

10 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello dear readers, so i sposted allready lot's of questions.The story is like this i've been seeing a girl for 4 months, and beetween us is real serios.She loves me and she does everything for me, we went o vacation together, she slept at my house for 1 month cooked for me ... (209 words)

He says he loves me but his actions say something else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend (together for nearly two years) always tells me he loves me. yet his actions say otherwise to me. for example, (we only see each other most weekends) but when we spend the time together, he hardly cuddles me or cosy up, i try but unless i pull his arm around me he ... (135 words)

I've had 3 abortions in two years! Can I get pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i had an abortion on the 10aug 09 due to complications,im trying again i found out im pregnant last week,but that was a chemical pregnancy. I only have 1 FLOPIN TUBE. And iv 3 abortions in 2 years, including this one. So does that mean if i had a chemical pregnancy , i can get ... (86 words)

Am I still a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i had sex with my boyfriend and he didnt break my hymen but i did bleed after but i dont know if i am still a virgin. so am i a virgin??... (33 words)

Sex hurts!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not a virgin and I didn't have much problems with my first guy, but ever since then every guy I try to have sex with has trouble penetrating me. Even oral sex and fingering isn't pleasant for me, and I just try to fake that it is. I can please myself wonderfully, but... (68 words)

I was gutted when my friend asked him out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's my problem: I really clicked with this guy who goes to my college, quicker than any friend I have ever made. He's really physical and touches me a lot. He likes carrying me around, sitting next to me - when our knees touch under the table neither of us move, he tickles ... (318 words)

I am really stiff when I try to dance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me! i'm turning 22 soon but i have never been to a dance/party or any thing as such. I've been pretty much sheltered at home and by my ex who did not want me to hang around other guys. As a result, i don't have many friends, and I have zero male friends. Recentl... (244 words)

Is my manhood too small?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hey there, i have what some mite say an unusual question. i have been married for two years and although my wife and i have a great sexual relationship i have never been able to make here cum by just having sex. it always takes a little "rubbing". is this normal? am i not long ... (73 words)

Is my lack of reaching out proof that I didn't like or care about him as much as I thought?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been talking to this guy for a little less than a year. We don't attend the same school so it's mostly through the phone and text messages. However, I do visit as often as I can. Now I have grown to like and care for him greatly and pride myself in being an hone... (296 words)

I have a real problem with sweat! What can I do to control it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i know this doesnt have much to do with relationships but it really bothers me and i need help. i finally got drysol and it worked marvelously on my underarms but doesnt work at ALL on my hands. i dont know what to do, i was so excited to finally get rid of my hand sweat and ... (88 words)

Crush on my boss at work...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been working at a new job for a few months now and since day one of my interview I've had a major crush on my boss. He's about 15-20 years older then me but I cant help but find him attractive. He has a lot of charisma and is passionate about anything he does in life ... (122 words)

I'm 17, still a virgin and I really don't want to be!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya, I'm 17, still a virgin and .. I really don't want to be! All my friends are in relationships and having lots of sex or just having sex anyway. I have quite a lot of male friends that I am close friends with and feel confident around but I seem to avoid any guy I find ... (112 words)

I'm not in a relationship but I feel like I need to call it off with this guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a little too much to drink at a party one night and ended up in one of the boys who lived there's bed. he moved away from home so left his girlfriend. we just kissed and i wouldnt go any further. he asked me if i wanted to see him again and we swapped numbers. he made it ... (230 words)

My boyfriend is trying to finger me while I am asleep. Why is he being so crude?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year. We're adults and live in our own places, however we have a situation when it comes to sex. I've recently gained weight and I feel unattractive and insecure. Everytime he tries to initiate sex I act like I'm tired. Its been a ... (165 words)

We confessed we liked each other over a month ago. What should I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

10 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me and her used to be friends but then we confessed we liked each other, that was over a month ago and now things have pretty much gone back to how they were before, we haven't talked about our feelings since. I know she trusts me enough to tell me a lot about her personal ... (136 words)

