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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I unreasonable to ask to see his email.

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My spouse has in the recent past had an affair. He hides his income He tells me that it is none of my business. i have no access to, or knowledge of his income. He tells me that it is not my business who he knows or what he does, and that i just get in his way. He has ... (134 words)

Should privacy still be allowed even although you're married?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My spouse and I are at odd ends! I want to know if it is wrong of me to not give my spouse my email password. I have been told time and again that when you are married your not allowed to have personal email's or anything that is not disclosed. My spouse says I don't have the ... (72 words)

Am I addicted to sex? What's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I need to have sex or i'm going to go crazy. with each passing day i get more urges (especially at school with the hot teachers, etc.) and it's very distracting. i'll be trying to do calculus work and suddenly envision a man's arm, which isn't exactly ideal. i... (149 words)

I'm so scared for my friend, what can I do to help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so scared for my friend. She's not the kind to open up or anything and when she does it's just cause she really needs to get something off her chest. She recently told me she started smoking and drinking more and now she's talking to me about pills and drugs and IDK what to ... (65 words)

If you can afford me 2

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - This is for women to answer, since men can't know the answer, unless they got it from a woman already. A woman who used to be a prostitute (so I figure she was low self esteem), told me all men who pay for dates are paying for sex/relationship (She absolutely could not see... (236 words)

I can't leave him, he's all I have...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for just over a year. We spend every single day at college together. Well, thing is, he always judges me and talks bad to me and hurts me. But i love him and i do so much for him. He wont even try to do something small to make me happy. I ... (154 words)

I still don't know for sure whether he can make it or not... Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am dating a guy. I invited him for dinner. He accepted but told me he will only have time next week after an examination. The examination will be on Thursday. Shall I ask him again at which time and day he will able to after the examination? Or shall I let him tell me by hi... (311 words)

How can I stop my period for one day so that I can have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how can i stop my period for one day so that i can have sex?... (15 words)

Do you think I've upset or offended her???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, last week i asked my best friend out (we're both girls and bi). She's known how i feel about her for about 6 months now, and she said she loved me back, but when i asked her out, she said no. this sort of crushed me and the last week ive been trying hard not to feel ... (202 words)

Is this serous and will this pain go away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. I thought that I would ask on here before going to the doctor's in case it's normal. The thing is I recently got married and we went on our honeymoon straight afterwards. During our two week honeymoon we had a lot of sex. About foir days in to the honeymoon, my ... (118 words)

I've confessed to almost cheating, now we need to talk. Where do I go first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age - To make a long story short, I almost cheated due to testosterone levels yet I didnt. I came clean via email and said that I'd like to talk. Now I must explain myself. I figger that my b/f at the moment is crunching on this since he has not responded and the wait is killing ... (221 words)

Just come off the pill......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Just come off the pill, when I was on it I was not really interested in sex. Now that I'm off I want it more than usual! ;) Just wondered if anyone else has experienced this and if its a normal thing to have happened when coming off the pill.... (52 words)

Why do I always see my ex in my dreams?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I always see my ex in my dreams and I do not know why. Apparently he was holding me tight close to him and then we started kissing. I really want to stop dreaming about him since it is always delaying me from moving on completely with my life.. do you think it is advisable that ... (166 words)

Should I go the whole way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my current bf have been going out now for about six months and are thinking about going the whole way, and having sex. He asked me to do it about two months in and I said no but now it's been playing on my mind and I feel like I really am not ready but I want to give it ... (118 words)

Does he still love me? Have I a chance to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I split from my boyfriend over a year ago and i cant get over him, i met a guy straight after the bad split which ended with an argument and no contact afterwards. we had contact 5 months ago and i asked aboout trying again, he said no as it was too much pain when we split and ... (184 words)

Is it a good idea for me to maybe send her a message on facebook?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - There was a girl at work that worked in another department. When I first saw her when she started at the company like a year ago I thought that maybe she fancied me and I fancy her and I caught her looking at me a lot at lunch. Time has gone on and the most I have ever said to ... (187 words)

