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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is this joke a facade for her true feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and I have had this ongoing joke that we are lesbians (a joke that she started and eagerly keeps going.) I thought this would have died down ages ago, but it has been going on for countless weeks already---I think over a month. Basically, I feel as if this joke has ... (119 words)

Should I leave this job? I'm burned out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

- I thank all who answer here. I am working in a high burnout field and and have been for a long time. lately I have been feeling near burn out as well. Trouble is, lately I have had co workers snapping at me as well and I do not know how much longer I can take this and the ... (130 words)

Will things change if my boyfriend finds out I'm a virgin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 18 and still a virgin and haven't gotten very intimate with a guy before. it's not because of religious reasons or anything. anyway, i'm kind of worried because i'm visiting my bf in a couple months and i never told him i was a virgin. i haven't lied to him, but he knows i ... (156 words)

Should we act on that night or was it just a moment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.. I had a moment with one of my best guy friends a week ago, you the ones were you nearly kiss but then get interupted just before it happens. Anyway that night him and the rest of our friends were supposed to come back to a party with us so I text "A" to see if they were... (119 words)

Am I the only one for him? I'm paranoid and he's a good liar.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I started dating over a year ago now, however when we got together I was aware that he would be moving far away soon after. He kept changing the date he was going and I found myself trying to distance myself from him despite the fact i was head over heels. Then ... (675 words)

How do I let him know I still care but what he did was wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well here goes AGAIN... the same guy i was asking you guys to help me out with his whole commit issue well.. about a month ago i ended it with him thinking it was the best for the both of us.. about a week and a half later we got back we couldn't stand being away from e... (656 words)

I am grateful for the friendship but could it be more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been single now for 15 months. My husband passed away very suddenly and I am left looking after our two boys. I have known a man to just say hi to for about 5 years, but for the last three months we have been texting, emailng and talking on the phone every day. We ... (186 words)

Why does my ex keep calling me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - why does my ex keep calling me, no matter what i tell him or how much i ignore him he still calls,i told him that i do not love him anymore, i just do not have that connection anymore, that i need excitement and he can not provide it for me and that the sex was not satisfying ... (104 words)

Will he ever do anything?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Men are so difficult to understand! Iv been trying to hint to this guy i like for a while now- i even tried talking to other people on a night out to make it look like i could be more than a shy girl around him. This worked well and had him coming to talk to me. Then the ... (103 words)

What makes a man want to commit to a woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What makes a man want to commit/be exclusive to a woman?... (11 words)

Was I asked out as a joke?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was asked out a few months ago in the middle of class. i am in secondary school. the guy complimented me, saying how "beautiful" i looked. i think i am average looking, at best. then, all of a sudden, he asked me out in the middle of class. was that a joke? every guy who ... (87 words)

How do you socialize and make friends? I feel hopeless.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

16 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I guess I don't understand - how do you socialize with people and make friends? It feels impossible. People don't want to be your friend, they've already got enough. They don't want to take a risk on you - you could be crazy or dangerous and they're already happy with what they ... (165 words)

Boyfriend uses substances as a crutch. How do I tell him it's not right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When my boyfriend is stressed, he turns to alcohol and cigarettes, weed and the like. He has been like this ever since he was young. I don't like it. I hate it actually, because in a way, it seems like he just wants to hide it and make it numb, whatever he is feeling. It ... (134 words)

Virgin having trouble getting it up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

16 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a 19 year old virgin and i have went to have sex with girls recently and on both occasions my penis has failed to erect. On both occasions i had been drinking and i have no problem with getting erections otherwise. i also think i need to relax when in bed with a girl. I ... (61 words)

Could I subconsciously be harboring some dislike?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My question id this: I'm 42 and my lover is 45, I like her body very much. I also find her very attractive but I can't have an orgasm with her. She thinks that somehow she is responsible. I've tried to\explain that she is not to blame but no good. Do I need professional help? I ... (84 words)

Can I convince her I'm not a repetitive liar?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