Can someone help me break this pattern in relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi every body i have something abnormal when it comes to the matter of heart. Every time when i feel that a guy loves me and i find some emothional feeling in my heart this guy treats me like his lover but they never speak about it. every time it starts like this and after i ... (231 words)

He took something very special to me. Should I confront him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - okayy so theres this guy ive liked for quite some time, we were all at this party and i was drinking a little to much, i poured my heart out to him and told him how i felt, we stated talking alot, than he took me off into this room, and we started doing this he told me that we ... (127 words)

I don't want to waste time if he doesn't like me. Is there hope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Welllll! Okay, so I kind of like this boy in my biology classs. He sits infront of me. And he kind of flirts with me but I can't tell if he's a flirt and just a waste of my time or maybe, possibly likes me. The girl next to me told me the other day "He likes you. It's so ... (772 words)

If he really wanted me...why would he push me away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need some advice about what to do..i'm really hurt...every time i think of him i get this weird feeling in my stomache..and i feel like crying..like idk why i even care but i do..i was really into this guy:( I met this guy last year during the summer. Actually he adde... (777 words)

Why do I hate him when he's done nothing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya well ive been with my boyfriend nearly 2 years now and we have a 7 month old daughter the thing is i feel like im beginning to hate him he hasnt done anything wrong but i just dont like him and its making me stressed out just looking at him makes me angry but the thing is ... (93 words)

How do I get a balance in this relationship? She's clingy and demanding...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old and my girlfriend 18. We love each other. It’s our first real relationship. We have been together for 9 months. We are comfortable with each other. The problem with our relationship is that she’s very clingy and needy. But I don’t want to break up with her, I ... (536 words)

My husband moved out to pursue employment. Any tips on how to get through this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband moved out 3 weeks ago to "pursue" employment in another state. He left me and our two daughters (11 and 14) behind to finish school year. He has hated where we live and his being unemployed really took a toll on him. He said he feels like he needs to rebuild his ... (170 words)

What is the significance of a forehead kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So i was @ my Ex girlfreinds, well Girlfreinds, she asked me to give it another go with her last nite, so i went to her house and we was Holding each other, and she asked me to kiss her on the FOREHEAD, What is the significance of a Forehead kiss? thanks chris... (55 words)

He just wants to be friends. Is there any possibility that I can be with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with a guy that I have known for a long time. He was good friends with my ex husband before we had an affair. My ex husband was very abusive and controlling. After the affair the guy I'm in love with moved away and I stayed with my ex for another year. This guy ... (159 words)

How do I fix my severe insecurities?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there. i have a problem and its something that on mind 24/7. ive met this guy who is the only person since my first love that i was giddy and excited with butterflys. were doing a long distance relationship. he is 4 years younger than me ie 19 and i worry he will make ... (282 words)

Does he want to have a child with me now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - im 16, my boyfriend is 18, we have been together for 4 months, but we have known eachother for almost a year. when school ends in june, he will be leaving for college and enlisting in the navy. yet, we want to keep our relationship together. he says the only way he could stay ... (198 words)

Why can't my heart understand what my head does?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I cant get over this HELP! My bf starting seeing someone else when my mother was dying and I was out of town. I know I should not want to be with him and in my head I can see that he was using me and wasnt kind. But I miss the playfulness and sense of humor that we shared and ... (349 words)

How do I deal with this possessive woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

- Any help here appreciated. Two of my work colleagues are having an affair. He is married and she is not. Everyone kind of knows but to be frank they have been fairly professional about now bringing it into the office. It is not my business and I have a lot going on in my life ... (154 words)

I feel deep in my soul that he's "the one". Why won't he ask me out on a date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age - What is it about when a man has been showing interest in having a relationship with me for over a year and a half but won't ask me out for a date? He is going through a divorce after a long term marriage and having a very hard time of it. I am starting to feel like he is ... (111 words)

