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I don't know how to break up with her in a peacful matter that'll work out fine for both of us.

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Question - (17 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 May 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *nc writes:

I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year now. We're both still young. We moved into an apartment after about four months of dating, it's both of our first times on our own and we're completely dependent on each other. The entire spark, the vibe, we used to have for each other has completely died out. I still have strong feelings for her but I miss that feeling and I still want to have experience in other relationships.

I made the mistake of moving out with her and moving her out of her house (which she can't return to). It's possible that we can try to live with each other and just stick it out as friends for a while, but I still have strong feelings for her and that might complicate things. I don't know how to break up with her in a peacful matter that'll work out fine for both of us. She has some depression and stress issues also, I don't want to hurt her, but I don't want to be with her... Help me please?

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A female reader, MissEhm United Kingdom +, writes (18 May 2009):

well firstly sit her down and and talk to her

tell her how your feeling and that you still have strong feelings for her. Tell her that somethings have changed between you. Try and give it another shot it sounds to me that you once had a happy relationship and that you have just sort of drifted apart somewhere

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