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writes:I been with my bf for 5 1/2 yrs. I am now presently 22 and he is 23. We have had a strong solid relationship for the most part. No one ever cheated or nothing it was good. But we recently decided to take a break. this is day 2! and i been crying off and on throughout the day. Im not sure if we are making the right decision. The break was decided on because we were young when we got together and really havent experienced much. We were each other first (lost our virginity together) and first serious relationship. He have had some slip ups where he would text random girls and meet them. When confronted he says he just like the attention. but i started to wonder if he wanted something else. After a few of those painful incidents i found myself getting crushes on people that i work with. Then i wasnt sure if i really wanted something else. Now that we on this break it seem like forever and like everyone else really dont matter. I just hope everything work out. My bf suppose to leave for the military in Feb and i have no idea how long this break will be.. It already feels like forever… IM SAD CONFUSED.. everyone keep saying have fun while you can cause he will.. but how do i know.. and i dont want to really get involved with no one else cause fear that it may screw something up with my bf. I FEEL LOST!!!! HELP!!Some other questions i have is. do we suppose to communicate during this break? hang out??Are we allowed to see other people and have relations(sex)?? what are the rules if any? .
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 October 2009):
I have a feeling that your boyfriend is looking for someone else. I say that because guys who are happy don't text random girls and meet them. During a break, you are allowed to see other people, and generally, you don't see each other. I would suggest that you look to moving on, beause I think you'll find he is.
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