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writes:Here's the story folks. Met a guy a year and a half ago. I could see it on his face that he was attracted to me the moment he saw me. Things went REAL SLOW. Saw him around. Ended up hanging out with mutual friends more until we were in the same group of friends. Then this summer we became closer. Our emails and texts were subtle but hints that we cared for each other were there. Then he pulled away a bit and I left him alone for almost a month, figuring he was cutting me off. I kept a bit of distance until last week actually, forcing myself to get over him.So I was casually talking to him last week while silently wondering how he got over me so easily. (He seemed to like me more and for longer.) Then during one conversation he gave me this look like "Wait, you STILL like me?". I was just looking at him normally but I guess he could tell I had some feelings left. He seemed surprised and maybe a little agitated, like I had lied to him or something? Now he's acting strange. One minute he's ignoring me, not talking much but looking at me a lot. Next minute he's talking to me, getting in my way so I have to touch/brush past him, and smiling while also still glancing at me lots. Does he still like me? Was he forcing himself to get over me because he thought I was over him? What obvious signs should I look for that tell me he's still interested?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): It sounds like you're basing whether he likes you on social cues (not him actually blatantly saying he's in to you). Some people can be quite friendly thinking nothing of how their actions may be perceived. If you like this guy and feel strongly about it there is no harm in saying how you feel. He might actually see your ability to speak your mind as a turn on! It's like my mom says, "you will never know until you ask!" So stop agonizing over this and just ask him, if he's says he's not feeling it his loss!
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reader, heyy +, writes (20 October 2009):
mmmm.... sounds like an ass to me-who cares don't waste your time on him... I promise if a guy wants you, you will know... Don't make yourself look like a fool trying to talk to him-let him come to you. And if he doesn't, he wasn't worth your time anyways...
(OH! and if he pulls that I don't have time, he's lying... Everyone, and anyone, I don' care if you are the president... can make time for a person, IF THEY WANT TO.
Hope I helped!! Good luck!!
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