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writes:Ok, so I badly want to have sex! I'm 21, only had sex once before and my current situation means that I HAVE to wear a condom, no question! My problem is, I have such a sensitive penis. Whether im erect or not, the thought of someone/something (a condom/skin/bed sheets) touching my penis when my foreskin is rolled back is, for me physically, cringeworthy. Its the most unpleasant sensation ever and I don't know what to do. Ive read some of the tips about letting water drip on it in the shower, (again sensitive when Ive tried) and trying to let as much air get to it whenever is possible, (not really a problem) but nothing seems to desensitize it enough for me to be able to just randomly get it out and touch it withought fearing the weird sensation.Ive had sex once before and although I knew my penis was sensitive it wasnt a problem when it actually went in for some reason, but that was without a condom and not much prior thought about what I was doing.Have i got a medical problem, have I got massive anxiety issues or is it normal to have such a sensitive penis???I watch porn and see how the guys have just got it exposed all the time and it does not seem to bother them in the slightest if it touches or rubs against anything, which I find astonishing!!!Please, please, please help!!!
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (10 June 2009):
 Sensitivity like this is not unusual, its just that guys don't want to talk about it because we are supposed to be 'such good performers' (its a guy thing). anxiety makes it worse and taking valium or zanax can sometimes make is worse. Yes you can wear a condom or even 2 as it reduces sensitivity and helps you get used to increased sensitivity in that area and allows greater self control which gives increased self confidence. The other thing you can do is spray something called lignocaine 9.5%. Its a desensitiser, as you have sex the sensitivity slowly wears off and you can ejaculate much later then you do at present with much greater pleasure. After a while you get a better understanding of controlling what's happening and will use it less over time. Try it, its an option but I think it will help and if it does then enjoy yoursself and think of the guy who gave you the advice. have fun...Your Friend
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009): wow porn - the new documentry on national graphic. so stunningly accurate of real sex. Soon to be in HD.
porn is like saying starwars is a real life soap opera. its entertainment, thats all.
dont rolll your foreskin back then - duoh. you don't need to, it will be fine. Most women, (except one aunt on here who thinks its like an elephants trunk) wont care.
for some really good info on the penis...see this site:
http://sexperienceuk.channel4.com/education/about/male-anatomy
Sorry have to go - R2 is calling...
Star.x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009): Your talking about your head of the penis right. Sence your skin covers the head it increased the sensitivity by keeping it worm and moist. A lot of guys masturbate to make the head less sensitive. Sence the porn stars usually have sex with a lot of girls it may help make it less sensitive but I'm guessing about the porn stars. The good thing about the forskin is it gives you more sensation during sex, and it allows the flow of semon to be easier with the extra forskin opening up the shaft more, than if you would be secomsized. I think masturbating should help you to be less sensitive. I got a lot of my info from this web site, so if you want to read up on it. http://www.propenis.com/foreskin.htm
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reader, MissKin +, writes (18 May 2009):
 I personally wouldn't know what's 'wrong' with you, if there is really something wrong. people r made in different ways, maybe this is just naturally the way you are. However, i recommend seeing your GP or having a talk on the phone with a free clinic nurse/doctor just to have an answer. But in general it is a very sensitive area but you should be able to touch it. IF it's just sensitive when you pull back your foreskin, then perhaps it is normal as this is supposed to be very very sensitive and it could be anxiety issues. But if you can't touch it at ALL then i'd see a doctor. Sorry if this isn't much help.
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