What should I do with a husband who has so many addictions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age - ive been married for 5 years now and i made the mistake of not getting to know the man first ,soo i feel responsible for where im at today .before i married him i seen he had a lot of girly magazines around ,told him i will not tolerate porn in my house ,gave him the option of ... (237 words)

Can my girlfriend get pregnant if I didn't release sperm during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

10 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Can my girlfriend be pregnant if i didnt release sperm during sex, and can i tell if she is if it happen in june. ... (24 words)

Did I go too far by ending it completely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so confused on what to do now... Our history: Well it started back in June of 2008, we fell in love. Sadly distance between us and alcohol has taken it's toll on us once already in Feb of 2009. Well since then, we've been pretty rocky due to my trust issues... with... (442 words)

Am I wrong for not wanting her to be friends with a guy from her past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiancee doesnt like me associating with other women. She can be very jealous. I dont have a problem with that. I can be too. I dont have any girl friends, and my interactions with women are very limited. I wouldnt hang out or associate with other women out of respect for my ... (155 words)

Why won't he make a step forward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have got a crush on this guy in my class. Most of the times we kinda tease each other, laugh, sometimes even argue (others think it's in a sweet and cute way). We get a little touchy feely at times.. But when we are in public or with friends.. He won't sit next to me. ... (164 words)

How can I prevent an erection in my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I prevent erection in my boyfriend? well I do not wanna sex with him right now..but we just ouch eachother on the clothes..evrytime I touch it.his penis is getting harder and he physically hurt.. so what should I di to prevent this erection without sex? which part of ... (88 words)

How do we handle this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 yearsold and my boyfriend Josh is 25, we startes dating10 months ago when I was 4 months pregnant with my daughter. Josh knew that I was pregnant when we started dating and was fine with it. HE was very supporting and even was with me in the delivery room when my ... (256 words)

Is she toying with me for her amusement?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - help im really confused! This girl at my high school keeps writing me notes about how she is a virgin. this started happening about three weeks ago and its starting to get worse. Then in the halls i ran into her and she was like what the hell are you doin? I was so surprised a ... (76 words)

When is my next period due?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - wondering if someone can help tell me when i am due on my period and how long my cycle is. also, what a cycle is, is it the day you come on your period to the next time you come on? right so, i came on on september 13th and came off on the 18th sept. i worked it out that i a... (126 words)

Does this mean I'm not a virgin anymore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - me and and mah boyfriend were at his crib....nd we thought we were ready so he put it in just a little nd it hurt so i told him no nd he took it out.....so am i still a virgin or not?? ... (45 words)

How can I tell him without losing him?

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10 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. We moved in together after about a year together and things were great. My boyfriend has always been a very flirty person, I knew this when I met him and it usually did not bother me because I knew it was just how ... (444 words)

Which is worse and how to move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my fiance for over three years now. At the beginning of our third year together I made a few mistakes. I once gave my number out to a guy, but told my fiance on the same day and didn't know why I did it. I then developed a crush on someone I knew, and told my ... (662 words)

Help! I don't know how to decide between the two...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well... This is something that I don't know how to deal with. How do I do the right thing? There are two girls who I like. The first one I am really close to. She knows how I feel about her. Thing is though, she never rejected me as such, and I decided for myself ... (258 words)

The boy I like told everyone at school I was a frigid!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, I've loved this boy since year 6. ( I'm now in year 10.) And I've been out with him nearly 10 different times but it doesn't last long because I refuse to kiss him. It not my fault though because I was raped when I was younger. He doesn't seem to understand that it's not ... (95 words)

How can I help my friend? Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been answering questions on here as an aunt for a short while. Now I have a question/item of my own. It's actually about my friend. I have known her for almost 5 years. She was my supervisor at work and after she left the company we became and stayed friends. She ... (833 words)

I like my teacher and need advice!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a mature student at uni. I like this teacher a lot, he's interesting intelligent, funny. I think he's hot (for some reason no-one agrees, they are all clearly blind in my opinion!)He's single and he says he has no friends and niether do I. I am a pretty fussy young woma... (281 words)

