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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

The guy I was dating dumped me after we had sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am really hurting--but I know I have to go on and forget this. I just don't know how. I was dating a man for two months and really fell for him. I cared about him very much and he told me he was very attracted to and interested in me. One thing led to another and we slept ... (314 words)

How do I get my girlfriend to initiate physical contact?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, wow....so I just typed and submitted an entire ''question,'' all for it to tell me i wasn't logged in when i had already logged in....uuugh! So, I will make this one much more brief and as to the point as I can! I am almost 31, a single father (never married) and a bus... (475 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to open up to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend I think defiantly loves me. We've been together for a year and...4 months. He says he's not an emotional person, however I think he really is, he can be very needy and its fine by me because I can be too. We're really good alone but as soon as other people are ... (236 words)

How do I get rid of my acne?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I wash my face every morning using Dove liquid soap, warm water and a sponge. I have been doing this for about 2months now, I used to have quite bad acne, but I still have it although it has almost completely gone. I usually drink 2 litres of water every day but some days... (194 words)

Does this happen to you??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

11 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - has this happened to you??? on several occasions my wife and l have had fantastic morning sex before l go to work. i mean fantastic sex and not just a quickie. my wife always climax's during intercourse. on several times this has happened she has ended up going back to sleep. ... (156 words)

Please help me ! Is sweet guy really sweet or just really smooth ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so this is going to be long and drawn out, so bear with me. So, I got out of a 5 year relationship about a month ago. There is a guy that I work with and have been friends with for a few months that started showing genuine interest (I am in my mid 20's he is in his earl... (476 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend because of my parents but I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do.I am scare of my parents.I just broke up with my bf and stay with my parents now. They don't like my bf but now I want to back with my bf. I don't know how to tell my parents.They will upset. I am scare.Specially my dad.Please help me how to tell my ... (110 words)

Having problems with my girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

11 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - For the last several weeks, every friday I ask my girlfriend of 5 months, if she wants to hang out after school, and each time she says yes. so i go home, get all my important stuff done, and then return home to get ready and change. after all of this, i wait for her to tell me ... (127 words)

Should I dump the guy I am having an affair with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, Been married for 24 years,but have had an affair for the past 3 years,very experienced lover,[also married},everything my husband is not,even though I love him in other ways... I feel frustrated with him,but can't say. Should I dump my lover,and get back to my peace... (49 words)

I am in a LDR what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I love my boyfriend and i think were deep but he lives in scotland and i live in north-england I'm not sure on the distance thing what should i do when i really believe i truly love him ?... (39 words)

Am I wrong to want my guy friend to care about me more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5548 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm I in the wrong to want my guy friend to care about me more? We have been friends for more than a year. My close family member just died and I asked him for a favor but he never texted me back to ask what I wanted him to do. I only want a hug from him or for him to say that ... (229 words)

18 months later and b/f still doesn't have a job..time to leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please can you advise me although I think I may know the answer already.... I have been with my current boyfriend for 18 months after being friends for about 4 years. Previously I had always gone for 'bad' boys and was in a relationship where the guy hit me and I didn't h... (459 words)

Am I pregnant or this is just normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Just wanna ask something. Hopefully i can get some answer or advice. I got my period last Sept.20 - 24. after that, since me and my husband are terrible busy we dont have time to each other and we have only one time contact last Oct.3, and i know he perfectly widraw it so i ... (152 words)

How do I prove to my Mom that I am still a virgin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (?) age 26-29 - okay first of all i know i am too young to be thinking about this stuff. my boy friend is almost 18. i love him to pieces he's my world i cant live without him. i want to loose my virginity to him but not for like a good few years. my problem is that my thinks i already have ... (133 words)

Dumped by a man who wanted to marry me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just been dumped by a man who told me he wanted to marry me. He said he wanted to marry me and then I told him I thought he was just using me for sex and money. He had stood me up several times and was worried I was being used again (by yet another male). After be... (191 words)

