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writes:Is it weird that my boyfriend told me that he was thinking about me having sex with another man and how hott it would be? He said that he doesn't think he would actually be able to ever do that unless we both knew that it wasn't emotional and just physical, but he said that he was basically fantasizing about watching me have sex with another man and how it would turn him on because it would make him jealous and he said he would be thinking about how even though I'm having sex with another guy that I'm his.I'm confused, I just hope this doesn't mean that he doesn't care about me because I asked him how that would even happen and he said 'Well I'm assuming that if we did ever do it I'd be having sex with a girl too' and I dont really understand what that means. Does that mean that he wants to have sex with another woman because he doesn't love me or I'm not enough for him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): I think what he's basically saying is that he's got this fantasy but would be slightly reluctant to go through with it if the opportunity actually arose.
Looking at it logically, everyone would have to not only fancy having sex with the other's partner, but you'd have to find another like-minded couple. Not easy.
Maybe he's getting just a little bored with the routine of sex with you, especially if it's the same every time, you know - a kiss, a fondle, a grope here and there, him on top, slip it in, do the business, climb off and start snoring. Make it more interesting, vary the routine, talk dirty, dress to thrill once in a while, tie him up, blindfold him and bang his brains out. Lay on the dining table naked and tell him dinner's ready. There's a few possibilities to be getting on with for starters!
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