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He says if I can change he might be with me

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Question - (17 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *FML writes:

ok this is really complicated so i really need help

me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. and during a break in these 2 years i had "a thing" with this other guy. then me and my boyfriends got back and now hes finished it with me and hes seeing this other girl.

i dont know what to do, because im so insecure and i really love him with every peice of my heart. i will do anything to get him back.

but now hes saying that if i can change, by... giving him more space and not be so controlling that he would meet with me and decide if he wants so be with me again and forget about this other girl.

Please i dont know what to doo...:(

xxxx

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A female reader, KFML United Kingdom +, writes (18 May 2009):

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thanks for saying that, but im willing to change for him, cuz he really does make me so happy. Is there something wrong with me for wanting to do that. :(

thankss

xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009):

Sweetie, he's not worth your time. He doesn't know what he wants, its seems to me that to him girlfriends are just a convienience. Just let him be with this other girl, you don't need to be agravated by him. He's telling you the only way he'll be with you is if YOU change, why would you want to change, some guy out there will love you for who YOU are, he'll accept you, this guy just wants an obediant girlfriend that he can boss around.

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