Am I just around to clean up his messes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About five years ago I met a guy, and we became close friends almost instantly. I've helped him through so many things and he always swore he'd never had a better friend than me. Cracks are starting to show in our friendship though, and he doesn't seem to realise the problems. ... (636 words)

I lied to my parents and now I'm afraid its going to blow up in my face

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) age 30-35 - i messed up a little last year and did stupid things , one of these things was telling my parents that i'm staying at a friend's house to study when i was staying over at my bf's place , didn't get caught . now that friend's mum is calling at the house asking about her kid ... (196 words)

I've been in limbo for 7 months and I need some answers

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my problem is quite complex..i'm 43 and a lesbian and should be in control of my heart and emotions but i am not it seems. i was in a relationship with another woman for 4 and a half years..but we grew apart..and she fell in love with a friend of ours..so she left me..but ... (106 words)

I always thought only men had "wet dreams." Is this a normal thing or am I just weird?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I awoke in the middle of the night last night wet and horny. I must have cum in my sleep, although i don't remember what I was dreaming about. But I'm female and I always thought only men had "wet dreams." Is this a normal thing or am I just weird?... (51 words)

I have been with this guy four years and he lies about talking to his ex! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - please help. I have been with my guy for about 4 years now. the problem is he is still very much in contact with his ex who he was only with for a year! he has met up with her behind my back and they are always txting and calling eachother.. he lies to me by telling me that ... (163 words)

Do men sleep with anyone they can?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In your average friends with benefits situation so obviously we're talking frequent sex here, do you think a guy would sleep with just anyone? I mean if a guy is good looking and he knows it surely he would choose someone that he finds attractive? Or does it not matter because ... (56 words)

She sees me as a lover and has developed feelings for her friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok here is the situation i have been dating my girlfriend for 9 months now and ever since we met i has been a quickly advancing relationship now i live 60 miles away and am still going to high school. we have always had problems not huge ones mid you but just little things ... (269 words)

What happened and why is it so hard to move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years . I have had a lot of loss over the last 4 years which caused me not to be in a relationship for a longtime . I felt all these years of being alone and I mean alone I didnt go out at all or date because my pain was so great I ... (283 words)

I am not sure if I really screwed it up this time or what! What should I do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy in May, we went on a couple of dates and made out, and had some good chats on msn, and emailed me when i left the country to study. he said he wasn't ready for a GF, and btw he was the one who suggested the girlfriend thing. But we made out, and he even bought me ... (210 words)

Does my ex still really love me or does he just "want some"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my ex have been broken up for about two months. Ever since the break up I've regretted it and i have tried to do ANYTHING that I can to get him back. He has only told me that he doesnt feel the same way about me anymore and has pushed me further and further away. I ... (363 words)

I just lost my virginity with my unreal aunt!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

11 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi...frnds i'm 18 years old boy.well i lost my virginity just a day before with my unreal Aunt.Actually i wasn't interested in any kind of sex with her but she asked me and i couldn't stop myself.I wanna know is it good to have sex with a 33 year old women as she is 33,coz i'm ... (75 words)

I lied to her and she knows it! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay well i thought id post my problem, Start of summer this year i went to a party with my friend, i didnt know many people there and through the night had a bit to drink and got talking to the girls,(Baring in mind i go to a girls school so there a very few boys) we began ... (340 words)

I can't finD omeone my age to marry me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello,can any one help me because i can't stand this situation any more.i am a young and very beautiful and successful girl. i look like 20 yr while i am 33 and this is causing a great difficulties to me because till now i can't find some one of my age to marry every time the ... (196 words)

My ex is confusing me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my ex broke up a couple months ago after she cheated on me with the same guy she left to be with me. Over time I forgave her and tried to be friends. We would text each other every now and then. A few weeks ago she texts me and says she made the homecoming court. I told ... (211 words)

She won't acknowledge our past and wants me to be friends with her new guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Who is being selfish here? "Jane" and I have been friends for about 5 years now, but for the first 15 months or so it was something more than that. Now, going forward, she wants to disacknowledge there being any history between us to any new people coming into her life. We are ... (162 words)