Is it wrong to have a leather glove fetish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently whilst watching videos on the internet, i have found myself looking at leather glove fetish videos. Is it wrong to have a glove fetish? Is there something wrong with?... (30 words)

How would you act and behave to your ex that dumped you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - If it were you, how would treat an ex that yea was good and bad to you, not necessarily the best, you made your own mistakes but was very cold to you which eventually led to breaking up with you after trying so hard to mend things. You finally decide to move on and the ex is ... (140 words)

Should I cut my losses?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have only been married a little over a year. I moved to be with him away from my friends and the area that I had lived for 13 years. So now I live in a place that I have no friends. He takes care of his mother who is mean and awful to everyone one. I have ... (148 words)

What can I do to get my girlfriend to snog me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and me and my girlfriend have never snogged. We are both nervous and shy so... what do i do to get her to kiss/snog me?... (27 words)

I'm fat with no boobs, will anyone ever love me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i am just curious about something.. im 17 years old, im quite short fo rmy age, about 5'3. im a size 14-16 in clothes, but i only come in at a B in bra size. is this weird? when i look in the mirror i get so depressed. i have the smallest boobs in the world, and theyre made ... (114 words)

I'm worried my lack of knowledge in the bedroom will end the relationship!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - help! ok iv been going out with this guy for a while and i really like him, we'v only ever kissed but i know things will soon be going further. he has slept with 2 other girls (both in long term relationships he isnt a get around) but i havent done anything further than ... (132 words)

My boyfriend still goes to the ex's house to let the dog out!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello Aunts and Uncles. I'll make this short and to the point but would really appreciate a guys take if possible. My boyfriend (we have been living together for about a year) he still goes to his ex's house (when she's working and yes she is working) every day to let the dog ... (267 words)

Are these signs that my coworker likes me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

30 October 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Does my coworker like me or is attracted to me?? here are the signs: - He chats with me - He makes eye contact when we're talking and smiles but its an honest smile like he's happy and not just polite. I dont know if its just because he's happy or if he's happy to be talk... (374 words)

Would this letter make her reconsider our relationship???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age - Do you think the following letter would make the person it was sent to to reconsider our relationship: Hey, You are right nothing is more important than God or family. The pictures I have attached are of Alex. Alex moved in to the house that I lived at in St. Cloud. He was m... (1031 words)

I found out she cheated 2 years ago, now all she does is cry. How do I deal with this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Guys, If your partner of 20 years cheated on you just once and you found out by chance would you forgive and forget. She is the love of my life and a great mother. Apparently it happened with a mutual so called friend. I confronted her with this. She is full of shame an... (121 words)

I get jealous when he meets new friends... am I in love with my gay friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a girl, 18 years old, I have a best friend and he is a gay.. we are so close to each other as if we treated each other as more than friends and as time goes by I felt something strange, maybe I'm already falling in love with him, he always treats me special and I am ... (174 words)

How can I get her to take the lead more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old and have been going out with a girl for 2 months which is lovely and i love spending time with her and i think shes great. BUT all we have ever done is kiss on the lips. She's a bit shy and a never takes the lead on anythiing. For example i start holding her ... (87 words)

Soon 16 and never been kissed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 in two months - I have never been asked out or kissed by a guy. Does this mean that I am turn off to guys ?... (29 words)

He's become very friendly with this female co-worker and I don't feel right about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been married under a year. I love him very much, we have a strong relationship and he treats me well , but there has been a situation recently that has put stress on our marriage. There was a girl, a few years back, that used to go to parties that me ... (710 words)

B/f no longer puts forth effort into the relationship, what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Any help would be greatly appreciated: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. We have talked about marriage and for the most part, we get along famously. Here is my delima: He seems angry, distant, and at times bored with me and our relationship. I... (243 words)

I like the manly smell down there, am I weird?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2315 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just found this web site last month and think its great. I like sitting in this coffee shop, sipping a caramel coffee, and reading about real people and what others think about their problems and hang ups, without the fear of being embarassed. I decided I need to know if ... (199 words)

