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writes:my best friend's ex gf reavels she 'likes' me after breaking up with him. although i like her too, she says we can't date because of the fact that she wants to leave in peace. what should I do to convince her to give ourselves a chance? i'd appreciate some advice.
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reader, Prophet7  +, writes (17 May 2009):
Who do you value more, your bestfriend or his ex? If he had a serious relationship with her I know you would destroy your friendship with him by dating her. The last thing your bestfriend wants to think about is you being intimate with his ex. There are plenty of other girls who you could have a good time with besides your friends ex. Don't cross the line with her because once the line is crossed there is no turning back. Be smart, leave her alone. If you really feel the need to pursue her know that you risk losing your friendship with your boy. Put yourself in his shoes. How would you feel if he pursued your ex that you cared for? Do the right thing and be a good friend to your boy. Hope my advice helps you. God Bless... Prophet7
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (17 May 2009):
I think in these situations shes doing the right thing so maybe you should go with that? on the other hand you could talk to your best mate? its always very risky and it doesnt usally work out the way you wanted theres always that arkwardness that could end your friendship completely.
It sometimes goes that way we dont get what we want but for all the right reasons, its your best mate so maybe you should leave it. If shes said its not right then theres not a lot you can do i doubt your mate is likely to give you his blessing and it should never come down to choosing, seriously get out of this one before it begins.
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reader, iluver +, writes (17 May 2009):
tell your bf, ask him if its ok and DO NOT FORGET to tell him that she doesnt want this to be a problem. tell him what she told you and make sure he understands. the worst he could say would be no, and dont ruin your friendship if he does. ; )
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reader, arie +, writes (17 May 2009):
 though u really like her is is not a good friend to go out with your bestfrinds ex. after all there is a reason why u and your bestfriend are bestfriends so u must think alike so if their relationship didnt work out it probley wont for you.
but some bestfriends are leniont so ur next option would be to get your bestfriends opinion to go with her and if the answer is no, you need to find another girl sorry to say because bestfriends are hard to find and i know you would not want to mess that up over a girl ok. hope u like my advice and good luck and godbless
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