16 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Well About 12months ago i got with a girl and we were together for months then we broke up. recently she asked about if we cud get back together and i said id love to, but at the time id slept with this girl a few times. she asked, but i denied it. now she knows, and thin... (83 words)

Is he a stalker?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy friend, his cousin and I were on the bus. His cousin who’s my best friend asked him if he was my stalker because I ran into him all the time this week. He just smiled and said no like he was admitting it. Today I said hi stalker and he said no I’m not a stalker I just ... (155 words)

Why am I still obsessed after 12 years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help, I feel like I am turning into an obsesive stalker. Background is I met this guy 12 years ago on holiday abroad when i were 18. He was my type initially but we just clicked straight away. I had never or since felt anything so strong for someone - it felt almost m... (695 words)

Do some men really push women away when they feel like they're getting too close?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Do some single men really push women away when they feel like they're getting too close? There's this guy I've been seeing on and off for the past year (I'm not putting all my eggs in his basket though, I see other people too from time to time). It seems like every once in a ... (159 words)

I love my boyfriend but am terrified of him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some help. I am trapped. I don't know where or who to go to bc the stupid part of me feels that this isn't reality. My boyfriend of 2 years is from Italy. I am American. He's been coming down from depression and I have been trying to be strong for both of us b... (443 words)

I am afraid if I have sex with him that will doom things and if I don't our relationship will end!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so. About 2 weeks ago, I met this guy, we will just refer to him as "Alex". Alex is 30 years old, physically and intellectually my type, and we have great chemistry. When we first met, he said he was the type of person who needed to start relationships with sex first. His ... (201 words)

Will my girlfriend bleed when we have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. my girlfriend and i are at different colleges and she is coming to visit me soon. after dating over a year, we are planning on having sex for the first time. i have 4 durex condoms, i already tried one to explore how to use it ect. My question is; we have been sexually ... (105 words)

I have a long distance relationship problem!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

16 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i have a question about a long distance relationship. i just started college around 8 weeks ago and so did my girlfriend. We go to college in different states very far away from each other. We have been dating over a year and it has been the greatest year of my life, i love ... (160 words)

I'm so confused, is she backing away or jus flaky?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey Everyone just seeing if I could get a little advice on a situation I'm having right now. So I have been casually seeing this girl for about 5 months...we use to date way back in the day and hadn't seen eachother in like 6 years...we started hanging out last april and ... (413 words)

He said I was "the one" and wanted to marry me only to turn around a break up! What happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for six months. We met when we were working abroad and clicked instantly. after the summer ended we decided to carry things on, even though he lived in Germany and i lived in england cheap flights meant that we saw each other every two weeks and we ... (143 words)

How do I balance meeting her needs and finding my own space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ok so here is my beef... i been dating this girl on and off for two years. we have a kid together and are now together. long story short we split up during the pregnancy and 6 months after the kid is born we been trying to be together. she moved across the country to be wi... (728 words)

Is it possible for herpes to fester for years before flaring up? My wife tested positive...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

16 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay.. So i've been dating my now-wife since 2003. We married in 2006 and have 2 children... Today (in October of 2009) she came to see me at work, and informed me that she had tested positive for type 1 herpes. We both insist that we have been faithful since we first ... (271 words)

Can anyone help answer questions I have on adoption? My fiance wants to adopt my child.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Heya, Well basicly i'm in a very happy and loving relationship to my fiance. I have a child from a previous relationship whome he regards as his son, and we i'm 5 months pregnant with our second child. As I said, my fiance adores our one year old son even though he isn't bio... (227 words)

Turns out I'm not the submissive sex bitch he thought I was. Now he wants to end things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some advice please. I have been in contact with a guy over the internet since January of this year. We have been sharing pics etc and msn. The last month he suggested that we go on Skype. We have exposed ourselves over Skype as he has a major interest in me showing him ... (238 words)

Flirty husband, Psycho wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I are good friends with another couple. The other husband is sociable, outgoing and playfully teases other women. Problem is his wife is the jealous type and she gets agitated over the SMALLEST things (like a married woman chit chatting with her husband when ... (432 words)