How do I change from being clingy and needy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About 5 months ago, I got out of a 3 year relationship that turned abusive, and I am now currently dating this guy that I have known for about 6 years. We started out as friends, and for the past 3 months have been dating. I have really begun to care for him. Recently, he has ... (188 words)

I love my ex to death but she has moved on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my ex and i dated for 2 years we broke up bout 3 months and she got a new boyfriend. i wana be with her so bad im willing to do anything. i just dont see how she can treat me like im nothing to her and ignores me and tries to avoid me after 2 years.we been fightn lately and i ... (124 words)

At 16 I'm Pregnant with my teacher's child

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: Poster is in a vulnerable situation, aunts DO NOT give nasty or negative advice PLEASE!!! Oh my God!Even me myself don't know what to do. I'm 16 years old.For the past year,since I started high school(it's the way in Macedonia-from 15-18 there's high school educ... (707 words)

Should I just go with the flow and see what happens?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there hope you can offer some sound advice. went out with a guy for about 6 months we had a great relationship, amazing, in fact. However, I knew he was off travelling for a year on his own and we tried not to let it get serious but it did! It was awful when he left and I ... (246 words)

Our kids sleep with us... how can I tell my wife I think it should now stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my wife for 6 years and we have a great relationship, We have 2 kids a 4 year old daughter and an 8 month old son, my wife still exclusively breastfeeds our son and our daugther still nurses before bed and during the night. Both kids sleep in bed with us ... (123 words)

How do I know if my girlfriend loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - How do I know if my girlfriend loves me? She as been giving me signals as if she don't want me...but I spoke with her and she said if I didn't like you I would tell you directly. Another thing is she has college n I work full time. To add to it she has a son who lives somewhere ... (93 words)

Help! How can I make things better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I are extremely happy together and his family is really happy for us, and I get along great with them all except for his father. I am a full time college student and my fiance and I live an hour and a half apart. I see him only on the weekends if I am lucky. ... (364 words)

How can I show her I'm genuinely really interested in her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So I got to go on a date with a new girl a few nights ago. We got together through a dating site and I was skeptical about the whole thing to begin with. When we met up and had dinner, the whole time our conversation flowed really well, we hung out and talked quite a bit even ... (233 words)

How can I show her I won't hurt her again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when you went out with a girl for 2 years and broke up for 3 months and she has a new boyfriend and you try and talk to her but she acts like she doesnt wanna have anything to do with you and tells everyone that she doesnt care about you but she told your ... (85 words)

Help! My girlfriend broke up with me a few days ago. I'm sad. Can I do anything to resolve?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - We have been together for a year and a half. My ex gf and I took a break about 2 months ago because we've been bickering. She's been stressed out at work, school, and dealing with a messed up family. She said she wanted to take some time to be single to deal with these stresses ... (555 words)

She thinks her ex is innocent and I've had enough!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Heya, I dont really want to be in this position, but: I am in two minds about my GF speaking to her ex, I've never liked it, and its been hard work for me to let them talk and see each other, they broke up just under a year ago, she says she misses who he used to be and h... (735 words)

How can I get her to come back to me...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex went out for 2 years, we broke up about 3 months ago and in that 2 years i hurt her bad but i told her it would never happen again and it didnt she hurt me also. about a month and a half ago she got another boyfriend i wanna get back with her but she wont get back ... (199 words)

My husband has told me he had a fling with a colleague at work about 2 years ago. How can I get through this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Married with 3 children under 8 years and as I thought happy. My husband has told me he had a fling with a colleague at work about 2 years ago. According to him it was a lustful affair but he didnt sleep with her. After a few weeks he finished with her and in his words came ... (146 words)

Help me with my ex. Should I send her a letter or Just wait to see if she ever call me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - In July 10, 2009 my ex break up with me after more than 2 years of living together in a very good and lovely relation. She was always talking about getting married and has kids; we were even planning of buying a house together. Even 10 days before she left she was talking ... (304 words)

I cheated on my girlfriend. Should I tell her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in a new relationship with this girl, who I have fallen in love with. However stupidly, I slept with another girl. This other girl was one who I had liked for ages and to be honest I succumbed to lust. The guilt now is unbearable, and I truly wish above anything else I had ... (106 words)