I am cheating and want to be with my lover but it seems like he is backing off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (?) age 51-59 - I am a 38 yr old women. I have been married for 18 yrs now, I have been seeing someone that is 9 yrs younger than me. I am so in love with this guy. He has shown me how I should really be loved. Just recently he told me that he loves me but he can't do this situation anymore. ... (205 words)

My husband had an emotional affair and I can't get past it! Please help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age - Please help. My husband had a non sexual (I think I believe this} 'affair' with a work colleague during which time they got very emotionally close (I was being very unloving to him at the time although he never stopped showing he loved and fancied me). It has been over for ... (302 words)

I'll always be thinking that it could have been me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've just found out that the love of my life will be moving back to my hometown in a few months.... with his fiancée! I'll have to tell you guys a little bit of our history so you'll understand the situation I'm in - right now I'm terrible unhappy and cry almost every day... (767 words)

I feel really alone now that I've finished school.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel really alone now that i,ve finished school. I,m 17 years old , I didn't get into any of the collages i applied to and I can't get a Job , I dont really talk to my friends , I can't drive , I hate asking my parents for a loan of money so i can't go out. I feel so helpless ... (71 words)

Is he flirting with me or is it something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so I been working at my job for about 3 two months and its been great so far. I get along really well with all my co-workers, however, I been noticing that one of my coworkers likes to tease me, we bicker for any little thing…is all in good fun, but also he’s been flirting ... (399 words)

My friend says she wants to talk, but when I call or email she takes too long to respond!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My friend (who I would love to make my girlfriend) and I have a great relationship. However it is long distance and we can't see each other as often we'd like. Communication has been good. We email each other regularly and when we didn't, we call or text instead. But ... (348 words)

He said he didnt fancy me, but I don't know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am going to use fake names in this.. I used to fancy a boy called tom and I told him and he said he doesnt really feel the same way, I told him the day before he went on holiday for a week and as soon as he got back he acted as if nothing happened. I went off him for a... (155 words)

How can my fiance get along with his boss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance told me he's unhappy going into work. Not because of worries about whether he's got a job - he re-signed his contract in May for another 3 years. He works for a data storage company, and has done for the past 5 years. Instead it's his boss that's causing h... (167 words)

Shattered and Lost!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm about to graduate high school and, unlike my classmates, I am dreading it! When I was 13 I was kidnapped and abused, I also suffered from amnesia for 5 years. I didn't remember anything about my family or even my last name. I ended up in a foster home and ... (330 words)

Does he just want sex from me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been txtinga man i met on internet for the last 7 weeks. early into it he said he tught he had alein love wit me. he txts me every morning all day and nite.he is vey thoughtful and every message is accompanied by him calling me babe and love ad is forever telling me that ... (127 words)

I love her and shes told me she loves me, but because shes not out of the closet, she is reluctant to try anything.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a gay girl and out, and 16 and so's my best friend (though shes not out). I love her and shes told me she loves me, but because shes not out, she is reluctant to try anything. I'm dying to kiss her and would love for us to be together , but i dont know how to go about it. ... (124 words)

What do you think is going on in her mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I had been seeing my girlfriend for 2 years - we broke up in April of this year - I suspected that she had been meeting with someone else for a while - as things hadnt been good for a while - she seemed to be trying to cause an argument all the time plus she started to cut me ... (393 words)

Break through bleeding on the pill!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I started taking the pill several months ago and never had a break through bleed until about 5 months after taking it. I went off it for a while when I was single again (having no sexual contact during that time) and have started taking it again now that I have another partner. ... (134 words)

I'm 14, have had one abortion with complications, and I think I may be preganant again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well im 14 yrs old and will be 15 February 3rd. I am in a relationship going on a year january 3rd and had an abortion september 1st. For my follow up ii was told that there was a blood clot left in my stomach ! ii believe they got it out but the doctors are not sure either ! ... (141 words)

