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41-50,
*aurita
writes:Okay my boyfriend/bestfriend of 8 years on and off cheated on me and i found out by calling a number in his phone. Then he gets mad at me for calling her and tells me mean hurtful things. Then he changed his number on me. Shouldnt i of been the one mad? It makes me feel she was more important to him. By the way he was only w her 4 months. Please help.
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reader, iluver +, writes (17 May 2009):
you should, but you shouldnt have been calling #s in his phone. he should be mad to. theres a reason he was cheating on you, and it sounds like you dont trust each other and/or dont have boundries, everyone needs their own space w/ things no one else knows about. if you took away everything he had maybe he had to find something (or someone) new. you two need to talk about this. i usually say when someone cheats on you they dont deserve a second chance, but i think this is a little different. whatever you do i hope this helped. ; )
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (17 May 2009):
 Yes, you should. Why aren't you.
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