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In love with my band teacher's wife

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Question - (17 May 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i fell in love with my band teachers wife. me and him are sorta close. should i tell him how i feel? or should i tell her how i feel? or should i keep it to myself

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A female reader, Drat001 United Kingdom +, writes (3 January 2011):

While there is absolutely nothing wrong with being in love with someone of the same gender, or even one who's older, even much older, it is not OK to try to have a relationship with someone who's married.

I suggest that, if you haven't already, try to get over her.

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A male reader, Prophet7 United States +, writes (17 May 2009):

Keep it to yourself she's already taken. You just like her a lot but you're not in love. Don't make your situation uncomfortable by airing this out. Find someone your age who is single, you'll have a better chance at love. Hope my advice helps you. God Bless... Prophet7

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009):

You probally didnt fall in love with her, you just thinks its love, you might really really like her, but i doubt that your trully are in love with her

Just dont tell him and keep to yourself, if you have to than masturbate to her every now and then to get rid of your urges

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (17 May 2009):

Keep it to yourself.

What possible positive outcome could their be by telling him or her?

Do band teachers not get any training about dealing with teens in America? We get an awful lot of problems with them getting too cuddly with their students.

Good Luck!! xx

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