Could I not be a virgin any more because of getting fingered too hard?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, well I have quite a straight forward question, well a while ago a got fingered by a guy, and well afterwards I was really sore and my vagina felt like it was burning, and so I had a look and it looked like it was bleeding but the blood wasn't coming from inside me it ... (110 words)

Do I love him for the sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy that Im talking to, isnt my bf, but i call him my boo. we have been talking for over a yr now, and my feelings for him are really strong. i more then just like him, in fact im in love with him. well i think i am. i think of him all the time and only ever wanna be with ... (146 words)

I met my son's coach and I knew instantly there was somthing between us! Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I really dont know what to do. My son went to a camp and i met his coach and i know instantley there was somthing.....really wierd feeling. I added him on a website and after a few months he actually began a cunversation with me....to my surprise we where chatting all night and ... (164 words)

I love her, and don't want to think about her past. Will these thoughts go away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

11 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year now. We are very serious and talk about marriage. She told me that she was pretty promiscuous during the two to three years before we started dating when she was in the military. She even used the word slut to describe herself at ... (121 words)

My mum broke me and my boyfriend up because she thinks he is weird, She wont let me be upset, Help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i was with my bf for a whole year. he two years older than me but we have known each other for years. I knew him from when i was in year 7 (grade 7) and he was year 9, now im in year 11 and have been with him since the begining of year 10. He was spose to be seeing me 7 ... (698 words)

Do I have a medical problem after getting fingered?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend stayed over and for the first time i got fingured it was through my undies though and i pulled him off now i have got a sore stomach and have had it for two days what does this mean? please help. ... (43 words)

Is he pushing me into sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age - i have only been with my boyf. for a day and he already is saying that he wants to have sex And im not ready at all but if i dont i will get called fridged and i dont want that to happen so am i just going to have to have sex with him or is there something i can do ? ... (80 words)

Older man, is he worried about the age gap?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - OK so there is this chap I like he is around 20 years older than me. I have always liked older men and my ex was 21 years older than me except it faded and we both went our seperate ways. It was someone else that first said that this man might like me because of his sta... (339 words)

Is my teacher flirting with me or am I overreacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Sorry it's so long but it's been bugging me for a while... She teaches my favorite subject, drama. Last year we got on pretty well and on drama trips she'd always sit near me, like in front of me or something. and i could tell she was listening to my conversation som... (371 words)

How do I move forward in a positive way after divorcing a sex addict?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I want to know how to move forward without guilt after divorcing my husband of 20 years because of a sex addiction he had. I want to feel less guilt that I ended the relationship even though he wanted to work on it and try. He is still in counseling and I gave counseling up. ... (169 words)

I am 21 yrs old, living with my parents, and I just hate my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 yrs old, livin with my parents. i just hate my life, i can't go out with my friends everyday, when i am with my friends, so my parents would call me 100 times and send sms 50 times..when i come home late, they will yell at me, my father's going to be soo rude to me. ... (172 words)

He said "not now" when I asked him if he would get with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay.. there is a guy I really really like and he sort of likes me back. He said "not now" when i asked him if he would get with me. Then he said to my friend that he doesn't "fancy" me now but he thinks he will "fancy" me in the future which is why he keeps saying maybe to me. ... (99 words)

I'm only 13, but I am pretty sure I am ready for sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age - im only 13 and been with my boyf. for two years he wants to have sex and im pretty sure im ready (even though im still a virgin ) he is one year younger than me but im worrying about bleeding or what to do. im really excited about doing it and im totally confident but i dont ... (86 words)

Is my first love just a long distance booty call?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - long story put very short.. he went to college 7 hours away. I stayed back in another college . now everytime he comes he always wants to hangout with me and we end up saying some stuff like we miss eachother we love eachother etc. but I can't help but feel he only uses me for ... (153 words)

Could I have harmed my baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i have just found out i am 11 weeks pregnant - do you think my alcohol intake would have effected my pregnancy 3 weeks ago i had - 1 Litre of cider 2 weeks ago i had - 2 litres this week end all together 6 glasses of cider do you think i have harmed my baby?... (71 words)

