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writes:Me and my husband are going through a tough time. i have been backing off since his lies have cause a rift between us. I tried to start counseling, but it has taken for ever to get an appointment. Is it a good thing to keep my distance? It doesn't even feel like we are married. I wanted to go to the counselor to find out if it is even worth saving, but in the mean time I am so confused, and don't know if I should have physical contact with him. i haven't kissed him or made love to him in over 2 months, I guess I'm just getting lonely, and am worried that if I do start showing affection, he will think it is ok to lie to me and he he is off the hook for all the past mistakes. If we were not married and did not have kids, he would be gone, no questions asked. I can't trust him right now, and I am unsure if there will ever be trust again.If I do start to physically get close, will it lead him on? I don't know if he wants to make it work or not. He doesn't talk to me, but he does try to hug me and give me back rubs, like he is trying to connect, but could that just be because he wants to get laid? Any advice about this? Reply to this Question
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