How can I tell my husband it hurts me that he hides porn?

A female age 36-40, *ostGirl24 writes:

My question is how do I tell my husband that it hurts me when he watches and hides porn? I have told him I would watch it with me and that doesn't work. I have tried dressing up in sexy clothes and that doesn't work either. I have found porn under my couch in my den under the rug in are bedroom I have found it in the trunk of the car in closet in the living room. I have left him because of it and he calls me back telling me that he would stop and he would promise me. Then a month goes by and its back to the same thing. My hurt breaks more and more when I find it. I have sat him down and told him that it hurts me and that I feel like I'm not good enough for him. He tells me that I'm crazy and its all in my head. Could someone out there please help me with this problem. I have done all that I can and I don't want to lose him he is the love of my life and I would do anything to be with him but I don't know how much more I can take.

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