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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I find a quality partner even though I am bound in marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 44, and I have spent the past 3 years working through Immigration to bring my Filipina wife to America. She was an excellent actress and never let on, but now she is here she has left and revealed it was a sham marriage (marriage fraud) just to get here. We were married ... (98 words)

How do I let them down gently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Hi, this is just a general question. Im not pretending to be some kind of stud or anything, but a few times in my life so far Ive had girls practically throw themselves at me. The first time this happened was on a film course and I was in a relationship already. The girl w... (223 words)

How do I get out of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf and i have been together for 18 months and have a 7 week old daughter together. he has threatened my life recently and last night he really crossed the line- he grabbed me by the arms and pushed me really hard ( i think i was 1 step away from a punch in the face) and yell... (199 words)

Midnight horrors and deep thinking takes me away to another place! Am I sane or insane is the question?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I get strange dreams every night. Always about the super natural. Most of the time very disturbing thing such as mini heads, impaled bodys, flickering lights, dark figures and canniablism. Somtimes it even gets to the pint where there are three horrors going on at once. Then ... (301 words)

How can I be more trusting that his feelings won't change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony aunt, Basically I have been going out with a guy for 5 months and it's going really well, but I only ever get to to see him at weekends. This has not been such a problem as we are constantly in contact over the phone or sykpe messaging, but I have noticed a rec... (199 words)

Why doesn't my long distance boyfriend want to make me his world?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We met on myspace and he lives in Oregon. I live in California. We are 16 years old and almost 17. We met over summer and really connected the days he was here. Before meeting each other we were just in love but not ... (276 words)

Over drinks my boyfriend brought up a threesome. Am I a drama queen for how I reacted?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - about two weeks ago my partner and a friend of mine were having a good old drink or two, when my partner suggested a 3 some and within seconds of him saying this my friend a girl, then came onto me. i responded at first as my partner was glaring me on to do it, but i freaked ... (273 words)

He's not interested in seduction. Do I resort to a sexless relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age - i have a fabulous and close relationship with my partner of 16 months. he is unfortunately not interested in sex/love making. the first 2 months was brilliant since then we probably have had 10 minute sessions about 4 times. i probably 'nag' a bit about this but have become ... (135 words)

Had unprotected sex and facing single motherhood at 15. Do you think he'll stick around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay. well me and this quy have been a on nd off relationship for a year and almost 2 months. we've been through hell and back.. we havent been together for a while..we juss started having sex like in september. well im only 15 and he's 18. we have talked about kids and we ... (152 words)

In a student/teacher fantasy, what role does the man prefer to play?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is going to seem really random, but i need to ask: in student/ teacher fantasies, do most men prefer being the student or the teacher? i ask this because it seems to me that most women i come across prefer to be the student, so i assumed that most men would want to be the ... (131 words)

Is there such thing as post wedding blues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

15 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Is there such a thing a post wedding blues? I got married three weeks ago to an amazing woman but now I can't help feeling that I have made a terrible mistake. Shes amazing, everything I've ever wanted. There's never been any problems between us. We're both the same age, have ... (84 words)

He's been cheated on 7 times and doesn't date. Is there hope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im desperate for some answers so please help. basically my problem is one that we've all heard before, the 2 guys one girl thing. basically i met this guy at a party around sep. we've been texting some,kissed once, and i have plans to go out on a date with him Friday. i do... (383 words)

How do I deal with the agonizing breakdown of my LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel really low as I think my 2 year LDR relationship is breaking down and I don't know if there is anything I can do about it. The reason I think it is breaking down is that it feels like history is repeating itself again. When I split with my ex boyfriend, he was cross ... (390 words)

Is this just OCD or am I Paranoid as well?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i have got really paranoid lately well ive got ocd and i have images of myself and loved ones getting hurt, say i think of my boyfriends face on fire i wont let him near fire anymore because of my images but i also I think someone is in the house or is following me and... (110 words)

What can I do, my boyfriend raped me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - help Im 16 and my boyfriend is 25 andw when we were in his car he drove far away and raped me and he keeps sayind and texting he'll do it agian when hes not busy.It hurts and hes mates say and have tried too have sex with me help!... (50 words)

Our straight female roommate invades our privacy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

15 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My best girl friend for more than 10 years was hanging out every day with my boyfriend and me, who also likes her around and she is like our best friend together. Well her room mate moved out and she could not afford the rent herself so we said she could move in with us. She ... (424 words)

