A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I really, really like one of my close friends, who also happens to be a girl. I've only admitted to one other person that I like her and that I could possibly be bisexual, and only because that person was open-minded enough for me to be comfortable with. Most of my other friends, including my crush, are extremely homophobic and I know things would drastically change (in a bad way) between us if anyone else found out. I basically live with all my friends and so I see them almost 24/7, so it would be very painful for me if they reacted badly... I'm not really sure what to do - keep on like this and hope that my feelings go away (it's been like this for over a year), or what?
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reader, Inc +, writes (17 May 2009):
Tell her your feelings. If she's a good friend but doesn't share your feelings, she'll keep it to herself. If not, that's not really the kind of person you'd want to have any relationship with.
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