My girlfriend is accusing me of being unfaithful when I've done nothing wrong...How many accusations should I put up with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I've been dating a girl for a little over a month now. She has never been in anything you could call a "serious relationship" before, so the whole thing is new to her. She has been with some nasty guys in the past, so she has some trust issues. I am by no means a... (428 words)

Was she afraid I would turn out like the other boys she dated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - well she's my ex now but before we started dating she told me that she had been hurt by alot of guys and all she wanted was for me to give her a chance which I had no problem doing because I truly liked her. She seemed different than alot of girls I had been with. Anyways one ... (204 words)

How can I forget him? Pleeze help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone!!! im 16 year old girl in love. the boy i love, loves me too, but we're both too shy and we never could tell each other how we feel. he tryed million times to talk to me and he did. we were finally gonna be friends but few days later i heard that he chang... (141 words)

Can I Do Anything to Resolve?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend broke up with me a few days ago. I'm sad. Can I do anything to resolve? We have been together for a year and a half. My ex gf and I took a break about 2 months ago because we've been bickering. She's been stressed out at work, school, and dealing with a m... (572 words)

Confused...Am I rejected?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy and I have been seeing each other for a few months now. He lives in a different state. At the beginning, he was always messaging me and chasing me and we started getting intimate and had sex about 1 month after. He says he loves having sex with me but when I ask him ... (327 words)

How can I learn to trust again...?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

- I find it really hard getting back into relationships with men and i find that i cannot trust anyone. You see i was going out with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years and he cheated on me, i was completely devastated however that was 4 years ago. Now i still find myself unable ... (211 words)

How do I convey to her I love her personality without being totally shot down in flames?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently, I came out of what I call a "loner phase" where I think I don't need affection, and don't look for it. Ironically enough, I fell in love immediatley after "waking up" so to speak, with a girl I had a crush on in middle school when I saw her again. I asked her if she ... (187 words)

Why wont he make love to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - why wont he make love to me? my partner of 3 months wont or cant make love to me. he is 36, im 23 and without sounding pig headed im a good looking slim girl. I never turn him away. when we first met it was every night and day, now when i try to turn him on, nothing happens ... (119 words)

He is always bringing up his former crush in front of me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so... im 15. My boyfriend and I love each other a lot. but my problem is he had a huge crush on this girl before me - for about a year he was obsessed with her - she liked him too, but wasnt ready to date. so, my boyfriend claims hes over her, and they are now just friends ... (165 words)

Apparently he went off me but it seems he is still leading me on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i liked this guy and he liked me back but neither of us knew so we didnt make a move. he apparently went off me and i still like him, i'm not sure if he likes me still or not because he is being a bit weird at the moment. he puts his arm around me and hugs me for like ages, and ... (144 words)

Should I be able to discuss difficult issues with my gf without the fear of massive arguments?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age - I would be greatful of your advice. My gf and I have been together for nearly 4 years and have known each other well as close friends for 8 years. I am a communicator and value talking about problems and then negotiating a resolution or agreeing on a compromise. Over the ... (816 words)

Where can I talk openly about sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, this is probably not the best place to ask this, but since my question is where I should ask this question, here goes. Back story: I'm a geek and have always been one. I managed to get through middle school single (not for lack of trying), high school single (with a l... (768 words)

Was I being led on or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I had met a girl at a club, she is rather crazy and wild and anyway, i started to talk to her heaps over the next weeks, and we were getting along real well. Eventually we decided to meet up in a club and it was good. She was rather smashed as she is most of the time, and had ... (332 words)

Where do you draw the line between cheating and not cheating when it comes to dancing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm going to ask some... um, shall we say, hypothetical questions here about dancing and whether or not it is "cheating". Hypothetically if you've been with a guy for 4 years or so, and you do these things: 1. Slow dance alone in a room with another boy who always had a thi... (304 words)