Am I a pushover for loving him so terribly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so if you have read my past questions you will know the whole story..but to get to the point. We broke up and now he says he wants to "date" again and take it slow. Says he wants to start from the beginning. Well...how do you do that when you were together for 2 y... (218 words)

Golden Showers: I don't like it but my partner does!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay so my problem is my Fiance likes peeing on me and to be honest I can't stand it as the smell just makes me want to gag, I just have this thing about urine to start with so I have tried it and every time now we even get close to having sex it always comes up so I find ... (132 words)

Should I leave a marriage after 30 years over my recent discoveries?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age - History: Married 30+ yrs. Just found out he's emailing old school friends (women), adding girls (20 yr. olds!) on facebook, porn addicted, and hiding large sums of money. I got nothing for our anniversary. He gave his gift back and told me to return it. Tells me, it's my ... (82 words)

Any advice for living in Argentina?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - i was wondering what i need to stay in argentina for a year or maybe more. i will be living with my boyfriend from argentina and i am 18. i may get a job but i think that i wont get one because it would be hard as i dont know spanish, but i will start learning soon. also my ... (205 words)

I'm nervous about the intentions of this guy from Myspace!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i need your help. so this guy requested me on myspace and i never add people unless i know them. he knew me from high school and also knows my brother so i added him. i started to put sad statuses on my myspace(because of my boyfriend and meant for him to see them... (235 words)

Misreading women

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a situation where a young lady has started to flirt with me (in an office environment at her workplace). She is very nice and it is light flirting. I have been going there for about 4 weeks and initially I did not pay much attention to her. The past 2 weeks she seems ... (342 words)

He can either buy me presents for my birthday or save money to come see me, but not both!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My birthday is coming up and this is the first year I've had a boyfriend for my birthday. I always joke around with my friends including my boyfriend about what they're going to get me for my birthday. But my boyfriend says he wants to save money. He said its either he spends ... (91 words)

She was my friend at the beginning of the day and now I think she hates me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I have a friend who is also my moms boyfriends daughter has always been nice and loving and all. Recently we've been hanging out more. Well last night her and her friend came over and we started watching movies. First we watched a scary movie. She was hugging me and ... (338 words)

I want to sleep with my middle school principal!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay here's the deal... I turned 18 three months ago, but I am a senior in high school still. My middle school principal and I got to talking again and we have feelings for each other. My question is.. would we be able to sleep together even though he is still a staff memb... (81 words)

Friend giving me the cold treatment, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend has been a bit off with me lately and I'm unsure of whether to go to her birthday party. First of all, I was supposed to be meeting her for a cup of tea, but I forgot I had a driving lesson in my home town an hour and a half away, so I'd never have made it in time. I ... (290 words)

I want him to commit to me but he has commitment issues!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a really big problem. i really like this guy that i met 3 months ago he said he has been in very bad relationships and he dont want a girlfriend to be commited to. but the only problem there is i have also been in very bad commited relationships and i still want to ... (204 words)

Why should I save my virginity when other people don't?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Why should I save my virginity when others people don't ? and why would I wait for the right girls in case the right girl could be a loose one as well. I can't see any points of waiting for me. even my ex-girlfriend when she was with me she siad she wanted to wait but when we ... (107 words)

My friend is paranoid and I want to help him, will writing a letter be alright?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age - I have been in a relationship with a man for two and a half years now. Until the last few months it was going reasonably well. However, he has paranoia issues. He's well educated, over 60 and not currently working, and became homeless (after a time in a half-way house w... (864 words)

How do you know when someone is for you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello guys, I have kind of a gerenal question. How do you know when someone is right for you/ the right love? I know you have to work for love but how hard. Are you suppose to work really hard or is that just a hint it's not the right love? And when do you know whe... (72 words)

