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The guy I like is in a class I help teach. Is it ok to pursue him once the class is over?

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Question - (20 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 October 2009)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Okay, so this isn't the typical student-teacher question but I thought I'd ask and see what happens.

I help teach a vocational course for adults that will run for the next two months or so. I find myself very attracted to one of my students. I know he's single, and I think my feelings may be reciprocated. We have a lot in common, which is rare for me to find. I have a pretty specific set of unusual interests and I don't often meet people who are into ALL of the same things. I would hate to just walk away from this one.

I know it would not be appropriate to ask this guy out while I am still his instructor. My question is, how long after the class has ended should I wait before saying/doing anything?

We are both adults, if that helps. I'm 21 and he's late twenties.

Thanks for any advice :)

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2009):

I would leave it for a few weeks after he has left. You don't want to get into any trouble. Other than that, good luck.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (20 October 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntOnce class has ended I don't see any reason you can't ask him out. Go for it!

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