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writes:So im gay and ive been friends with this guy for about two years. he knows im gay and he used to say he was bi but ive started to pretty much fall in love with him. and it seems like when he found out that i liked him, he decided that he was straight. were still really good friends, he talks to me everyday. he even treats me like id expect a boyfriend to treat me. he kind of makes fun of me but in a playful way. and he can always tell when im upset with him. ok hes transferring schools next year and when he told me that i was about to cry and i just kind of didnt talk to him for the rest of the day. so the next day he came and told me that he wasnt going to the other school and so i forgot about it. but now he is but im ok cuz i know ill still see him. but he kept telling me, he was like we'll still see eachother...So i guess were just friends for now. but idk he smiles at me sometimes and i just fall for him even more. people thought we were dating and i guess someone asked him if we were and i know he doesnt like when people think that. but he used to tell me he loved me(idk if he was just joking) but id say it back and hed be like eww and turn away then say jk. but idk what to do. we talk everyday its usually him that starts the conversations. so i love him. idk what id do without him and when i think about that i just dont want to live. but ill do anything to make sure that im friends with him if thats all i can have. but i feel like he cares about me. maybe he likes me what do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, yorzx +, writes (3 July 2009):
yorzx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionturns out i was completely wrong about everything except one. and thats that i cant be friends with him if hes with someone else.
i dont know if you know but when you love someone and they do something that hurts you, you really do feel something in your heart. i know you probably think its cliche but right now i feel like my heart dropped out of my chest. and i just dont want to ever see him again. its not anger, i dont know what this feeling is. i cant cry. i feel like i just got shot.
i mean he told me that he doesnt love me. just to get back at me for something i did which was nothing like that. he knows how much i love him and he shouldnt have told me anything. i would rather have not even known. he told me that he met this girl that likes him. and he likes her too. i mean theyre not together yet but just wait. i want him to be out of my life and i never want to hear about him because if i do hear something about it later i wont be able to live.
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reader, yorzx +, writes (23 June 2009):
yorzx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys so much. Nothing has really changed, hes kind of mad at me right now for something stupid i did but its nothing big. If anything its making our friendship (which is all we have going right now) stronger.
I totally agree with you that young relationships can be stupid and not mean anything. At this point I really love what we have and I'm not even sure that i want an actual relationship right now. I just love being friends with him but in that weird way that we have it.
Its just that if were just friends, well i get so jealous even when he talks to anyone else(idk why; its terrible) but if he ever had someone else, a girlfriend or boyfriend, I wouldn't be able to handle it.
I am sort of confused right now because I have a little crush on another guy but it's nothing like how i feel for the other guy.
But pretty much everything is about the same. It's summer now so we haven't been talking everyday but that's probably because he's mad at me. But things are ok
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (20 May 2009):
 years from now you might be together and maybe you will both have gained experience and be more mature. young relationships are often over quickly.
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reader, yorzx +, writes (18 May 2009):
yorzx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys. Nothing new yet. But I'm happy with what we have right now. I'd rather have friendship than nothing at all. So I'm ok.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (18 May 2009):
sound like he has a mature understanding of how feelings and life choices often lead to conflict within your head.
if he gets with you then leaves you're not gonna be happy and neither is he.
i think he does like you but much more than as a trashy short term fling and that this respect is what is putting him off. just remember that life is about time and places. it doesn't matter what choice you make just where and when. this is whats known as window of opportunity.
good luck and hold tight
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reader, loveloveloveduh +, writes (17 May 2009):
i think he likes you too but he just doesnt want to break your heart by leaving.
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