I just want to know the truth, am I fat?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - umm.... wel i've always been really consious bout the way i look and my weight. and now it's just worse than eva because i just read this article about this model that got fired because she was to big and she was a size 8 (british size) thats the size i am i just wanna here... (66 words)

Do you think he wants me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have question for your guys. I broke up with my boyfriend for 5 days.I don't know what he really want. He told me he want me to get out of his life. He said thank you for loving him and he love me too.But its not work out me and him. so he said "its over". After that he ... (113 words)

Is my online, long distance guy for real? He's spent a fortune already!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated this guy (andrew-not real name) 4 yrs ago but remained friends because I had a bf that time and lost contact with, I broke up with my bf (now ex) late last year after suffering a very unstable relationship with him. Now, andrew and I has a good thing going online (long ... (194 words)

Should I be worried about a heavy period after having unprotected sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I had unprotected sex a week ago. My period was due to come in the next 3 days but it came today. It did the exact same thing last month only it came 2 days early. My period is pretty normal. I must admit I have been stressed about the unprotected sex I had hoping and ... (91 words)

Lost in Love: cheating on boyfriend with married man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I love two wonderful men that love but one is married and he always says that he wants to be with me, but it is so hard to forget him. i find myself always going back to the spot with him on the other hand i live with a wonderful person. he loves and always tells me he is here ... (153 words)

Is it possible to build a future together when we have conflicting goals?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody, I am new to this site but I registered as I have a major issue and I do not know who else to turn to - I don't feel that I can discuss it with any of my family or friends as I live in a close-knit community and I do not think I can trust that this will remain... (382 words)

I really want to be with him so what do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, hi. Me and a particular boy are getting on very well-he's sixteen and I'm fifteen. Last week he invited me around to his house, and I went on Saturday-it was just me but I'll tell you now, he did not force me into bed with him. On the contrary, we sat down and watche... (568 words)

I've loved her for over 40yrs. How can I change her mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

15 October 2009 (M)

age - I am embarrassed to ask this as I am 62 years old male. 40years ago I fell head over heels in love with a girl. Our mothers worked together and that is how I met her. She was still in High School. This will sound very odd, but we never dated at anytime. I just knew she was ... (336 words)

He took my virginity and then started having sex with his manager. Should I be in a relationship with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i started having sex before we got together cause during that time he seem to be confuse.rite after he took my virginity lets say a few weeks after he started having sex with our manager but when he had sex with her he came out and told me the next day.i was ... (269 words)

Should I date a coworker I'm not sexually attracted to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There's a new guy at my work whom I have been interested in for a while, but eventually had the courage to invite him for a drink a few weeks ago. We have met up a few times since and seem to get on pretty well. I am keen on him, and he is different to all the other guys I have ... (105 words)

How to win his heart when he keeps turning me down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how to win a man's heart? I really like him. Sometimes I ask him out, but most of the times he turned me down. He cares for me like his sister, but not a love relationship. I want him to love me too. How can I do that?... (48 words)

Should I walk now or wait and see? She's not a puppy anymore.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - She lives in Philadelphia, I in New York City. We spend 1 weekend together, Fri- Sun. We had some really intense love making sessions together. We both have been single and doing without. It was obvious to me, The problem is this, she tells me that she is scared of opening ... (251 words)

Does anyone have tips on how to boost my confidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Helloo there. I have a really big problem well..i think it is anyway.. I have 2 problems that are abit annoying me atm.. okay so the first one is..I CANT stop going red..its so annoying..its like some1 has slapped my face like a 100 times..i go red over the smallest things... (245 words)

Why is my ex acting so weird?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex broke up with me 2 months ago and we talk very little. When we do talk she doesn't have much to say or she seems a little annoyed. When she saw me at a football game last week she ran up to me hugged me and told me she missed me. She hugged me on about 5 different ... (153 words)

Urgent Help- sexually confused 18yr old male!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

15 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was going through a stage of wanking over gay porn for a while then as soon as cumming I imagine a girl or tits etc(I stopped a few days ago), and it is really confusing me because I find girls attractive and have only ever fancied girls but although I am 18 I have only had ... (278 words)

What does it mean when a guy is quiet around you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a quick question: What does it mean when a guy is quiet around you? What is actually going through their minds? A guy i've known for a year is like this... when i speak he puts his head down and seems to listen intensively to what i'm saying and he'll never interupt m... (147 words)

Does watching porn movies constitute cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