I guy I like kissed another girl! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - basically this guy i like liked me a couple of weeks ago round about august time, my best friend knew i liked him and she knew he liked me back, i only found this out after he went to a party and kissed another girl. i am really upset, i don't know what to do. he isnt dating ... (156 words)

My ex broke up with me over another girl. Now he is saying he still wants me! How do I get him back properly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there.about 5 weeks ago my boyfriend and I broke up due to him having feelings for another girl.we had been together nearly a year and a half so I found it really hard. we never really stopped contacting each other even saying that we might try again in the future. howeve... (277 words)

I'm a virgin! How do I explain to my boyfriend that I am not ready?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship for about six months, and my boyfriend and I are very attracted to each other. He's made it clear from early in the relationship that he'd like to have sex, or at least be more intimate. I'm nowhere near ready, and have spoken to him about this, but ... (387 words)

After 2 negative pregnancy tests could I still be pregnant?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so on August 15th, I had unprotected sex, we didnt use the pull out method nor did he ejaculate in me (that either one of us are aware of), I had just come off my period at the time. I am now almost a month late on my period (it will be a month oct 12th) which does not ... (136 words)

I think I need a break to sort things out. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Just before my fifteenth birthday I was with this guy, who I fell in love with. But then he made some bad decisions and we went our seperate ways. Not even a month later, I got with this new guy who was nothing spectacular and I figured he'd just be a rebound guy. Well only a ... (643 words)

Why would a guy show a girl he likes her and then just disappear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - college started for 3 wks, I haven't seen my crush for the whole summer and since schools started he's been showing more attention to me. He would stare at me try to keep eye contact and I felt him trying to be around me. When we are in the same room and he's sitting kinda ac... (161 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to give me oral sex more often

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend have been together for eleven months and i believe that i give him oral sex more than he does it to me what should i do to get him to do it to me more often... (40 words)

I do not want to ruin my marriage for a ghost! Please Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been happily married for 11 years, no kids :-( my husband is wonderful man and I could not have asked for more. He gives me everything I've ever wanted. I am a very conservative women and for the the past 11 years I have never ever thought this would happen to ... (312 words)

Did I misread her signals?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well where to begin.I am 19 i will be 20 shortly and ic never had a gf..nor have i ever been on a date or even had my first kiss yet.i dont know if im what you would call picky but it's just when i feel a connection with someone is when i like them not based on looks and only ... (352 words)

Do I have the right to tell him off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im in a ldr. i came down to see him this weekend. on my way here, driving, he asked if i was going to come see him. his mother said no because itll be 11 pm by the time i got to miami. however, he and his brother are allowed to go to their friends house since they havent seen ... (162 words)

What are the chances she is pregnant?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

10 October 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Alright, so my girlfriend and I last had sex 6 days ago.(We're both 14, by the way, but please don't answer my question like you're talking to a little kid who has to be told about abstinence)After I ejaculated into my condom, I took off the condom and shes sucked every last ... (241 words)

How do I make him notice me and love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i am a 13 year old girl and i have fallen in love with a boy in my class but he loves my best friend and i am getting jealous she is very sexy and i am ok but how can i make him notice me, talk to me, and love me. please help me out or else i will start to cry.... (64 words)

Shouldn't she inspire me to get my driver's license?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I really fell for this girl I met online. We dont live too close by, but its not that far either. About 30-40 minute drive. We have been talking for months and we planned on getting together a few months back, but things didnt work out. Then we planned another day, and it didnt ... (356 words)

What's the point of a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

10 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i need to know whats the point of a relationship? after being dumped, cheated on, hurting others, and my obsession with romance. ive lost my way and reasons why a relationship is so important... (34 words)

How can I get him to focus on the good parts or our relationship?

