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writes: I'm a friendly, well-liked individual, I'm 23 years old and do volunteer work.Somehow I have a knack for being able to talk to new people well.Once a woman stopped me in the street when I was in the city centre asking for directions - she was friendly and thought I was helpful. I was unaware that she was flirting with me until much later on after she'd left.I still see her around town, but only now and then, and she still does flirt with me occasionally.However, I always find it difficult to believe that women are single when they say they are - I don't know if this is a trust issue or not, but I don't want to have this feeling and it's a hard thing to break out of.Does anyone have any good advice on this, so I can become better at relationships?(sorry for the formatting, just wrote it down as it came to my mind!)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't actually flirt with them, I was just being helpful doing what they asked.
I do normally get on well with strangers.
However, it is hard to get to know people who you only ever see now and then!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): Your flirting doesnt have anything to do with your trust issue, does it? Do you think that because you flirt/they flirt with you, affects their relationship status? If they are single they are, if they are not they wouldn't lie to you.
Yes I know there will always be those who do lie, but most of us dont. Most women have enough self respect and respect for the man we date to be honest about our relationship status.
If you are not sure about them telling the truth, it's understandable. They are complete strangers. You dont have any reason to trust them. However you dont have any reasons to not trust them. Either way I will suggest you leave the matter of whether you believe them or not, and get to know them instead. Then after you get to know them better decide if they are trustworthy or not.
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