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writes:hi.. well im 17, ive been with my boyfriend now for 7 weeks! not long i know.. and we havent slept together. we're both virgins.. he's 20.. but recently ive started having scary dreams, ive had about 6 now. im pregnant in them and im living as if its real life. apart from being pregnant! its really weird.. why am i getting these? i dont want to be pregnant in real life. i dont wana a baby! but do you think my mind is trying to tell me something? has anyone else ever had this? whats goin on? can anyone help please? sorry that its not a relationship question!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): Pregnancy in dreams can sometimes represent something new on the horizon, something exciting and different - you are thinking of losing your virginity soon so that makes sense. In a dream, it always helps to think of all the people in the dream as a manifestation of yourself. You are giving birth to a new part of yourself, a new sexual part. Or, more literally, you're nervous about actually being pregnant.I actually always dream of being pregnant when big changes are happening or are about to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): The human mind is a powerful and unpredictable thing. It's not trying to tell you the future (if that's what your thinking). But it could mean you're just afraid of becoming pregnant and you may not be ready for sex. But there's always birth control and/or condoms to consider
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reader, lah mouw  +, writes (7 June 2009):
 just because you're pregnant in your dreams doesn't mean you want to be in real life. Although it does have to do with something your subconscious mind is trying to connect with how you're feeling. find a dream dictionary online or in a library or bookstore and look it up. It's pretty useful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): Dreams are crazy and I tend to think that they're meaning alters from person to person. I've had bad dreams for years.. never good ones. They feed on my fears. Are you afraid of getting pregnant or of losing your virginity? Do you feel like you're overstraining yourself while he does nothing to contribute? Some dreams are blatent: I'm afraid of this.. other are metaphors. For instance: Some people have rape dreams. In some cases, it's because they have been raped and they haven't gotten over it. In other cases, they are having issues in thier lives that make them feel vulnerable and taken advantage of. Just think hard and long about your life, the people in it, and the way you feel about it all and see if you can't draw a conclusion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): I think your mind is saying the same thing your brain is... your scared of getting pregnant... which I believe means maybe your not ready for the responsibility of having sex and risking getting pregnant... our subconcious can weigh on us quite a bit. Think of it as a big test. When we are freaked out by something that is all we can think about from morning to night. and at night those thoughts can manifest into dreams. relax... and realize that your not ready for the responsibility that comes with having sex. its ok.
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