15 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - When I was in a relationship with my ex-girlfriend, I used to watch porn movies twice or thrice in a week..in fact i still watch it. Whenever she would ask me that do you watch porn movies? I would answer saying that last time I watched porn movie was 5 years back and so far I ... (99 words)

Leave things as is....or talk to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - help! i really like this guy....who has a past of cheatin on his ex gfs... he has told me he likes me back...his ex and i all know each other we all go to church i dont think they know i like him so everytime im around them they would bring up the relationship with him and ... (143 words)

How do I stop being so nosy and work on my trust issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am dating someone for about 6 months now. two months into the relationship, he thought he was still in love with his ex girlfriend. He dumped me and went back to her for about 2 days before he realised that was a stupid move and wanted me back. We got back together... (303 words)

He has a kid and I've slowly grown to hate him. How can I deal with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19, and my partner is 23. He has a six year old son from a previous relationship. The mother split with him as soon as she found out she was pregnant, and is now in a gay relationship. She prevented him seeing his child for 3 years or so after he was born. Now, after be... (344 words)

Fatten and Feed, Diet and Humiliate. Where can I find a woman like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all well i have a bit of a fetish/fantacy but find it difficult to meet women as it is a little unusual, Well hear goes, i'm fat very fat and would like to meet a female that would help me get fatter but humiliate at the same time, for example - feeding one week and die... (120 words)

Receiving retroactive jealousy in a marriage. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am at the receiving end of an RJ of my husband...I have not seen any posts on what those at the receiving ends should do???? because we suffer a lot and dont know how to deal with it cos we dont understand wat is going on in the insides of our partners. My husband has tr... (332 words)

Girls Only: Advice on taking birth control!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) age 30-35 - (GIRLS ONLY) I just started that process where you take birth control pills so that you only have your period 4 times a year. I was wondering if anybody else has or is doing that, because I wanted to know if then when you DO get your period if it's really heavy since you'... (71 words)

What can you do when you really like someone but you know it would never work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey can you please give advice on what to do about a guy you really really really like hes always on your mind last person before you fall asleep and first before you wake up... but you know a relationship but the both of you would not work out.. do you take a risk knowing ... (96 words)

What does my ex want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, my boyfriend and I split up about 6 weeks ago. I ended things with him because he had admitted he had feelings for another girl. Since then he has kissed this girl and they have been texting but nothing has really happened between them. He still texts me and phones me ... (152 words)

Should I tell the her that I have a crush on her best friend too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hello there there is a girl that i like she used to date my best friend at school but me and him haven't spoken for a while because we chose different career choices. she is a year younger than me and we keep in touch over facebook and msn. i have told her that i like... (133 words)

I came clean to him about how I felt, and he still hasn't replied! I thought we were friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been seeing a man for two years, i suppose u can call it friends with benefits, i have always felt he only wants to see me for a quicki. but we have built a good friendship up, i have had a 6 month relationship during this friendship, with another man, and me and this ... (415 words)

Its over so why cant I let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - im so confused about my feelings please help. im 40 my ex is 30 and that was never an issue just a fact..anyway we were together two and a half years and broke up two weeks ago. we have broken up many times before - always my choice - but hes always begged me for another chance ... (145 words)

With each email he attacks my integrity, and I am so provoked to answer him to set the record straight! How do I escape this battle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ok. So, it seems like I need additional advice. I just hate messy break ups. I had an LDR for a little less than a year but it went bad. to make a long story short, the feeling was not there, the attention was not there and he was a liar (when we first met he even lied about ... (504 words)

I'm afraid he will think I'm unattractive when he sees me naked!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I need some advice ......Im a virgin...and a bit fat (13stone...5''1)...Im really self conscious about my weight...I want to have sex with my boyfriend .....but Im afraid he'll find me unattractive when he sees me naked??...what should I do...I know he loves me...nd I ... (57 words)

He had sex with me even though I asked him to stop, was I in the wrong in any way? Did I lead him on? And should I forgive him and meet up with him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i know i was stupid so please dont have a go :( but i really dont know where else to go! i posted a question here before and got about 9 very good answers which i am greatful for! so i hope you dont mind me asking about this! about a year back this guy added me on msn, i was... (625 words)

How can I improve my social skills?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 23 year old male with Asperger's Syndrome, and I have difficulty getting a girlfriend. I always end up in the "friend zone", and if a girl says she's single, I always doubt it and think, no, this must be a lie, too good to be true. I don't know where or how to meet ... (165 words)

