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Is this coincidence or fate?

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Question - (20 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 October 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am in love with a man I can't be with for various reasons.

My mother recently passed away. A couple of days after her death I found a note from her aunt's solicitor who works approx 200 miles from where my mother lives. His name is the same Christian and surname of the man I adore. That in itself was slightly unsettling - on the document I saw it was literally my man's name signing the document.

I then went to see my mother's solicitor and after the meeting which was awful googled his name followed by the word solicitor. My heart literally stopped when the google result bought up the same solicitor that my aunt uses (ie who shares the Christian and surname name of the man I still have feelings for)and his middle names are those of my mother's solicitor - that was the first google response.

Am I reading something into nothing or is that more than coincidence???

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009):

Your mind is making the connections here. That is all. Not fate. Mere coincidence. The universe does not mean anything by it.

You will be more practical if you do not look for messages were there are none. Hidden and cryptic messages that you concoct are instances of your mind trying to find meaning for some personal angst. Keep your two feet well planted on the floor.

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A male reader, Ryu Kurosaki Canada +, writes (20 October 2009):

i have been told i say wise thing (i dont believe them) but please believe me if the reasons are because of religion please give him a shot.if god(s) do exist do you really think they want you not to love some one in all religions they say some one another.my grilfriend and be are different religions but i if religion gets in the way it shouldn't i never joined hers but i didnt keep mine,same with distance i live at the bottom of a provence and she lives at the top but we have been together for over a year and see often if it ment to be let it be regardles of little issues.i hope what none-sence i said helped in any way

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