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10 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dating a man for about 6 months now. We had a great connection from the start which grew over the summer as we spent a lot of time together hanging out almost daily, staying frequently at each other's places and generally having a lot of fun together doing even the ... (445 words)

I can't afford protection so are there any other methods of birth control?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend wants me to live with him in his car. He hates his father and his mother kicked him out. He asked me to help him clean it out because of all the vodka bottles in the back seat. He chain smokes, so that will take some getting used to. He's such an idiot sometimes, ... (146 words)

I'm getting bored with my girlfriend. Does anyone understand what I'm going through?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

10 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in a 3yr relationship with my girlfriend and we both love each other an everything but recently ive been feeling kinda bored with her. I mean b4 i wanted to be with her and talk to her 24/7 an now its just i want to leave early an talk less . We talked about getting ... (114 words)

Any advice to make things less painful while I wait for this 17yr old to turn 18?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 26 and falling fast in love with a 17 year old. We both know how each other feels and have agreed to wait until she is 18 to have a relationship. This is pretty complicated as I know and almost dated this girls older sister. Not to mention i went to high school with the ... (176 words)

She needs time but I'm home suffering in agony over her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

10 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay, well basically i'm lost. My girlfriend and i broke up yesterday because i snapped and found a call from another guy on her phone and text him cussing him out for calling her. this guy has defended her in school and apparently he knew about everything between us, but i had ... (143 words)

Should I wait until he founds out about us? She claims she loves us both..

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10 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Back in December of 2008 I reconnected with my high school sweetheart. We have not had contact since 1993. I was browsing around on Facebook and found her. I thought that it would be nice to catch up on old times with her. I knew that she was divorced and seeing someone else. ... (744 words)

Our sex life has slowed to a crawl since her best friend moved in. They sleep in the same bed!

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10 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 5 years now. I'm turning 22 soon and she just 20 now. Recently, we have undergone some struggles and although we are still very much in love with each other, we are losing our intimacy and I feel less of a connection between us, ... (501 words)

My boyfriend got a girl pregnant?

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10 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I am in desperate need of some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. I am 20 and he is 22. I have to say he is my everything, I am deeply in love with him. Our relationship has always been a good one, except for the fact that we live ... (594 words)

Is there something wrong with me if I don't enjoy oral sex?

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10 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a boyfriend and we've been with each other for just over 7 months now. We've been having oral sex for a little while now as I'm not really ready for sex yet and he's fine with that. But, the problem is when he gives me oral sex I don't tend to feel much I love my bf ... (107 words)

Has anyone else had a similar experience....letting a guy kiss you in a club?

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10 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically we were all out and bit tipsy. Some guy said "let me kiss you on the check and these girls will make out", naturally I said yes because the girls were nice looking and it's only my cheek. Then he said if he kisses my lips then I can have them both (kiss them both I ... (207 words)

I need advice before I change my phone number and emails!

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10 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - We break up for months and there isn't any contact since then. Days ago, she called, saying she miss me. The next day, I called her, she said she miss me again. Before we end the conversation, she said tomorrow she is going to call. She never call. I thought she is bus... (315 words)

Should I wait it out with a player or move on?

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10 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - If you fell in love with a player geniunely and he gave up all of his chicks to be with you and you have been dating for almost 2 years and you told a lie about someone you said you had a phone conversation with and all you really did was text that person do you think ... (119 words)

He suddenly started ignoring me and messing my head up!

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10 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im hoping you could help me out here. Let me begin by giving you a little background info...but before i do theres something you must know. The guy im talking about is in NO WAY a player or anything, be is one of the nicest guys you'll ever meet, not awesomely confident, ... (606 words)

What can I do about my girlfriend ignoring me when we hang out with friends?

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10 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I REALLY need your help on this. Ok so the thing is that whenever my GF and some of our friends hang out i feel totally ignored by her. It's happened a couple of times already. So we're just hanging out and then I'm just sitting alone or something so maybe she'll go over but ... (285 words)

How do I go about asking him out?

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10 October 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, i hope you can help with this situation.My Grandma joined a theatre group recently, she isn't a part of the group now though.When i saw one of the plays she was in, i started to like this guy in the play. We have kept intouch on Facebook. He has said quite a few times that ... (223 words)

How do I make being with my wife's sister happen?