Should I pursue him or is he a waste of time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - am aged 20 years now at university in Uganda in my second year remaining with a year to complete ma course. i ve been in love with this "man" since 2006 thus making it to 3 years now. He loves n and cares about me dat i dont luck if i tel him wat i need him . this has made ... (112 words)

Am I pregnant? What will my mom think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i am 14, my mam knows i might be pregnant i told her this morning now she has gone to work so i am very scared for when she comes home okay i came on my period last month a week after i had sex and now i am 19 days late on this months period i have put on a bit of weigh... (185 words)

Do men in long term relationships lose interest in sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it normal for men when they are in long term relationships not to want sex anymore? I used to think it wasn't normal but now I am not so sure. My boyfriend (36 yrs old) and I's sex life is non-existent. We had sex for the one and only time in our relationship over 18 ... (391 words)

Is he a potential? My parents think my time is running short.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

I'm worried that he's just not into me anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Worried about relationship, stress and lack of intimacy When my bf and I met, he was very accepting and caring, and we spent a lot of time together. We were like a typical new couple. He had some hardships and illness in his family. I stepped in as a supportive gir... (346 words)

Why is her chest so sensitive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

15 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I have not been able to touch my wifes cheast becsue it hurts to much it is to senitive. Does any one know what I can do so her cheast wont be so senitive and i can touch it. I also know that she is not prego.... (47 words)

Should I stay unsatisfied for my marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - every time we have sex I stay unsatisfied. I rather for him to make it quick just to get it over with. There is a time when its good but that's only when I can engage him to make it "rough" but he doesn't like to. What can I do cuz its really killing my feelings for him...I ... (79 words)

Should I be concerned about her six months of promiscuity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

15 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Lets assume I'm an idiot and a hypocrite. But... Should i be concerned about a gal who had six months of promiscuity. That is hooking up her senior year of college with guys she knew in six months. It's uncharecteristic of me but its getting me very bummed out. Any ... (225 words)

Does my step-brother like me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My stepbrother is always touching my butt and asking me for sexual favors does he like mi?And i think he is sending mi mixed messages and its creeping mi out!!!! I need answers.... (33 words)

Broken Heart, Broken Brain

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 27. My husband and I started dating when I was 20. I loved him very much and he was my very best friend. He passed away a little over a month ago at age 28. He was very sick. I waited on him hand and foot and did everything to try to make him better. We went to the best ... (236 words)

Is it crazy for me to get involved with a younger man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) age - I'm a 45 year old divorced mother of two and find myself being courted by a 32 year old man. Is it crazy for me to get involved in a relationship with him? He is the nicest person I've ever known and I am attracted to him. My concern is that after I fall for him he may be a... (74 words)

Should I be the first to tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I am a 29-year-old woman who is intensely attracted to a guy at work. He is 23. We enjoy chatting with each other and flirt quite a bit intellectually. He does little things for me like buying catnip for my cats and insisting I try food from his plate when we go out with... (258 words)

What does her text mean? Does it mean anything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Heya fellas I recently broke up with my ex-girlfriend and need some help and advice. We met when we were both on vacation and stayed together for 10 days, then she left and came back to her country where 'luckily' i study there too. I came back a month and a hal... (542 words)

Her family hates me after I ditched the older sister for the younger one! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year now. I was friends with her older sister for a long time and her parents wanted me to hook up with her.. But things did not work out that way.. I got with the younger one.. Needless to say now her family has hated me ... (325 words)

Can I get pregnant from sex during my period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had my period on the 3rd of october, and it might sound weird to others but we had sex that day and he came in me, same with the day after and the day after that. my period last bout 7 days. and i was wondering if that could get me pregnant? its the 15th now,i did vomit last ... (89 words)

Do casual relationships ever turn into anything more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Has anyone ever had a casual dating relationship (seeing each other casually like maybe for a year) before turning into a real, committed relationship? Or have casual things always ended up as nothing more than that?... (36 words)

Should I have sex ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and a virgin and my ex-girlfriend who is 15 had sex already ! I'm very jealous of her even though she told me that I should wait. She didn't so why would I do so? [Edited by moderator to improve readability]... (49 words)

What if I refuse to divorce?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - here is a dumb question. I still love my wife and i know she still loves me but she has alot of pride. I want to save our marige but i dont know how. Ive tried convincing her to go to counsling with me but she refuses. What would happen if i refused the divorce in court? I ... (79 words)

