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writes:I am 18 years old and split up with my boyfriend of nearly 2 years after all of your advice (thankyou to all thse who replied). he belittled me everyday and made me angry. now that i am single again, i started seeing a guy called david. he made me feel beautiful again but i fear he only wants me for sex. i cant handle this guy. however, the pain i feel now for my ex boyfriend is immense. he kept calling me and texting me, for a week it was ok because we got on well as friends and we talked about us and we were ok about everything until he questioned me about the guy i was seeing and i stupidly revealed that me and david had had sex. we were both drunk and it was a mistake, after which me and david decided to wait until we were getting a little more seious before we had sex again. my ex did not take kindly to this and i kept apologising. i cant get over him but he treated me realy badly and i don't think i deserve to be guilt tripped for being happy? do i? how do i stop feeling this way and get on with my life. my exams are in a few weeks and i cant bear to fail because of my ex or this new guy. i hate being single as it makes me feel unwanted. any advice is greatly apreciated, thankyou
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): .... Mmmm all I can say is that guys like girls when girls try to move on after the guy feels like he gets no attention they always try to talk to them again ... happened to me with my ex but after 2 weeks I realized I didn't like her that I only liked her because she was ignoring me and being mean to me ... which by the way I broke up with her and I really don't regret it... , all these people say leave your ex alone but its easy for them to say that because there not in that situation .. my suggestion is follow what your heart says if you believe your ex can change then give him that oppurtinity ... if he cant then you need to find a way to move on because its killing your self esteem .. im sure your smart or eles you wouldnt be asking for advice , a smart girl knows what to do if you feel that its a need to leave that guy then you need to. Follow your heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): sarah, you are not happy with this new guy. you just revealed that perhaps all the wants is just sex from you.
you have your exams so plse concentrate on that and also work on the self esteem issues. you can survive without a man. being alone doesn't have to be lonely. you need to start loving your own company and yourself. if you cannot love yourself how can you profess to love someone else?
yes, your ex is hurting. i havn'e read your previous posts about this relationship, so i don't know why you broke up with him. but he needs to work on himself right now just as you need to on yourself. you both will hurt since you both invested 2 yrs with each other. this thing with david is too soon. you cannot end one affair and start the very next day with another. give yourself space and some healing too. if you don't be careful you will be consumed by these 2 . just try focusing on the exams. it will give you the start for the rest of your life, the boy stories can come later. so plse just try to focus. if it means cutting both men out of your life then plse do. this man be the only solution for now.
good luck
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