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How do I save a relationship that's going downhill?

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Question - (20 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 October 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *essiebessie writes:

hey i need help with my relationship, i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 10 month now. but i feel it is going down hill and i dont no what to do,

when we first started going out it was good but he kept joking about this girl he slepted with befor we got together, and i got paranoid and started to believe that he was doing what he was joking about. then about two month into the relationship we split for few weeks and when we got back together he told me he slepted with this girl again (which is what he was joking about) and now i no he still talks to her i cant get her out my head thinking he will go off with her even thought i no she has a boyfriend but it felt like he cheated on me.and i no i did something with a lad to so maybe it guilt but i just allways seem down when were apart as there is a distance i really love him and dont want to loose him what shall i do how can i forget about her and move on with our relationship please help

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A female reader, jessiebessie United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2009):

jessiebessie is verified as being by the original poster of the question

i no but since we got back together he doesnt joke anymore he sometimes lovely just to stuck up on privercy but least he doesnt joke bout her it just cant stop thinking of her knowing he talks to her iv got to the stage were i pretending to be my sister and talking to her on facebook its i love him to bits,

am i being stupid

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A female reader, Sweety Pie United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2009):

Sweety Pie agony auntYeah he sounds like a jerk. Do what CaringGuy said.

Dont worry about it chick you can do so much better :)

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2009):

Think about this. You're going out with a guy who jokes about having sex with another girl. Decent boyfriends don't do that. I'd say you can do better than him. So do better than him.

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