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10 October 2009 (M)

age - i had a chance to be intimate with my wife's sister about 2years ago, and i didn't, now i am regretful that i didn't. i am regretful because i am overwhelmly in love with her. i think about her everyday. i pray and ask God to make a way that He will some how make a way for ... (103 words)

Why does this girl run so hot and cold?

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10 October 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - So, theres this girl brittany in two of my classes , shes 15 and very cute and i know point blank that she likes me, but recently shes been getting pretty strange. For one, she gave me her number but then didnt get back to my text. When i asked her about it she just grinned and ... (186 words)

How do I handle such strong feelings I have for a guy when I'm in a relationship?

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10 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for over three years now. my boyfriend is a very sweet and kind person. I know that he accepts me for who I am and I do not feel like I have to work to impress him. When we first began dating I was completely head over heels for him. For the past ... (284 words)

I like two girls but who should I choose?

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10 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've known two girls for the last two years: let's call them Sophie and Katy. I've probably talked to Sophie more and we get along really well (same type of humor and things like that), but she's really shy and kind of a loner. So, she doesn't really hang out with my group ... (236 words)

Sinuses all screwed up after deep-throating?

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10 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am bi, and I just recently deepthroated a guy one morning. The next morning, when I woke up, my throat was sore, and my sinuses were all screwed up. Now, everything is recovering slowly, but my nose is still running, and my vocal cords are a bit stressed. Can deepthroating ... (58 words)

Does it seem like he still likes me or has he moved on to that other girl?

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10 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So this boy liked me but I'm not sure anymore I liked him back and I still like him he's always hanging around with this other girl that he liked before me they hug each other all the time and talk privately to each other I'm starting to get the feeling that he likes her ag... (271 words)

How do I help him stop undergoing unnecessary pain?

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10 October 2009 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend gets upset about my past (not really a wild past, but it upsets him). He's very confused, because he loves me. However, he says rationally, he knows the past is long gone and that I love him now, but that irationally he can't help feeling like that (anger, hurt, ... (113 words)

I am bi and in my first relationship...how far should I take it?

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10 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all, this is slightly long so bear with me So i need some advice. i am a 22 year old male. i am in my first relationship, she the only women i have been with. We met through work and are at a distance, so it is slightly hard, it being at a distance and it being my firs... (652 words)

Why has my fiance changed attitudes about sex?

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10 October 2009 (M)

- I don't understand my fiancé were sex is concerned. When I met my fiancé 3 years ago she couldn't get enough sex we used to make love everyday and more than once a day, but now she has told me that she find sex dirty and it should be done in the bedroom in the dark. ... (532 words)

Is it common to feel guilt after masterbating?

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10 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been masterbating for a very long time, i do it evry other day. I was getting really worried because I thought I was the only one in the world who did it. After i do it i get a huge feeling of guilt and shame but it dosn't stop me doing it again. I question myself if im ... (124 words)

Any suggestions on vegetarian meals I can have?

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10 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a vegetarian and I have an alergy to anything with egg in, I have no idea what to eat because my choices are pretty slim, everyone i date thinks it's weird and that i'm just being awkward. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what meals I can have? Because it's star... (60 words)

Should I tell him he kissed a guy when he was drunk?

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10 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a new relationship with a man I very much love. Our relationship is going really well, and I think he's the man I may want to marry. Last night, though, I was at a friend's birthday party and got blackout drunk and apparently kissed a guy at the bar. I didn't even ... (125 words)

My boyfriend insults me and punched me in the back!

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10 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of almost two years has a huge insecurity about how he compares to other men. I have reassured him (for these two years) that he is the man I want and who I want to be with - oh, and I am 26, he is 30. Last night we were out to a wonderful dinner and he... (518 words)

I have a girlfriend but I really like this older girl!

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10 October 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i have a girlfriend but i really like this older girl in my band and we flirt alot but she has boyfriend. should i try to ask her out and if so how?... (33 words)