What can be done about my incontinence?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (?) age 36-40 - hello everyone i want to know to control my urinary bladder. i am unable to control and i urinate in my panties i feel shame even in this age i cannot control. for example i go to parties or anywhere i am unable to stop for long time when i go to toilet i notice that i have ... (117 words)

Do you know any ways to make me not like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I've been in love with a guy for 3 yrs now and i cant seem to get him out of my head. i tried to completely ignore him but that didn't work and its really hard to forget about him because i see him every day. Every time i succeed in blocking him out he seems to pop ... (86 words)

I don't know what to do, should I speak to him to try and stop him feeling bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hiya. I recently came out as gay after a long period of not really knowing and I have felt alot happier now I've come out. One of my friends intoduced me to a gay friend of hers and at first we just spoke online and had a great day together as just friends. We had spoken e... (212 words)

Sexual desire for my ex is still so strong, is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 2 years split up with me a couple of weeks ago and it was very very painful. Anyway, we met up yesterday for coffee- for no other reson than to try and clear the air a little so we could both move on (we both live and work in a very small town and we will... (287 words)

He's nasty to me - why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help, I am in a 3 month relationship with a guy younger than me by 8 years.When we first dated he lied about his age and I found his ID Doc. but he doesn't know that I know his real age. I found out that he was cheating just a month after we started dating. He apologised ... (145 words)

Should I tell my friend that his girlfriend kissed me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a good male friend that has a girlfrind that he has been dating for a few months.She is a really cool person,but for the last month or so,i having been getting this flirty vibe from her.At first i thought that i was tripping a little bit ,but about a week ago,we were ... (365 words)

How can I tell if he loves me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in love with this guy, known him for 2years since August 2007, met in church. i watched him secretly and i notice that he also tries to approach me and my sister said he always look at me secretly.the problem is when he approaches me, he did not say anything?! just say hi ... (180 words)

How can we marry when his parents hate me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I bet you've heard this one before: His parents don't like me. However, my case is VERY different. Here's how: Me and my boyfriend of 1 year and a half live in the U.S. And his parents live in Eastern Europe. So far I've tried everything to make them like me but it's just not... (495 words)

Why do I suddenly want him so badly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently found out that the guy that has been chasing me romantically for almost a year is in a relationship. He just told me yesterday that he has a girl friend now, and the person that he claims is his girl is someone that he has been telling me is a friend to him and also ... (185 words)

Why am I angry at my friend's passing?

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11 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - this will be my last time. i need couple more questions answered. my best friend, no my brother, who i grew up with. who was with me since i was 6, died yesterday. he wasnt a blood relative or related to my family in any way but he was my brother, best friend, and all around ... (286 words)

How can I get her to take my calls without fake blackmailing her?

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11 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - After breakup i called her my ex-girlfriend last night. we talked for hours. i got her taking my call by blackmailed her that i would call her dad that she was having affair with me for years. when i tried to take my call being nice with her she didn't take it. even last nig... (95 words)

Should I take A break from my long term Relationship to explore options or not??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

- Please help! I been with my mate for goin on 6 years and everything has always been ok. to my knowledge he had never cheated on thats what i believe. and we have had some rocky times in our relationship where he may have slipped up and or I slipped up but no one had cheated ... (294 words)

I broke up with him because he is a mama's boy, but now I want him back!

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11 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - please help! I am so confuse now. I been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we love each other so much.(I mean I do love him so much). But I broke up with him yesterday.We live in Puerto Rico and yesterday I move back in Arizona with my parents.But I still love him and miss him ... (147 words)

My husband's friend said that he really likes me! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Husband's friend says my husband should b nicer to me. He said that he really likes me. He doesn't want to break us up, he says. But should I be wary anyway? He's always nice to me, teasing,ect.Hopefully he will b moving to Houston in 2 months 4 work, but in the meantime what ... (57 words)

Am I being abused?

