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Was that her period? Or is she pregnant?

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Question - (17 May 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 May 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend and I avoided having sex around her fertile time and she hasn't had any pregnancy symptoms. Her periods are usually really short with heavy cramps and a relatively light flow. She hadn't started on the day she was supposed to so we decided to go ahead and make each other feel good. I fingered her pretty heavily and when I pulled my fingers out she was bleeding a lot. She had to put a tampon in and said shed never bled that much at one time. She hasn't bled or had cramps since then. Was that her period or is it possible that she's pregnant? Please help, I'm really worried.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (17 May 2009):

I have never EVER heard of not drinking enough delaying a period.

It's more likely that she is stressed about something... probably the fact that her boyfriend doesn't care about her enough to use a condom and would prefer to use a method of contraception that went out of date along with leeches and witchcraft.

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009):

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Nvm, she just started her period. She thinks she was so late cause she didn't drink much water the last few weeks.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (17 May 2009):

Take a pregnancy test and find out.

And for the future, although this method of contraception was great in the Victorian times, there have been several leaps forward in contraception since then.

These things called CONDOMS have been invented.

You should find out about them.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, Mr Me United States +, writes (17 May 2009):

Mr Me agony auntWell, it possibly could have been her period since it was suppose to come anyway. However, that being said, you make it sound like you guys do not use a condom or any kind of protection (pill, etc.) when having actual sex. If that is the case, then there's a possibility she's pregnant.

My suggestion to you is to go get a pregnancy test and find out. It'll put your worries to rest.

Also, if my assumption about you not using protection is accurate, then you need to start using some protection!! Something. Her cycle can change and what you may think is her "non fertile time" might actually be in the range of her fertile time.

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