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Where to go to sow wild oats?

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Question - (7 June 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 June 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, *oneranger117 writes:

I graduate next year and am inexperienced sexually. I have been saving money to go abroad and see the world. Since I won't be near my hometown anymore, I'm wanting to sow some wild oats, have fun, party, meet some girls. I'm thinking to visit England, Germany, Italy, Argentina, Brazil or Australia. Does anyone know what the casual dating scene (not looking for relationships) is like in one or more of these countries? Any places where girls like/dislike Americans? Any tips or advice appreciated too!

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (7 June 2009):

Danielepew agony auntSo you want to have sex in different countries. Well, that's your thing. I think you've been given advice about the dating scene, which, by the way, I can't give you since I haven't even been to those countries. However, I'm curious. What prevents you from sowing your wild oats at home?

It's your thing, but I would recommend that you use a condom.

Americans are loved and hated all over the world. Depending on who you talk to. However, I have met many people who were very outspoken about getting even with "the enemies of mankind", as they called them, yet were quick to marry and have relationships with them. Maybe they wanted to sleep with the enemy?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (7 June 2009):

I'm going to add to what Army Medic said...

Dating in the UK is VERY different to the US.

If you ask a girl out then you are going out with her. Only her. There is no being "non-exclusive" at the beginning unless you say to her that this is what you want to do. As long as you are honest and say you are not after a relationship, just a friendly short term thing, or a casual sex thing, or a one night thing, then that's fine. She can take it or leave it. But be up front.

If you want casual sex then just go out into a nightclub and take condoms with you.

Also, stay away from topics like politics. Not sexy, and you won't win.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (7 June 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntYou come from the most hated country in the world... Most people will dislike Americans, especially ones who think they can shag their way around the world with very little insight.

Germany and Holland have very relaxed rules on prostitution I think that is your best bet as not many European girls will want to have sex with an American virgin!

And my top tips for your visit: Use condoms and say you are from Canada (you are more likely to get laid if they think you aren't an American)

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