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11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend. Things in the relationship were fine at first but then he started acting very strange. He started getting very jealous whenever I would hang out with male friends but said that it was because he was afraid of losing me to someone else, so ... (203 words)

Please please help!!!!! Me and my close cousin are in love!

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11 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I am a teenager... Just a teen, my cousin, who I've always had a huge crush on lives in ca and I live in florida... He and my uncle recently stayed at my grandmas house this summer for twomonths... I stayed with them... The whole time my uncle had his rv.... My gma had a ... (513 words)

She tells me she loves me and I love her too, but lack of affection and sex is really getting to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

11 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have been going out with my girlfriend for a year and 9 months. We are both 20 and are in college. The relationship started great, we used to spend alot of time together, sex was offered/given/recieved a hefty amount, and we both lost our virginity around our 6 month ... (346 words)

How can she be so loving and say she wants me, for certain, in her life, then put up a wall?

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11 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I are trying to get back together after having a serious fight. On Monday, she came out to visit me. We haven't made love in almost two months, but we have been communicating beautifully, were affectionate, told each other how much we loved each other, and the ... (181 words)

I was too scared to talk to her and now she is mad! What can I do?

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11 October 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i really liked this girl for a long time and now she hates me. Ok i was at our breakfast table with the football players( which im not) and i got the crazy idea to ask her to the dance. Of course i had to tell my best friend before i did it and when i got cold feet he told her ... (161 words)

I really want to be with him forever so how do I make sure this happens?

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11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I just recently got back with my ex boyfriend of 1 1/2 months. He races motocross and is in the pro class. He was always gone every weekend to other states so we never got to see one another. [We broke up partly because of this]. Motocross season is over so we both ... (298 words)

He said I remind him of his ex-gf!

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11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so there is this guy that I like but we're not dating. And one day, we were chatting on MSN and he suddenly said that I'm so much like his ex-girlfriend... =.=''' He's really nice and he doesn't talk bad about his ex, but I somewhat have this weird feeling that he ... (104 words)

We are talking about marriage, but he can't tell me he loves me more than his best friend!

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11 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year now. His best friend is a girl. They have been friends since they were 13 and now are 27. They have hooked up a few times during their friendship, even cheating on one of his girlfriends which he broke up with afterward. The ... (271 words)

What can I do to feel a spark and passion again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a 6year lesbian relationship and I have an 8yr old from a previous relationship... we also have a 7month which we conceived with infertiltiy treatment... I love being a family but I'm bored and my feeling are not as strong as before.. what can I do to feel a spark and ... (55 words)

Why don't guys find me attractive?

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11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i wake up every morning and i see different guys at my school. and i think to myself, "Why do guys find me unattractive?" i want to understand why i have no one noticing me and complimenting me, like a guy should. my question is: Why don't guys find me attractive?... (51 words)

Can I learn to accept being alone?

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11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so tired of being alone. i am 20 years old and i have never had a boyfriend or done anything with one. i am not an emotional person but lately when i watch chick flicks or see a couple walking by holding hands, i tear up and feel this deep hole inside me. i pray every day ... (234 words)

I kissed another girl after my girlfriend left the party.

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11 October 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi i ran into some problems at a party tonight. it was my girlfriends best friends birthday and they were pressuring me to kiss her so i did and then after she left another girl came up and kissed me on the lips. I feel really bad and i dont know what to do. Should i tell her?... (58 words)

Does the bible speak against having sexual relations with your first cousin's widow ?

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11 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My first cousin past away. His father and my father are brothers. Does the bible speak against having sexual relations with your first cousin's widow ?... (26 words)

Do I pretend everything is okay and continue to put effort into the relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 4.5 years isn't sure what he wants. He tells me he loves me dearly but isn't sure if I am the "one" and he is afraid to break up to only realize he made a big mistake but he isn't sure if he's done being a "young single guy". I am 39 and he is 32 and my age is ... (549 words)

Why would he lie about being single when I'm married?

