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30-35,
anonymous
writes: help im so lonely! i have friends. i have family. but i feel depressed and lonely! i want a boyfriend, someone to love me!everyone says, it will happen but im tired and restless of waiting. ive never had a bf and im 2o!i know what my problem is and i cant change it! which is very infuriating!my problem is that im just not that phyisicallly attractive. i understand, as i know that as much as a guy may have a stunning personality, he needs to have something that attracts you physically, and i think i lack this!what am i ever going to do?!!i am confident, clever, caring, funny. and i do make the best of what ive got by wearing nice clothes and keeping myself clean and fresh.theres nothing more i can do!help!im tired of being alone!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): There is a huge difference in "being alone" and "being lonely." It's all in your frame of mind. Think positive and you will give off a positive vibe. Think negative and that will be the msg you are sending.
I have never been without a man in life until these past 2 years. Most of the time I enjoy life and appreciate my privacy. Sometimes, though I do get lonely. That's when I have to shift gears and reach out to friends. I am a fun person who loves to laugh. I am fortunate to have so many friends who love and care about me. I have to always remember to be grateful for that.
When it comes to our physical appearances, we all have to make the best of what we have! I don't believe that there is no one out there who would be attracted to you. Don't give up! Let a positive attitude shine through! You a young yet! You have so much of your life to live. Live it well, live it happy! Learn to love yourself, and others will love you as well!
Britt
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