She thought I didnt like her so she went with another guy, now she is torn beteween the two of us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi All, Just a quick question - I hooked up with this girl a few times over the last few months, we speak all the time and I was giving her some space to sort herself out (due to her just coming out of a long term relationship). I was waiting for an ideal moment to ask he... (291 words)

Is he cheating or did I over-react? Opinions please...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am pregnant - about 14 wks. Last night the father of the baby who I dumped 5 hrs prior - just after work, for not taking care of romance and for ringing me less and never having any time for me anymore. I felt he could have been using me so I broke up with him straight away ... (1030 words)

What does she want? She says she is really into me but then she just wants to be friends!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay, here goes.....This may be quite lengthy so bare with me.....Okay I work with this lady and she is ABSOLUTELY STUNNING! (in my eyes anyway!) I'm not bad looking myself and there has always been a physical attraction between us. We knew each other to say, "Hi! How are you?" ... (884 words)

Should I stop hanging out with him before I have developed feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There's a new guy at my work whom I have been interested in for a while, but eventually had the courage to invite him for a drink a few weeks ago. We have met up a few times since and seem to get on pretty well. I am keen on him, and he is different to all the other guys I have ... (118 words)

I'm still obsessing over a one night stand, how can I forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question that has been on my mind like an obssesion and I can’t get it out of my head. Of course it’s about a guy! I don’t know weather it is important to take it from the start, or if it’s just clear that he is a jerk and I am putting too much thoughts in it, although ... (897 words)

Could it be the one night stand's baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hiya , i am 7 weeks prenant and very confused, i have just came out of a violent relationship but was carrying on sleeping with him , i got very drunk one night and had a one night stand on the 8th of august , i had a period after that and carried on sleeping with my ex ... (103 words)

My dad physically and sexually abused me and I'm having flashbacks

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What To Do? i am now 19 and have 2 amazing little boys with my longterm partner, sound good right? well its not all so perfect When i was a young girl my own dad physically and sexually abused me at first i didnt understand it was wrong but it carried on until i was 16,i didnt ... (167 words)

Are we FWB or are we talking?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm needing advice from a male. I just divorced, and me and this 23 yr. old guy, have been sleeping with each other since the 1st night we hung out together. I'm 20 yrs old myself. I haven't been single in about 5 years. We've only been doing this for about a week n... (225 words)

Exclusive relationship question?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

16 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I tried to search around a little but about the only things I could pull up were mostly about dating "rules" and the games which I'm not into at all so I'm hoping I can get a more clear answer here. I've been with someone for 2 weeks now and we seem to have a great connection... (263 words)

Shouldn't he have let go of his ex the day he said "I do"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for almost 1 year, actually it will be 1 year on the 31st. We have a 15 month old daughter and have been together for a bit more than two years. Two days ago I woke up and realized by husband wasn’t in bed. He had gotten up early and was sitting at his ... (690 words)

2.75 years together and now she wants time to think about us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 2 3/4 years already. On the 1st of this December, it will be our 3rd year together. Last monday she decided that she wanted to leave so that she can "think" on what she wants to do with out relationship. I know i've been a jerk ... (424 words)

Men, when did you realise that your wife was the one you wanted to be with for the rest of your life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - To all married men out there, when did you realize that your wife was the one you wanted to marry? How long had you been seeing her before you guys got married and what kind of circumstance was it? Like were you friends first, were you high school sweethearts, were you casually ... (57 words)

My b/f always takes me along when he is busy, thus leaving us little alone time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of about a year and a half always takes me with him when he sees his friends, and well, at first it felt good - I was able to get to know his friends and it was good to know that he somehow wants to show me off to his friends. But now I am starting to feel... (265 words)

He said he'd contact me but its been 3 weeks

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I hung out with my roommates brother and connected with him incredibly. We both commented that it was creepy how alike we were. He lives 3 hours away and told me when we parted that he needed to get my number so we could go on a date. He was genuine when he said it but it's ... (88 words)

I still love him, no matter what I do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend and I broke up over two months ago. We were together for 1.5 years, and really close friends for 2 years leading up to that. No matter how hard I try to move on, and convince myself and others that I have, I know that I still haven't been able to and am still ... (355 words)

