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writes:Please help me...I really need advice on how to re-connect with this guy I met. All advice is accepted and appreciated!Ok here goes, I met this guy on a social networking site. He gave me his messenger screename and I we had two conversations. It seemed to me like we were hitting it off because both of us were dropping hints left and right about possibly meeting up (We live in the same state.) Well, soon after, we talked less because he's a really busy guy and a week went by without him being online. When he did sign on, it looked like we were picking up where we left off. I even told him how I'd be in his area because I would be visiting some friends. He just said "ok" and that's it! I didn't know what else to say because I didn't expect that answer. I was expecting something more along the lines of "Great! Let's meet up!" But no, that was that so I left that alone. Then, he asked me for a picture...he had already seen pics of me but I guess he wanted to know what I looked like at that moment. I didn't feel too great about it especially after I just cleaned the whole house and did laundry that day! Well either way I sent it... he never said anything about it. But I know he got it because he said he did. I just feel, he's losing interest in me and I wanna know how I can get that interest back...I really think there could be something there if I was given another try... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): Some men go on these sites just to have a chat. Ask him whether he is on there just for that or whether he wants to meet up sometime. But wait till he gets back to you, don't pursue him and make sure you don't pin your hopes on him.
If you cleaned the house and did the laundry because you wanted him to come to your place then I think you are jumping the gun.
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reader, sammi star  +, writes (17 May 2009):
 It sounds to me like he enjoyed flirting with you online but when it actually came to meeting he got a little nervous! I don't think the way he's behaved is very respectful to you, but if you really believe that you could have something special with this guy then you should follow your intuition. Just ask him straight what's going on, maybe he's got a genuine reason like trouble with work, family etc, and if he hasn't at least you'll know where you stand instead of being left wondering! Good luck x
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