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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been going out again and things have been really great. But in the past, him and one of my best friends had gotten together behind my back for a month. It has been almost a year now and i have forgiven both of them and have put it in the past. It took a long time for me to trust my boyfriend again and i think we are now in a better place than we have ever been. I have remained friends with the girl, not close because she is, simply put, a bitch. She had also screwed over my boyfriend before when she cheated on him, after she betrayed me, with his best friend. Right now, this guy has just dumped her and she seems to be trying very very hard to get back with my boyfriend again. She is quite attractive, and she is very 'friendly' with all the boys. I trust my boyfriend not to do anything, he had recently just told her that he wasn't going to be friends with her because being with me is way more important than being friends with a girl who screwed us both over, but i'm still getting the feeling that she will stop at nothing to get a guy again, and she thinks that he can be that guy for her. Should i have a talk with her? We are friends and the fact that she has the nerve to even come back to both of us after months of being an ice cold bitch just completely throws me off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): I understand that you are insecure given the past history however it is more important that you have trust for your boyfriend. there are going to be many more boyfriend stealing girls and some of them you wont know or be friends with so you wont be able to fend them all off. has your boyfriend given you any reason to not trust him since that incident?
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reader, Pyro_Dimples  +, writes (17 May 2009):
 I would have beat bitches ass. haha but then again I have a little bit of a temper. Next on the list would be to just tell her strait, leave my boyfriend and I the fuck alone. With chicks like her you can't be nice sweetie and it sounds to me like your a very sweet girl. If you want to keep your boy to yourself you have to defend him. If you fully trusted him not to cheat again you wouldn't be concerned because you would know he would turn her down but since he has been unfaithful your always going to have that little worry. You either need to stand up and put a stop to it or leave it alone and see if he makes the right choices. Best of Luck.
-Jessi
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