I liked being with my female boss more than I like to be with my b/f, is this natural?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently made out with my boss in her office, and I feel really bad about it. It came out of nowhere but now I can't stop thinking about her. She's really nice and laid back so I'm lucky because I could've gotten fired if she was somebody different but now I think she wants ... (131 words)

Does this make me a lesbian, you think???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am wondering if I am a lesbian. First of all I am very sexually attracted to girls at school(most are straight.) Second, I check out girls all the time and sometimes get excited. Thridly, I have sexual thoughts. Fourthly I like a girl at school that i have crushed on for ... (104 words)

I suspect he will initiate a break up, what approach do I take?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is mostly a confessional. I am fairly certain my boyfriend is about to dump me. I want to be as adult and fair about this as possible, even though I have some problems with our relationship, and I suppose with him. As much as I want to confide in friends right now, I ... (209 words)

Our Ldr feels awkward, I'm afraid to lose her. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

16 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been in a LDR for 4 months now. She's older than me by a year, I won't disclose ages. Recently, my girlfriend said that she can't handle the distance because she worries too much. She wanted to take a break for a while. About an hour later, she said that she can't leave me ... (376 words)

How do I tell my husband that it hurts me when he looks at porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is how do I tell my husband that it hurts me when he looks at porn and hides it from me. I have told him over and over again that it hurts me. His response is that he will stop and he doesn't I love him a lot and don't want lose him. When he hides it from me and ... (131 words)

Tips on stressed out girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

16 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So question- When my girlfriend is stressed out, she usually gets pretty cranky. It's really difficult to talk to her, and the usual consolation to typical complaints (I've been working forever, or I'm gonna fail these tests) don't work. Not quite sure how to handle it totall... (93 words)

He took his sister's side, how am I supposed to feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I am married to a mama's boy. We been having his sister sleep over to help out with our three children. We had it out over his mother and how she is a pill popper and I dont trust my kids with her. Bottom line, I dont like her at all. When my husband woke up from us yelling ... (152 words)

Is this harassment?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex broke up with me about 5 months ago. I found out he started dating a girl a week later and they are still together. I stopped all contacts and explained to him my reasons. He has been sending me emails which I do not respond to. I find the emails very annoying, and they... (305 words)

The romeo and Juliet situation sucks.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been a while since I have been on DearCupid and things were going great with my boyfriend of 1yr5mo. until last month when his father became so wrapped up in believing that my family, financial situation, and myself ulitmately were not good enough for his son. Because I... (199 words)

My friend copies me so much I can't take it. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend copies me so much I started not even talking to her anymore that much cause of it! Like last year when Twilight first got popular ( Im in 8th grade 13 years old btw) she talked about it and said she loved it. Then yesterday my other friend had a New Moon shirt an... (440 words)

My boyfriend's abusive and underwent a mental health evaluation. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so ill try and keep this short. My boyfriend of almost 2 years is CRAZY. He's abusive. Verbally, emotionally and recently, he's starting to get a bit psychically abusive. (pushing, shoving) We have a baby together. I love him but i hate him. He threatens me and screams at ... (344 words)

I'm madly in love with someone who lost intrest how do I win him back?

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16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me with my "lovelife"!!! I really like this guy and I want to know how to get him to like me or even if I should try to win his heart... We flirted all school year but I didnt think he liked me so i gave up even though I really liked him... Later that summer we s... (199 words)

What do you think is going on between us?

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16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I have a guy friend who I like and know he likes me too. But we aren't going out even though he wants to. If I could I would. But here's what happened. I don't have a cell phone so I texted him (last friday using my dad's phone which he knows I use) and said he... (378 words)

My girfriend is pregnant and treats me badly!

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16 October 2009 (M)

- what should i do? im 27 my girlfriend is 23 i've been with this girl 3 years. somedays are easy some are hard. for my birthday i always get a card and kiss and told i love you but thats it i always say " your not gonna say happy bithday " and she says " no " its the same... (364 words)

What's the best way to ask if someone's single?

