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What do I do... tell her I like her or keep it to myself?

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Question - (17 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I really, really like one of my close friends, who also happens to be a girl. I've only admitted to one other person that I like her and that I could possibly be bisexual, and only because that person was open-minded enough for me to be comfortable with. Most of my other friends, including my crush, are extremely homophobic and I know things would drastically change (in a bad way) between us if anyone else found out. I basically live with all my friends and so I see them almost 24/7, so it would be very painful for me if they reacted badly...

I'm not really sure what to do - keep on like this and hope that my feelings go away (it's been like this for over a year), or what?

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A male reader, Inc United States +, writes (17 May 2009):

Tell her your feelings. If she's a good friend but doesn't share your feelings, she'll keep it to herself. If not, that's not really the kind of person you'd want to have any relationship with.

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