I don't feel I cheated, but I was awkwardly busted. Do I explain the situation to him?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age - Thanks so much in advance for your insight(s). After years of quick flings, NSAs and not-quite-rights, (I'm 47) I all but shut down my sexual activity and adpoted a "been there done that" mentality, I'm recently re-inspired. I believe that I have finally found a long-term... (256 words)

I think I love her, but she just wants to be friends. Should I keep being her friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Please Help!!! Ok so i really like this girl like alot i think i love her. I have told her that i really like her. She had also told me that she really likes me,but the other day out of nowhere she changed her mind and told me that she only sees us as friends. I dont know what ... (103 words)

My 17 year old daughter hasn't had her period. Any advice?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a 17 year old daughter that has not started her period. I have taken her to several doctors. Does anyone have advice or information on this subject?... (29 words)

I'm not "in love" with my girlfriend, and she's kind of crazy. I'm scared to break up with her, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and a half now and I've realized that I'm not "IN" love with her ....we get along great sometimes but most of the time it's real bad fighting and its REAL bad if we've be drinking.... she starts hitting me and sh*t and i just take it ... (252 words)

On the second date would you rather be asked before he kissed you, or just kissed?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, this question's to the ladies. Imagine you were out on your second date and the guy wanted to kiss u. Would u prefer it if he looked into your eyes and asked "would u mind if i kissed u?" and kissed u only if u said 'yes' or would u prefer it if he just picked his moment ... (90 words)

Are these signs that my ex wants me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

30 October 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Does my ex want me back? These are the signs. - After me telling him i didnt wanna talk to him for the rest of my life because he didnt want a relationship, he sent me an email apologising and telling me he wanted us to be in good terms. - I asked him to hang out next weekend... (100 words)

How do females get labeled?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey ok question most girls seem to think because your not having sex guys wouldnt call u a slut...or any sexual preference of any kind... is there anythi ng else females can do that they can get labeles as a slut?... (41 words)

I'm at a loss on how to approach her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm drawn to this girl, who I have dated in the past but it wasn't a real relationship it was more a junior high I have a girlfriend/boyfriend now relationship that was two years ago. And the other day I looked at her and my heart started racing I felt like running to her and ... (119 words)

I'm worried my ex will tell everyone I'm bisexual!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

30 October 2009 (M)

age - I'm bisexual male that was in a gay relationship after my wife divorce me. I'm 60 and my lover is 20 years younger. We had our up and down just like most relationship. Recently, I bump into an old girl friend of mine in high school. We falling for each other again, and I ... (101 words)

Was her kissing me on the first date too forward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) age 30-35 - my friend asked out a girl and this girl is looking for someone for her best friend. So my friends girlfriend tells her best friend about me. My friend tells me theres this girl and she's my girlfriends blah blah and she wants to know if you want to hook up. First I say no ... (308 words)

Why is my vagina swollen shut?

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30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay a few months ago i started having problems with my vag it was swollen shut an there was redness an some irritation so i went to the doctor an i was treated for a yeast infection after i was okay test results came out fine sometime after this happen i noticed i still had ... (101 words)

Crush on a guy I don't even know?

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30 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm having a crush on this one guy who doesn't even know. Although he is quite short, not good looking, but is very outgoing and funny. His jokes make me laugh all the time. And he and I share the same Chinese cultural background. So i find it more comfortable bein... (283 words)

What is happening in my relationship?

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30 October 2009 (?) - hi i'm having trouble with my relationship i keep pulling away from my boyfriend and i'm always getting angry for no real reason it can be the tiniest thing and i just blow it out of proportion, i want to make it work but i just can't seem to be happy with anything in our ... (101 words)

Will he leave his ex alone for good if we get back together?

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30 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been seeing this guy who lives an hour and a half away from me. We really conected and Ive been seeing him for about 5 months at this point. He told me he had an ex that he has a 2 year old daughter with and they were no longer together. But one day I got a call from the ex ... (295 words)

Can I trust my long distance boyfriend?

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30 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody. I just little confuse about my long distance boyfriend. He never lie to me before. But yesterday I found out he has new email address and he found some female friend.He invited some female friend and give them his phone number.It's chat site is call Netlog.com. I ... (127 words)

If he held my hand does he like me?