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16 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Whats a good way to find out if a girl has a boyfriend? IS the best way to just ask? "are you single?" or is there a better way to ask that isnt so straight forward?... (36 words)

Was being fingered last year making tampons hurt? I just cry...

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16 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi , i am 14 years old . and i have first got fingured last year , but recently i met this new boy , and he isnt dooing anything wrong . but it hurts . I cant even use Tampons , ii cry just trying . when ever my bf tries too figure me i make him stop because it hurts alot . and ... (139 words)

Parent imposed curfew has destroyed my social life! Why have they turned against me?

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16 October 2009 (F)

- I'm 20 years old but feel like a child as my parents treat me like one yet treat my younger brother like a adult. My parents brought my brother a house for him and his gf to live in but have raised my rent to pay for the mortage and the expensive furniture. I now have a 9pm ... (170 words)

Husband has me running ragged and I'm mentally exhausted. How did I let this pile up on me?

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16 October 2009 (F)

age - I'm mentally exhausted, i've been out of work for 6 months running my fiance's business. I really want to get back to my own job but I have no oompf. I believe I'm depressed. He has me running ragged. Seriously I do just about everything but dress him up! He is a slob, he can ... (611 words)

Online guy that lives in another state is not ready for a girlfriend....did I scare him off?

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16 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - so i was talking to a guy (my best friends childhood friend from another state) i had never seen him, he lived far away (7 hours) we talked for 5 months, we'd talk on the phone for HOURS at a time...but he'd call every other week to once a week, we'd talk online almost daily ... (635 words)

He seems to like me but not that much. How can I get him to like me more?

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16 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know if this had happened to you, but there's a guy at work who seems to like me, he looks at me and talks soft to me and whenever we meet at the office he seems to enjoy talking to me. The other day I needed to delivered some things to a customer ( we work on sales... (189 words)

Mad at myself because I got drunk and danced at a party! I've always been a 'good girl'...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - over the summer i went to a party with a bunch of friends i grew up with i was the only girl.. we went to this party like early june and i got drunk badly! ive always been called a good girl cause i am a virgin at the party i got drunk and danced thats it! the one guy that i do ... (174 words)

Medical condition left me unable to have children. Do I deserve to be with anyone?

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16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 25 years old. Because of a medical condition, my doctor told me it'll be hard for me to have children in the future. This news has shattered my dreams of experiencing childbirth and being a mother, and I feel bad for my boyfriend because it seems as though I've robbed him ... (251 words)

He was shocked I had herpes, looked at pictures, and panicked! Will he ever call again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, So my new boyfriend broke up with me. We've only been together about a month. But here's the thing he was very, very attentive up until the past couple of days. Our relationship has been progressing physically, so I have had to tell him that I have herpes before it could ... (369 words)

Deep, passionate crush on older guy with kids!

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16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all! I am new to this but not a registered user. Let me get straight to the point. There is an older guy I have a deep, passionate crush on and I cannot tell if he likes me back. I have been chasing him since earlier this Summer and never could build up the courage to talk ... (336 words)

What would explain my husband's strange behavior and impotence?

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16 October 2009 (F) age - What can you do, if you have no way to find out what is causing your husband strange behavior, and impotence? I'm spending my last 4 years ,trying to find out why did he turned impotent, and why he seem to be much more distant ,he used to be. I'm trying to stop asking t... (216 words)

Ex's friend messaged me on Face Book! What do you make of this?

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16 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was on facebook late one night, when one of my ex-boyfriend's friends messaged me. So we start talking. He tells me that he "always noticed me", and that he was "always attracted to me". The problem is that he was a bit drunk when he said this to me. It had been a few d... (139 words)

My doctor gets me hot and bothered!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just stumbled across these posts through google. I cannot believe what similarities I'm reading. I have such a "huge" crush on my doctor. He's always been a hot guy and I've been seeing him for about a year now. However just recently I can't seem to control my thoughts, ... (339 words)