We have a perfect relationship except he shakes me and pulls my hair...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we have been together 5 months now but have known eachother for over a year. we have a perfect relationship. sometimes. when we are not fighting and screaming and wanting to strangle eachother. we fight over disrespectful things he does and says. ... (487 words)

Should I tell my best friend my secret?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. I am a confused girl who had strange feelings. I feel like I have more than just a friendship with my female best friend... I am also a female and I really who die for her. She told me that if she broke up with sombody she would not want to talk to them because it ... (114 words)

Why do I keep attracting nerds?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have this tiny problem where I attract the wrong guys. Okay, I think there has to be some kind of physical attraction and not to be mean but i keep attracting nerds. Lik no joke. They are the only ones to talk to me and it just bugs me. What can I do?... (58 words)

Is he making this church girl up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this guy and he is in one of my classes so i see him everyday! all my friends and anyone who sees me with him thinks we are together, even though were not. me and him are such bad flirts with eachother. the thing is he leads me on big time, then when we start getting a ... (166 words)

Will it be just as effective?

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15 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This isnt actually a relationship question,but i cant seem to find any answers online about what to do if you miss the first pill in your birth control pack.I was late getting my new pack of birth control for the month.I was supposed to pick up the prescription on Sunday,but ... (140 words)

Was I taken for a ride by a younger woman I met online? I'm heartbroken..

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15 October 2009 (M) - I am a male approaching mid 30s and I met this young woman (early 20s) on an asian e-dating site about 5 months ago. We were just chatting and talking on/off until about 2 months ago, and that's when I started having some sexual relation with her. Background on this: I am a ... (1541 words)

What is the smell that's coming from my private area?

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15 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - please help!!!! i have a problem with a smell that is coming from my private area. it seems to be coming from the hair cuz at times ther is a white substance coating the hair and it stinks. i have tried differant soaps and altho some seem to help nothing i try seems to knock ... (97 words)

Do guys think virgins are a total turn off?

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15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so do guys think virgins are a total turn off? im asking this because i am one and every guy i end up telling this to gets really uncomfortable even though they are the ones that asked. and then of course they run when i tell them i dont believe in sex before marriage (buts ... (82 words)

Will he become disinterested because I'm too interested?

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15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a roommate and recently she and her brother planned a trip for some friends. I was invited. On the trip her brother and i went for a hike and talked. We connected on every level. We shared the same views, opinions, and experiences. The story of his previous ... (158 words)

What do my horrible, recurring nightmares mean?

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15 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i keep having reoccuring horrific nitemares. it`s so realstic. i prepare for bed and once i fall asleep in my dream a figure enters my room in the dark pins me down then rapes me. i scream and it feels so real. when i wake up it`s in fright. what could this mean? in my dream i ... (73 words)

What would be a meaningful congratulations present?

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15 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend will be defending his PhD in 2 weeks time. He is 31 years old, and we have a past relationship. I would like to get a meaningful present for him as a congratulations for when he passes. I'm not sure what I should get him; what would be appropriate. ... (116 words)

I do all the work and he gets all the pleasure!

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15 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my live in b/f of two years won't touch me during foreplay or during intercourse. i do all the work, hell i'm the one that always makes the first move,and when i ask him why he says "i never give him a chance". i'm always sucking his dick until he says "want to have sex" then I ... (102 words)

My boyfriend won't take me to homecoming and will break up with me if I go. Is he bluffing?

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15 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - my boyfriend is a senior and im a sophomore, hes 18 im 16. homecoming is on friday and he wont take me. he says he doesnt wana go so i said i was jus gona go and he said we will break up if i go without him.. i asked why and he said "because its a dance... and im not going... ... (145 words)

Is it possible for Mr./Mrs. Right to not be into you?

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15 October 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Quick question. Do you think that the person who you love and who doesn't love you back is simply not right for you? Or is it possible to know Mr. or Mrs. Right, the only issue is that he or she is just not that into you? Thanks.... (49 words)

Guys: Is this a sign he's going to break up with me?

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15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I really need a guys advice, I have been with the same guy for about 4 months! I seriously love him so much! We have had a pretty good relationship so far, not many fights, we did have one break up but got back together cause we were crazy for eachother but just today ... (125 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to change his thought that I'm controlling him?

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15 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I found out from a friend my boyfriend created a facebook today. I dislike social networkings like that because myspace caused so many problems between us before. I stopped going on it but I let him continue to go on it. One day, during summer, we were having a serious talk and ... (175 words)