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30 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hello everyone. So i am a freshman and i am in a play currently, and if anyone here has ever been involved in theatre, they know how close you get to EVERYONE! So there is this senior who is so nice and sweet. BUT he has a girlfriend currently. But right now she is gone and ... (89 words)

Is Oxycotin to blame for his behavior?

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30 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi well my question is abit difficult to ask but I will give it a shot.I will start by saying I was in a relationship which I fell in love with a guy and I thought he was in love with me.He had told me he was..but shortly after living together I noticed shemale pics on his ... (215 words)

Should I stay with Mr. Comfortable or try something new?

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30 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I started dating my fiance when i was in high school. He has been my first everything, and we've been together for almost 6 years. He is a great guy, very nice. But I find myself bored with him. The sex has never been good we've tried everything.. And our relationship has been ... (164 words)

Is 8 partners too many at my age?

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30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 20 and have been having sex since i was 17. i have had 8 partners and when i told my new bf he looked shocked. he said it was becouse im not loose down there. but i feel like he thought that was alot. is 8 partners at my age to many?... (53 words)

No guy will like me, they all just want sex. I just want to crawl into a black hole and not come out. Can someone help me?

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30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my well now ex have been dating for about a year and a half. I was 16 when I met him and we started dating when I turned 17. I'm 18 now and he's 21. We recently broke up for I don't even remember, but he "joked" that he wants to get with 20 girls and he's only on ... (379 words)

Hes a wonderful man but is it possible to find a Prince Charming?

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30 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for just over a year. I constantly think about whether my husband is the right man for me. I was never really sure about him, even when we were dating and engaged. I can't decipher whether this is part of the process, or if I am in the wrong marriage. I am ... (274 words)

Can we fix this relationship?

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30 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with this man for a long time. He cheated on me and i cheated on him in the pass. How can we rebuild what we have and moved on with our lives with kids and marriage soon. After the hurt we put each other through with the question. I promise that i will not step ... (77 words)

I really love her but I'm bored and she really gets on my nerves. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So im an agony aunt new to this website and i need some advice. Ive been in a relationship with my girl for almost four months now and I feel like im bored. I know its not because we spend to much time together because i go to school and work and she works and we live an hour ... (134 words)

Am I giving off the wrong vibes that I cannot get a man?

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30 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've never had a boyfriend before but in college i've had my share of interactions with guys that only consisted of sex. Last month I broke it off with this guy who turned out to be untrustworthy. I completely put my all into making it work with him and he still disrespected ... (174 words)

How can I tell my friend I'm bi-sexual?

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30 October 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I'm Bisexual, but haven't come out to anyone yet apart from my friend who is now my girlfriend, we got together like 3 days ago after months and months of holding back and im soooooo happy i finally have her. One thing is this weekend we decided to tell our friends. My bes... (113 words)

Should I go through with it or keep him as a friend and nothing more?

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30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was a teachers assistant my whole senior year for this art teacher and he was young looking i always tought he was cute since my sophmore year so i became his t.a because he insisted me to be his t.a. so we would spend allot of time together talking about more than school my ... (244 words)

Am I the right size?

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30 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What is the right girth for a 16 year old?... (10 words)

Help, my parents wont give me any freedom. What can I do?

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30 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My parent's wont give me any freedom. Im 16 and Im getting my license in a year which means I have to rely on my parents to drive me places the problem is they wont let me go anywhere without them. I can't go to the mall alone. I can't go to the movies alone. Or anywhere else... (139 words)

Has anyone tried the kegel master?

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30 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Has anyone every tired the kegal master if so does it really work? I am tryin to get a tighter vagina! help ... (22 words)

Whats happening?

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30 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Does sex make your areola darker and bigger? Cuz mine are darker and bigger...... (14 words)

How do you sustain a relationship once the guy considers you his girlfriend?

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30 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm at a stage where I don't think I know how to sustain a relationship. I've been too busy with school and college before to pursue relationships, and when I did finally start 'dating' none of my dates turned into actual relationships. Right now I've been dating a g... (272 words)