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writes:I work with a guy and we have been friends for a couple of years. Over the past few months we have become closer. We are both single.We've started flirting more, when we are close together we brush up against each other. When we talk there is a lot of eye contact and I've noticed his eyes are dilated.We email each other regularly every day, he gave me his mobile number and we text each other too. If I'm in the kitchen area either making drinks or washing up he always turns up and offers assistance. We have been going out regularly after work for a drink, just the two of us. I'm unsure if he wants more than a friendship? Do I ask him or just let things run their course and develop naturally?
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reader, Pyro_Dimples  +, writes (17 May 2009):
 That is your choice. If you are that certain the best thing to do is go for the kill and just ask him what he considers your relationship to be. That is an easy way to ask because in all honesty he is probably wondering what it is too..
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): Do you want more than friendship or do you want to keep things on a friends only basis?
If you want things to go further, the only way to find out for certain, and to give him a clue as to how you're feeling is to ask him. It looks like things are developing naturally anyway, and there's every chance he's thinking the same as you. Maybe all he's waiting for is a green light from you before he hits the accelerator and gets out of first gear.
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