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writes:I wanna be more outgoing but i don't know how. I'm really outgoing with some of my friends that I don't go to school with but the group I hang out with makes it feel impossible to be out there and when I try to be people don't seem to like me. What can I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, ricco +, writes (20 October 2009):
 When I went to school I was like a ghost I went unnotest.when I left I found that the same people that even say hi saw me different because of what I was good at,and that was work.I think u should be ur self like when ur with ur friends out of school.The first step is to be confident in ur self. Then then take the extra step and seperate from ur group.Don't stop hanging out with them. Talk to a person from a different group after a while u will be more out going.Ask ur self what did u do to get the friends u have now.
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reader, 13azzie +, writes (20 October 2009):
 i think if the group you hang out with at school doesnt really allow you to be outgoing and your self then they arnt really true friends...if your trying to be your self/outgoing and they dont like it then you may need to branch out and be outgoing by scearching for new and more excepting friends...only you no the true you and you needs frinds who support you and dont need you to be anything you arnt such as outgoing ...sry if this doesnt help good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): be yourself! relax, take a deep breath, and think of something important to talk about. maybe a funny story that has happened to you, or something people can talk about. approach people, compliment their sweater, or ask about their heritage. start a conversation and maybe it'll lead to friendship.goodluck!
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