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writes:How long should a man last in bed? How long does a women want a man to last? Reply to this Question
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reader, charliefritz +, writes (22 June 2009):
A couple quick tips for guys looking to last longer in bed (or for ladies who wish their men would last longer...).
Try not to think too much about it... I know that's hard, but you'll be better off if you focus on HER and her happiness and pleasure rather than looking at your watch the whole time.
Also, I've found that focusing on your breathing is key. A quick, practical tip that you might find helpful is to exhale on your way IN, and inhale on your way OUT.
This type of deep breathing not only helps keep you calm and keeps your mind clear, it literally calms your nerves and makes you less likely to "shoot off" unexpectedly.
If you're interested in lasting longer, you can get more tips at this website:
http://www.TheEnduranceReport.com
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009): six times shorter than the yearn used to make it. Sorry thats the answer to the length of string question....
your question is a bit like asking someone how much money would they like. Women WOULD like is it to last forever, with someone hung like a donkey or until they get friction burns, dehydrate or fall asleep from exhaustion.
Unfortunately and to prevent the above it doesn't work like that.
Each time will be different the answers below give that insight. Foreplay helps lots and makes the actual shagging bit easier - so long as you spend time on \ with each other it generally doesn't matter. time and place will make a difference as does thinking about it....
If you are having trouble, then learn some techniques kegel type stuff, eat vitamins and dont drink too much....
Star.x.
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reader, niki20  +, writes (18 May 2009):
 I agree with all these answers. As long as i climax before or with my husband it doesnt matter if its ten minutes or three hours, as long as i get off im ok.
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reader, Blondy +, writes (18 May 2009):
 I, personally, like it to go for a long time. Hours at a time is very fun for me, but that's just me and I am a very sexual person and I know not all men can do that but it doesn't HAVE to last for hours, I can have an orgasm in under 10 minutes, but I can have MORE orgasms the longer we go. I have been with guys who would last 5 minutes and cum and then be done and I was not happy with that at all, it seemed selfish to me.Everyone will like different things, quickies can be fun too, but I like it to go on for a really long time. There is no such thing as how long it 'should' last, all women like different things when it comes to sex. Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): Well in my opinion men dont have to last for hours to satisfy me. They just need to do all the right things in the bedroom to make me happy
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reader, Lina319 +, writes (17 May 2009):
 Surprisingly, the average act of sex takes 10 minutes. Not exactly what movies portray, but in regard to what a woman would like... it all depends on the female you are dealing with. Some women want their man to take their sweet time, a lot of foreplay, kissing, touching, then go in for the kill. Other women, aren't too fond on elongating the foreplay and want to get straight to business, it all depends on mood, preference, and relationship with partner.
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