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*runettebarbie
writes:To cut a long story short I slept in the same bed as this guy one night. Nothing happened and I didn't intend on anything happening either. I didn't sleep that night anyway.I have a lovely boyfriend who Is a great friend as well. I told him what happened as I am always honest with him, he wasn't happy about it but he said he trusts me and loves me and to just let it go... but I can't seem to let it go!!I suffer from anxiety and worry about lots of stuff and recently I cant get that incident out of my head. This all happened about a month and a half ago..My boyfriend has reassured me and I feel like I am a bad person for doing that or that somewhere inside him he doesn't trust me even though he says how he feels and he told me he does trust me.What can I do to stop feeling like this? or getting worked up about stuff. Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 October 2009):
I wonder if your boyfriend's seemingly calm reaction to all this has left you a bit confused? Why don't you just talk to him about it, say that you feel very bad for what happened and just need a lot of reassurance that you're trusted. Also, maybe talk to your mum, or a good friend. It just sounds like you need to talk about it.
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