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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:over the past 5 months I have been having an on and off relationship with my boyfriend. Although he's been acting really off lately and hardly talks to me anymore, leaving me to start conversations. I've asked him if he's okay and he seems fine. I used to be completely crazy about him although now I know I don't love him anymore, but I don't want to lose him and I have no idea how he feels. The problem is I think I am starting to get feelings for a good friend who I have known for longer and who I speak to all the time, but he has a girlfriend. ALSO I used to like my guy best friend, although my feelings for him faded but now I feel as if they're coming back again. I usually hate confronting people or telling them how I feel but I really have no idea what I should do or who I should talk to. Thanks in advanced (:
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reader, iSmil3y  +, writes (17 May 2009):
You need to tell your boyfriend the truth about how you feel and maybe he'll open up and tell you anything if he's hiding any feelings. As for the other guys, they're called crushes and I agree with the first answer, if you have feelings for someone else and are losing feelings for your boyfriend, then tell him the truth. Do NOT go out and cheat on him because it'll just make the situation a lot worse than it already is. Good luck.
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reader, chickchick +, writes (17 May 2009):
 it looks like you were using other people to fill up what he isn't giving you. Just think what it would be like without him and weather you WANT to be with him. In the end of the day if this is making you sad then its nto good for you. you dont have to tell him about the other boys but see how things go after if you split up or not. if you can't leave him then dont. make more of an effort and pay more attention to him.Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): I personally thik ur too young to be having all of these feeling for so many people. They're called crushes calm down. I wouldn't lead on ur bf if u don't like him anymore dump him but in a nice way. They way ur going can't be any good and i think u should stray away from relationships until ur older. You don't need a guy to feel complete and u should focus on studies.
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reader, iluver +, writes (17 May 2009):
tell him how you feel. if you need to end it, or “take a break” then just stay freinds. whatever you do, dont cheat on him.
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