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*illy_girll
writes:I have an older male friend who lives near me and we have a discrete physical relationship that has been going on for about a year. I enjoy being with him but I don't see him as anything more than a fun time once in a while and a good friend.Friday he asked if I wanted to move in with him. He is married but she apprently doesnt care if he has sex with someone else because she dont want any. He wants to tell her about me.I said no and am thinking about stopping our relationship but I enjoy being with him so much. What do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): seems to me they might be both in on this, maybe they want threesomes. id steer well clear of this situation if i was you.
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reader, molly4  +, writes (17 May 2009):
 That is bizarre. Are you sure you want to get in between him and his wife? Even if she apparently doesn't care if he sleeps around, she isn't going to feel this way forever and will eventually get jealous. Sounds like dangerous territory, if I were you I would distance myself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): Sounds like they're swingers
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