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11 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a married women and have been cheating. The man I am cheating with has two children and is seperated from the mother. However, I have reason to believe that he is married to her. He claims they dont have any contact with each other unless it relates to the kids, but she ... (74 words)

I'm not in love with him, but I feel a chemistry and would like to try things out.

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11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My good friend and I met around 7 years ago in college. He's liked me since day one and we dated briefly about 4 years ago and again 2 years ago, but things never worked out between us because of our vastly different personalities and values, and I never did like him all that ... (413 words)

I don't know if I should let this go on because I am going into the National Guard.

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11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Two weeks ago, my friend introduced me to this guy. He liked me since that day, I didnt really even think of him since I just broke up with my BF a month ago so. Even if i didnt seem interested in him, he took my friend and me out and we had so much fun. After two days h... (460 words)

How do I dump him?

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11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with this guy since October 28th, 2007. Our 2 year anniversary is coming up here shortly, but I find myself not being in love with him anymore. I'll try to make this as short as I can. He was in the Army when I met him, but he hadn't finished AIT. He was only... (619 words)

He broke it off with me and went back to his wife. Now he is trying to get back with me again!

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11 October 2009 (F)

age - My fellow left his wife x 2 months, then he went back to her didn't call me for 9 days then started calling with the excuse he wanted to check on me see if I was all right - when he left it was clear he was letting me go sat at my table and said so - i refused to answer his ... (129 words)

Could there be legal consenquences for kids watching horror and inappropriate comedy movies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

11 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - here is a weird question for the canadian agony uncles and aunts. my buddy shes got a 3 and half yr old son. she also has a 5 yr old daughter. they all love to sit down and watch, i know, this is a shocker! -house of 1000 corpses. amongst other movies like hostel, and saw. her ... (436 words)

Is it bad that I'm still thinking about her or should I be over her by now?

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11 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my ex-girlfriend broke up with me about 5months ago and i find that i think about her almost everyday STILL. I occasionally have a dream or two with her in it and my mind often wanders and thinks about her, like what shes doing and if she thinks about me still too. Is it bad... (125 words)

I would really like to talk to her and get to know her, but I don't know how.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

11 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I live in an apartment complex and these past few months I have noticed a girl about my age around. Sometimes when I walk my dog I saw her go to her car. I would really like to talk to her and get to know her, but I dont know how. With winter coming, I doubt I will really get ... (147 words)

Why do I find it so hard to sustain relationships?

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11 October 2009 (F)

age - Why do I find it so hard to sustain relationships? I have been with a man I have known for over 20 years but relationship for 9 and we can not move the relationship on. I want to get married. I have three children. One of his. But we do not live together, he hardly takes ... (152 words)

I don't know if he really wants a relationship?

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11 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, sorry for my bad typing.... I met a guy in the city where i live but he lives 400 miles away from me we visit each other once a month, he introduced me to his family at the first month that i met him not the whole family but his mother and his brothers and he s been very ... (186 words)

He's not the type to have a relationship. Is there any hope he can change?

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11 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Arg hello aunts..please help! so..I met this guy..hes lovely; into everything im into and such a good guy. I have met up with him a few times and we have kissed etc (but not had sex)...recently i asked him if he had been with anyone else since seeing me last and he revealed ... (244 words)

This just isn't the lifestyle for me... I feel trapped!

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11 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 26 years old and identify myself as a bisexual male. For a couple of years now I have been engaging in relationships with men while still retaining my attraction to and even longing to be with women. More and more I have been feeling trapped by my sexuality and I am ... (243 words)

This has been the worst mistake of my life! What do I do?

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11 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I cheated on my boyfriend of 5 months, with his older brother's best friend who is 4 years older than me. I lost my virginity to this guy when I was drunk (and it was my first time drinking), but I really want to stay with my boyfriend. This is the worst mistake of my life! ... (60 words)

Shattered...

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11 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am so lonely I cry myself to sleep sometimes... I walk around looking like a tough guy with no problems/fears in the world but deep inside I am dying for love and I'm afraid I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life... Will it always be this way? ... (55 words)