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*indy888
writes:I have this problem with my new boyfriend. We have been having sex and I just can't feel anything and its very frustrating for both of us. It's not his size, he's completely normal, but I think I may be getting too wet or something. Is this normal? BTW, before him I haven't had sex for a year, would this effect anything? I've tried kegles and I don't know if me being too wet has anyting to do with it? Is it because I haven't had sex for awhile? Pleasse help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, cindy888 +, writes (7 June 2009):
cindy888 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmale reader, thank you for that and I was thinknig it might be psychologicial b/c its been awhile, thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): from a guy...I would conjecture that you are not in sync during sex. i.e. the psychological you is way behind (in time) the physical you. For a woman, all parts must be in sync to experience pleasure.For you, sex may need to begin with thinking, talking and playing around a couple of hours (or maybe a day or week) before you even get undressed. We are all different. Do whatever it takes for you to be in sync. I guess in plain language you need to be very, very horny well before undressing.
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reader, cindy888 +, writes (7 June 2009):
cindy888 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, I am numb while we are having sex and I have not been able to reach an orgasm
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