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*relynn
writes:I had always been the tom boy, until the past three months (I guess). I am head over heels for the greatest guy I have ever met...he is younger than me, not very confident, virgin, not outgoing at all, pretty much we are complete opposites, but he makes my heart jump. I have had many boyfriends before but I feel so different with him, around him.Well....we are not "offical" yet, but lately I have been hit on left and right. Not use to all of this at all, worst of all, these guys that want to be with me are all guys I thought always saw me as "one of the guys".Now I am starting to think about waiting longer to be with the guy of dreams to enjoy this attention more. Damn it really does sound as bad outloud as it does in my head. I'm strong I know I can work this out on my own. But I would like some female input, seeing as all my friends are guys (all of which are very one sided now). Thanks for reading. Reply to this Question
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reader, Brelynn +, writes (17 May 2009):
Brelynn is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you ladies for your answers.
I sat down and talked with my dream man, told him about all the attention and that I was questioning if we should start a relationship now or wait. He is so understanding and even though he said he would wait for me, I'm ready to move our relationship to a more offical level.
Thanks again
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): Go out with the guy you like as with the others it will [probably last after you leave him
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): Attention is always nice but it doesn't last. Do what your heart really wants! If this guy you like is as great as you say then act on it now or you may never get the chance.
If you don't grab him now and you miss your chance you will always wonder what if...
If for some reason the dream guy doesn't work out, the other guy(s) giving you attention (if they really care about you) will still be there for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): I'm a bit confused about what you're asking. Are you asking it is right to wait and enjoy the attention from the guys who are hitting on you?
If so, then why not. If the 'dream guy' hasn't said anything to you about being official or dating etc. then you should just enjoy yourself. But, if you are dating this guy, then break it off, you can't string him along while you revel in your newly founded attention.
As long as you are single, you can do what you want, just do not hurt anyones feelings in the process.
Hope this helps
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