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writes:Me and my x have been flirting by text. We haven't been with new people still going through divorce. Is it wrong to have text sex then maybe even hook up, knowing our marriage is still over?
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reader, iluver +, writes (17 May 2009):
even if you dont stay together, dont just leave. you should still talk, see how each other are doing. have lunch every now and then. talk about your new relationships! just be freinds. : )
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe just broke up after 22 years. He was verbally abusive and had issues with pot. He is now clean , going to church, going to counseling, and trying really hard to get better. I still don't fully trust him and want him to start a new life and meet other women (since we got together so young). As I want to see what else is out there. I'm just to scared to hook up with just any guy but that desire , which has been gone for so long, has been relit . We both agree we need to start new journeys , it just seems a safe choice for right now.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (17 May 2009):
 Got to disagree with Phil here. You two split up for a reason. Either that reason was silly and you two should never have ended up in divorce, or the reason was serious and you two should end this. Do you want it to drag on forever and ever?
You two to keep contacting each other whenever you get an itch? How is that going to affect any future relationship?
Your choice of course, but if you want a clean break and start over new, then this ain't the way to do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): There can't be any harm in it if it satifies a need for both of you. After all, you're both human and have human desires - and mature enough to know what you're doing and to know what you're letting yourself in for.
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