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anonymous
writes:My husband(28) and I(27) have been together for 3 years in the beging we had GREAT sex all the time. Then i got pregnant 4 months into our relashiop and we couldnt have sex due to complactions in the pregnancy. Once i had the baby and we were able to have sex he would pop in a few mins and its been like this ever since. We have tried almost everything and nothing seems to work it has come to the point i dispies him and have hate for him yet still love him. I just want nothing to do with him sexualy i have not orgasamed in 2 years or more our marriage is starting to pay the price for it and i dont know what to do anymore he has not been to a doctor cause we cant afford it please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): So - he is ejaculating prematurely, have I got that right?You say you have tried everything, I guess you have tried using condoms to desensitize his penis then. Some other suggestions for him I could make are (1) masturbate with a condom on, and practice getting close to ejaculation then stopping himself, then continuing, and stopping, and so on. Ways to 'stop himself' include letting go of his penis and concentrating on something mundane, and another is pressing at the base of his penis just above his balls. You can do this to him too by giving him oral sex, then stopping to press on him there and perhaps kiss him a bit, then continue. Suggestions for you would be what an earlier reader suggested - masturbate to relieve your sexual tension, and even masturbate before you are about to have sex so you can come earlier. If you have trouble feeling aroused to the point of orgasm during sex, this article might provide a few tips: http://www.sextoyspy.com/ShowSexMasterArticle.aspx?ID=39
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (8 June 2009):
 Masturbate to relieve some of your urges, then when you feel ready sex will be easier for both of you as you'll feel more relaxed. Don't forget that sex isn't just about the orgasm, its about the closeness. Tell your pertner how you feel. X
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