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We had sex and now he wants to be "friends"...???

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Question - (17 May 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 17 May 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend and i had sex then he want us to be friends what does that mean

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009):

Ok, so you had sex. Was it a meaningful, loving experience for both of you, a meeting of both mind and body or just a meaningless release of tension by giving in to basic instincts?

Meaningless sex is rather like a decent bowel movement - once you've had it you no longer need it. Maybe that's how he's feeling.

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A female reader, pebble United Kingdom +, writes (17 May 2009):

pebble agony auntHe wanted sex, got it, and now wants to move on to the next person to start it all again.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (17 May 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntHe got what he wanted from you and now he wants to do the same to other girls!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009):

Ask him why and confront him, make him give you reasons, if he has none than he probably just used you for sex

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A female reader, iSmil3y United States +, writes (17 May 2009):

Is your age correct? Just wondering.

You gave him what he wanted so he's done. You guys might remain friends but, he's gonna move on. He got what he wanted and it's over.

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A female reader, SIG United States +, writes (17 May 2009):

It could mean a lot of things. He obviously likes you enough to still want to be near you as a friend but as far not being more than that you need to ask him.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009):

that he used you for sex maybe?

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